Marriage & Divorce - 17 November 2006

"I cheated on my spouse and now I want to know if I should tell them"....I read that everyday here in Answers and just wonder why anyone would want to tell their spouse. I say cheat, enjoy, and keep your mouth shut!

2006-11-17 23:42:38 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

What should i do?

My father divorced his first wife because she cheated on him on with my dads cousin. My dad remarried, from where i came from! :D

But growing up with this knowledge makes me feel insecure in that - what if it happens to me? - what if history repeats itself? I have trusted girlfriends that i have had fully, but i gues i know they werent for long term, but when i do get married, i think i might not fully trust her, i know in my heart, i would carry out the vows i take until death do us apart, but what if she doesnt? - In this day and age its so easy to stray, friend, colleague, etc etc.

Even a kiss, for example if something happened accidently after a few drinks, perhaps i worry too much, think too much, and should just go with the flow, but is that life? - going with the flow is half hearted approach.

I dont know whats the way to change my view on this, what are your views?

2006-11-17 23:33:58 · 18 answers · asked by City Guy 1

I spoke to my ex and I also pay support every week what is my next step?

2006-11-17 23:33:23 · 13 answers · asked by paco 1

2006-11-17 23:29:50 · 2 answers · asked by Jackie M 1

about it's personality; cycology; thinking ability

2006-11-17 23:24:09 · 10 answers · asked by lavesh saini 1

2006-11-17 23:16:03 · 6 answers · asked by kaps 1

ok here is the deal we have been married 3 years now and physically I have not changed any, well groomed and clean,aside from the sex issue we have a great relationship talk and laugh and have a goodtime no matter what we are doing, but he just does not ever seem interested in having sex unless I bring it up and then when we do it is great but we can go months without it if I don't mention it, of course he is more than happy to receive a bj in the car if he is feeling randy but nothing beyond that, I have talked to him about this and he says he loves me and feels that I am sexy and that I turn him on but no matter how many times we talk about it nothing changes it's like we never talked at all and I know he masturbates in the morning I have caught him doing it, he does not know that I know, I asked him if he masturbates and he said no and I know he is lying about it. I do not believe he is cheating on me just due to our work and the time we spend together I mean it is always possiable but I don't think that is it. please help, I just don't know what to do anymore. thank you

2006-11-17 23:15:53 · 16 answers · asked by Christal D 1

i went to detroit to waterblast these 3 600 yard long tunnels and like hurt my back trying to git er done you know and had to go to the chiropractor to crack my back then i came home early on the job they are pissed cuz i left at work the boss is mad whos right?
me or them

2006-11-17 23:15:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Catholic priest, Marriage or Not Marriage?

2006-11-17 23:11:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-17 23:07:21 · 3 answers · asked by katty b 1

Feeling like my wife and I are pulling apart..I love her very much..not sure she feels the same ...she doesn't ever answer my question about where we stand..What should I do ?

2006-11-17 22:52:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

happily married and children but you find someone in office very irresistable and you almost love him. he too is happily married. you donot want to end your marriage, you love your husband n kids you are happy. but you want this one too. you donot want to ruin his life and family too? Do you tell him your feelings? yes or no.

2006-11-17 22:49:11 · 32 answers · asked by khushi 2

2006-11-17 22:11:22 · 2 answers · asked by justme 2

how do i boost my husband self esteem... he is always worried that i am gonna do him wrong.. and it kills me that he doesnt have the self esteem to think that he is tooo good to be cheated on... i mean i wouldnt have married him if he wasnt amazing to me... i try a bunck of things... eg.. having no life.. playing dress up... telling him i love him constantly... always doing lil things to make him smile.. is there anything else i can do to make him feel better about himself... ps.. i always tell him how great he is in bed.. which im not lying about...

2006-11-17 22:03:19 · 12 answers · asked by red.one9luv 2

2006-11-17 21:58:48 · 1 answers · asked by Jexf 2

my wife is an amazing lady. rock solid. pillar of strength and support. excellent comrade. good mother. obviously she has many negatives. like - she is headstrong. sometimes seems insensitive, harsh and uncaring.
but, i love her. or atleast i like to think so. atleast, i respect her a gr8 deal, and like her a lot.
so, i don't want to see her in pain.
we haven't had sex in last 8 years - since the time she conceived our first child.
i am a hungry animal :-) in this area. atleast with a voracious and varied appetite.
and i hv fought my urge to go out and find a quencher, for 8 years.
but now, it is becoming difficult to help myself in dousing my fires.
any brilliant ideas?

2006-11-17 21:57:33 · 12 answers · asked by advasha 1

2006-11-17 21:54:32 · 11 answers · asked by John D 1

cheating men do n dont's

2006-11-17 21:31:56 · 5 answers · asked by nikki_girlsixx 1

Associate with open racists?

2006-11-17 21:30:04 · 12 answers · asked by Direktor 5

My ex-wife is dating this guy which they have been dating for 10 months... He has a son of his own who is 14 years old, he never see's him nor pays child support.. He is rarely around my kids, i have a 10 and 5 year old. My daughter which is 5, had a thanksgiving feast day at school and the parents were invited to attend, i was offshore so i could not make it.. My ex goes and brings her boyfriend with her. Should i confront her about this r ignore it.. I think it was very inapropiate!!!! The last thing i want her to think is me being jealous of her bringing her boyfriend to my daughters classroom...

2006-11-17 21:20:37 · 14 answers · asked by take-it 1

I have a moody husband who always change his mind and never settle on one idea , that day we went to the mall and I wanted to buy some stuff and he was like `` I feel sick can we go home ?`` or `` eew don’t buy this no don’t buy that its horrible lets just go back home`` last night I told him that I am going with my friend to visit a friend in another state and he said `` yea it’s a good idea go and have fun `` its 5AM now and he wake me up just to tell me that I shouldn’t go because he don’t feel so comfortable and if I go he will not forgive me WHAT SHOULD I DO I am tired of this , he always promise me and do nothing

2006-11-17 21:08:22 · 13 answers · asked by mimi ^____^ 2

There was a time when she was beautiful. Now she looks 80 years old, weighs 80 lbs. Friends got together, I shared the advice
from an eariler question. We talked to her. She says she smokes
$200 a day of crack. Last week one of her girl friends put her in
her car, tried to take her to rehab., she jumped out ran down in the
woods and climed up a tree. She still says she peeps out the window, scared someone is coming to get her, and gets in the closet thinking someone is coming to rape her, when she smokes crack. Nothing we say seems to work. We told her at least get
help to be their for your children, which social services has taken
away, Some say she want be alive much longer.Is it too late?

2006-11-17 21:00:35 · 13 answers · asked by CODY 2

Why do people don't care when you love them and can't be without you if you don't care? And, in a relationship, how maintain the balance between those two things?

2006-11-17 20:59:13 · 10 answers · asked by Sabs 1

Intimacy, not the physical kind. How do I have it in my life if I don't regularly see people for an established mutual purpose? Most of my communication consists of one time exchanges, and nothing further is needed to be exchanged leaving huge gaps of downtime which I don't enjoy. Without this intimacy, I feel friendless and insecure in the world. I guess I grew up learning to depend on verbal intimacy or bonding as a buoy for self-esteem; an indicator that I was worthy to share intimate details with. I came to depend on it as a way to feel good about myself and now I have to unlearn that and find a substitute. I've gone so far as to trade sexual intimacy in hopes of some verbal kind of intimacy which didn't happen.

I feel rejected when I don't have an outlet where I can share the intimate details of the happenings in my life no matter how irrelevant or insignificant they may be to the listener's life. By sharing, I validate my existence. Am I going overboard in some way?

2006-11-17 20:58:32 · 8 answers · asked by good luck 1

my commonlaw husband thinks it is ok to continueously grope me. even public when he wants to run his finger across my crotch he does. it bothers me and I feel very disrespected and violated. He says I should be happy that he wants me all the time. what do you think

2006-11-17 20:54:37 · 22 answers · asked by corinne_29_ 3

2006-11-17 20:46:37 · 14 answers · asked by Alex B 2

How can you love someone and use a act of love on someone
else? Does it really make a relationship better or worse?

2006-11-17 20:43:38 · 9 answers · asked by KEN DOG 1

2006-11-17 20:32:29 · 4 answers · asked by christine c 1

You are a white man and your wife is black and you have one child together and another on the way.You meet another white guy and make friends with him.He calls you one night and while talking on the phone to him you overhear him and his girlfriend jeering "f*cking Ni**er!" and other racial slurs at a black guy tat drove past them in a nice truck.When you ask him why he says this he answers angrily"cause he must think he's special in a nice truck! he still ****!"?You ask him if he's racist,he says why.You reply that you dont like that languageused toward people he says"What is your wife BLACK or something?" in a joking manner.You say yes she is and he scoffs in surprise like he cant believe it...then says"I guess I should have said "negro".He makes a comment that he should have hisgirlfriend call your home and ask for you.You tell him you dont/wont tolerate disrespect to yur home or family.He claims he's just joking and makes an excuse to getoff the phone.How would you handle this?

2006-11-17 20:30:02 · 13 answers · asked by Direktor 5

2006-11-17 20:26:27 · 10 answers · asked by dontmentionit 1