I was in contact with a lady from this site and it was leading up to a possible affair. She is married but in an open relationship. I am married but in a nonsexual way. I broke it off because she has kids and now I am wondering if I did the right thing or not.
2006-11-15 16:09:23 · 11 answers · asked by unionjack07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you did the right thing....congratulations because you know how to stand up for what is right....
2006-11-15 16:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all nobody is married but with an open relationship, and or nobody is married but in a nonsexual way. If you are married but not sexually that's because you chose it or you agreed to it this does not however give you the right to sleep with anyone else. Either way you look at it it's infidelity and wrong, and not mention IMMORAL! I think you need to divorce your wife because you want sex or stay with her because you agreed to it. And your potential ex ONLINE girl needs to realize that if she's gonna be in an open relationship she needs to have a divorce decree.
2006-11-16 00:48:00 · answer #2 · answered by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married, don't even think about it! Of course it is good that you broke it off with her. Just get divorced if you don't want to be married anymore, that way you can flirt and have relationships without committing adultery (which is against the Bible).
2006-11-16 00:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by *~*~*~* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a moral standpoint, it is not right. It is sensually tempting to be in a relationship with a married woman with kids, but you will ultimately pay the price both emotionally and materially. Would you be pleased if someone was balling your wife, even if you are not sexually active with her?. If your answer could be yes, then I pity you and have nothing further to say.
2006-11-16 00:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is supposed to be a lifelong committment. It is supposed to make two people one so to speak. So, yes you did the right thing because an affair is nothing but trouble.
2006-11-16 00:13:38 · answer #5 · answered by limemountain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I believe you did the right thing. Being in extramarital relationships is nothing but trouble AND it is a sin.
2006-11-16 00:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by Amber 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's married? Of course you did not the right thing but just for the wrong reason.
2006-11-16 00:16:59 · answer #7 · answered by texasue77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are married then, yes you should have broke it off. Adultery is a SIN.
2006-11-16 00:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by ladybug041180 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. BOTH OF YOU ARE MARRIED. REGARLESS OF WHAT THE SITUATION IS.
THERE ARE OTHER PEOPLE TO CONSIDER. GOOD
FOR YOU.
2006-11-16 00:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes ,you did the right thing
2006-11-16 09:09:21 · answer #10 · answered by ladybug 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋