A week after my parent return from their 2nd honeymoon 2 years ago, they told me that they want to invite a lovely married couple to join us. They're in love with this couple (uncle James & aunt Sally), My mother to uncle James & my father to aunt Sally. But they'll going to divorse. Just join the 2 couple as one. I wasn't agree that time, i felt it's a weird thing, but they convince me, they told me that each man will have 2 wives and each woman will have 2 husbands, and I'm going to have 2 moms and 2 dads. They're look so happy togather, Uncle James & aunt Sally are so nice, they care for each other as they care for me too. My mother already gave birth a beatiful baby girl for uncle James, the sister i always wanted, and Aunt Sally still 5 months pragnant, we all hope it'll going to be my dad's. A lot of love and joy fill our home. We don't want this to end. Can we? can my dad marry aunt Sally and my mom marry uncle James without divorsing the previous spouse? please advise
2006-11-15 15:56:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this sounds like a really weird living situation that you should have never been brought into. no they can't all get married to each other...its against the law, i think its called piligamy or bigamy...something like that.
2006-11-15 16:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your household is putting you in an poor position. I even could say, it is fairly puzzling that that they had want to ascertain both of you replace some variety of vows, even as the really ones that count number have already been taken. Is it about them having an major position? i have only not in any respect heard of oldsters desiring this. they are frequently those reminding a pair that new vows do not take the position of that major second once you develop into guy and spouse. Vow renewals are frequently on major anniversaries, like 10 or 20. The couple writes new vows that duplicate any adjustments because the first ones (like children) and makes new can provide. they have a tendency to be smaller activities. You do look to comprehend that re-do's are tacky, yet in spite of in case you forego the poofy costume, it is nonetheless going to look like some variety of re-do, fantastically after really 2 years, and when you consider that you eloped. in the journey that your moms and dads or whomever imagine a second vow substitute is that major, then I propose you tell them you'll invite them over for dinner some nighttime and do it. in the journey that they merchandise, then they have causes for desiring this that are literally not very cool. for my area, i'd be telling them no.
2016-11-24 21:57:49 · answer #2 · answered by fahner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to check out some polygamy sites for this. They have a "fake" wedding where they go thru everything it is just not legal but, in there eyes it is. Read up on polygamy. Yes it can work if that is the beliefs of all 4 adults.
2006-11-15 16:04:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Legally they cannot marry the other while they are still married to each other. But if they want to practice polygamy that is there choice as long as it doesn't hurt anyone or nobody is involved unwillingly.
2006-11-15 16:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of hippy BS is this?
BTW you can not get married again if you are still already married. The second marriage will not be recognized by the state or probably anyone else.
2006-11-15 16:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It wouldn't be a legal union, Wow, that must be a very confusing situation.
2006-11-15 16:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not legally.
2006-11-15 15:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not legal in the USA I don't know about anywhere else.
2006-11-15 15:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by suagr_britches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's kinda f*cked up!
2006-11-15 16:08:50 · answer #9 · answered by *~*~*~* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋