Marriage & Divorce - 21 November 2006

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2006-11-21 23:58:47 · 22 answers · asked by Silkie1 4

hMy husband and I had tried the swinging lifestyle for a short time with some people we had become friends with. I never thought I could do something like that but the other man and I did hit it off. My husband and I decided this wasn't for us but we stayed friends with the other couple. I had talked to the guy many times before on the phone on and off that was ok with my husband sometimes then he'd change his mind and it wasn't ok. He does not trust me and I am home now I had worked for 11 years outside the home. I'm here 24/7 , My friend who's husband was my partner, she fears has a thing for me and me him. My husband fears the same.So now when I go off and he is not in from work yet, and he drives a truck, she calls to see if I'm home. I went to a friends house last night. I call my husband and he acts funny because he was out of town for his job, so she can't get her husband on the cell phone so she calls my husban . I'm a prisoner in my own home help!!! I can't go anwhere anymore

2006-11-21 23:50:17 · 11 answers · asked by missy j 2

WHAT IS LOVE ?

2006-11-21 23:48:48 · 4 answers · asked by jimmyking_khan 1

I have been married for 11 years and have 3 kids. Now my wife wants to be separated. I dont get it. Why is it so easy to give up?

2006-11-21 23:48:02 · 9 answers · asked by Quinton S 2

My husband says that all men enjoy looking at naked bokies and sex and that if they say they don't they are lying. I find this hard to believe. I also find it annoying and disrespectful but he says it doesn't have anything to do with relationships or who you are with it is normal and healthy. Men do you all think this way? Women do you mind this behavior?

2006-11-21 23:41:31 · 18 answers · asked by Trisha 5

If a couple files for an annulment does this mean their kids are bastards?

Why do people get an annulment when they can get a divorce or vise versa?

Why is an annulment okay and a divorce is not religiously? Like if you file for a divorce you get shunned out of the church(?)

2006-11-21 23:39:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

He called again, I came back. Was with him for almost 8 weeks, then the other came back, he threw me away like a piece of trash. Told me he NEVER want to speak to me again. Because this time I would not give him money. This is about the 6 time I took him back, strange thing is I continue to question him this time. Maybe I knew. I just want the pain to stop and specially the revenge!! I would just love to get even with him and her. Will I ever stop love that man?? and how can you be happy if all you think about is him??

2006-11-21 23:37:24 · 14 answers · asked by Pattie T 1

2006-11-21 23:35:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-21 23:32:27 · 10 answers · asked by Pattie T 1

2006-11-21 23:27:43 · 7 answers · asked by Niranjan 3

coz my sister has a boyfriend from america, she knew him on the mail order bride website

2006-11-21 23:25:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My Dad had an affiar with a girl from his work. while all the time he was flaunting it under mine and my brothers nose. he took us up to school every morning and picked her up alwell. he used to make us say good morning to her aswell. i was totally oblivious to it too. my mam kicked him out and he lived with our nanna. then she tragically died. he moved out with his girl freind and got a flat. he has a different job now and only see's me and my brother twice a week. i dont want too see him. but it kills to see my mam upset. she drinks heaverly but is seeing a cousler about it.
My anger consumes me and i used to cut myself alot. I hit my bed room furniture aswell. and when anyone asks what happend with my hands, I lie.
my freind cheer me up sometimes and i curently have a boyfreind. i dont want sypathy i just want idea's on how to vent my rage. i have tried karate, kick boxing... even football. it doesn't help

2006-11-21 23:20:32 · 22 answers · asked by sian_knowles 1

When me and my ex split it was very bitter,now she keeps makeing totally unfounded and unproved allegations of domestic violence against me.I never once layed a finger on her,in fact it was the other way around.She spreads gossip and rumours about me to her freinds and family and has even had the police arrest me about it,but droped the charge's and took no action because there was no evidence of her claims.Im takeing her to court because she wont let me have access to my son and im sure she's doing this to discredit me when we get to court.its been a long while now and she has not been able to prove a single thing that she "claims" i have done.Im sure her mother has a lot to do with this aswell.Is there any thing legal wise i can do to stop her making such allegations against me,and to stop spreading gossip and rumours about me?

2006-11-21 23:20:12 · 9 answers · asked by mike h 1

My sex drive is very high...higher than my spouse. He is very satisfied...I want more. I have told him so...but nothing has changed. I do not want another relationship...I just want to be satified sexually. For those that have been cheated on...how do you deal with it? For those that have cheated...what tipped you over the edge and what emotions follow? For those of you hanging in needing more...how do you manage? I just do not know what to do but I know I need and want more. I want to know how it effects all involved. Please...I need serious, mature and helpful answers.

2006-11-21 23:13:27 · 16 answers · asked by KaLee 2

I grew up very conservative strict home environment. did not have many boyfriends before I got married. After 21yrs of being cheated on by my husband i am now busy divorcing him. however, i have a very high sex drive and although i dont want another man in my life now, i feel that i have the urge to want to sleep with male friends who I know have a liking in me. They are also divorced,except 1 who is still married. I desire the married one and one of the single guys. I have slept with the married guy and feel awful as this is what happened in my marriage, but I cant seem to help myself. please help is this normal?

2006-11-21 23:12:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

when will they stick to one?

2006-11-21 23:09:46 · 23 answers · asked by Yoo Hoo! 2

2006-11-21 23:02:50 · 23 answers · asked by khushi 1

2006-11-21 23:02:01 · 8 answers · asked by deji o 1

My husband and I will be celebrating our 20th on janurary 2nd and I need suggestions. we always spend new years in biloxi so we will already be out of town but would like to get or do something really special. So what would or did you do for your 20th anniversary?

2006-11-21 23:00:10 · 3 answers · asked by lQQking 1

She told me that she wanted a boob job. I told her that we cannot afford it and that she should rub toilet paper between her boobs and that would do the trick. She asked why toilet paper and I told her that it made her A.s.s grow big. Now she is mad at me and does not see the humor in this.

2006-11-21 22:57:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-21 22:50:34 · 14 answers · asked by K. I L 2

Can anyone help me?

2006-11-21 22:45:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had a STD test a year ago, had all negative. Recently had a test again and they found several STD deseases (garderella and clamidia). My husband assures me that he didn't cheat. I don't beleive him as we had same situation 5 years ago. My question is should I forgive him. We are married 14 years and we have a son. I am not even angry with him I feel only emptyness and tireness.

2006-11-21 22:25:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anar Y 1

I am 22(Tall and strong). When I was of 19, once my neighbour(F-41, Separated) called me for some work at 1:00 p.m.. I entered and there was no body.Suddenly i saw that one hot CD was running. I just seen it for 5 minutes and she came and locked the door and without saying anything she started to do oral to me. She was doing it very badly like a thirsty person. I could not protect myself at that time. After an hour we left. After a week she meet me in the market and told that what is wrong if i allow the same. I agreed to her and we are doing it almost regularly. I don't know why i committed and why she is doing to me? Whether she will be doing to anyone else?whether i should continue? Lot of questions in my mind. Pls Answer.

2006-11-21 22:24:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

This weekend the kids will be staying with the grandparents, like they did about this time last year. That weekend I turned him on by wearing nothing but a pair of black flip-flops, going about my usual business in the house. My question is, what can I do this year? I think he might be expecting something, although the flip-flop routine might be boring two years in a row. Nothing too expensive, nothing too transforming and nothing that involves a third person. I don't mind being a bit slutty (for him), but nothing that degrades me. Any ideas? Thanks!

2006-11-21 22:06:53 · 14 answers · asked by kitten_brunette_gemini 1

Sometimes in relationships we can get swallowed up by our partners annoying habits, but i find that when people get together and have a moan about their respective partners it shows that every relationship has its problems and it makes you feel beta, so lets just have a moan and a laugh!!!!!

2006-11-21 21:58:51 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've known my ex gf for 5 yrs or so. Last year she broke up with me bcoz supposedly, I wasn't giving her what she needed. We are from different cultures. I made an effort to change &I pursued her trying to make it up to her..
Then two months later she contacted me we shared alot of intimacy. It was like being in the relationship without the sex. And I was doing most of the giving (emotionally). Then she dumped me again, out of the blue.
She recontacted me about 2 months ago. She was going thru family and health problems and I was there for her. We had some laughs, then 2 days ago she dropped the bomb:

She told me she had a one night stand with a guy she met in a club about 2 weeks after she dumped me. I am devastated. How do I forgive her? How do I get over this?

Its hard bcoz I was loyal. And I thought we had something special worth saving.

Please no answers that say: "BONE SOMEONE ELSE". I'd like to hear a female view.

2006-11-21 21:56:11 · 12 answers · asked by gio 2

me and my wife have been married for 10 yrs she has recently lost a lot of weight but before this we were very happy she now tells me she doesnt fancy me any more and doesnt no if she wants to be with me she can be very nasty to me with words which in turn causes me to get very moody and hurt i have tried talking but it seems she doesnt want to know i have asked if there is anyone else which she says there isnt i sometimes feel that we should try and work it out perhaps its a phaze but she left her first husband for exactly the same reason

2006-11-21 21:55:13 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is loving and caring when he is around. Problem is that he has become a workaholic in the past few months and spends weeks travelling the planet for his career. Meanwhile, I am home, 6-months pregnant, and caring for a 2 year old all alone and far from any family. To make matters worse, my career is staled due to visa issues (I have a degree from a world famous university). I feel pretty helpless. How would you feel about this?

2006-11-21 21:52:39 · 9 answers · asked by gnogni 2

i am unhappy, i love my husband but he does not make me happy in any way, he is so selfish and inconsiderate he never thinks of me, every thing is so stuffed up, i remember being so in love with him i would do anything but now i am considering leaving him but at the same time i don't want to, he is older than me as acts it i want to be able to live life to the fullest, how do I enjoy life and have my husband

2006-11-21 21:34:32 · 17 answers · asked by redds 2