Marriage & Divorce - 21 November 2006

2006-11-21 21:03:28 · 15 answers · asked by apple 2

The average wedding costs $25,000US. More, if like many you borrow money to pay for it. That's a new car bought and paid for!

If your in a solid commited relationship, why marry and who do you think benefits from marrying?

2006-11-21 20:58:43 · 8 answers · asked by Cdn_Superdave 4

If today was your Birthday what would you expect your hubby or wife to do for you? State ur age, and how long have you been married, 10 points for the best.

2006-11-21 20:52:36 · 15 answers · asked by ~*Jenny*~ 4

After finally having enough of my ex refusing to pay to support his children, i have decided to set up a web page of absent PARENTS who neglect their maintenance duties. What do you think and would u be prepared to contribute a photo or just basic details of a name and when they last paid (if they ever did!) I believe they are letting the genuine absent parents down and taking advantage of the csa's disrepair.

2006-11-21 20:48:59 · 18 answers · asked by sugar 2

I love a woman all my heart ( i'am french, with lebanese origin) I stay with this woman 1 years and 3 mounth, i love her strongly she is all for me. And one day she decide to leave me ( because in my job i chat with girl in internet, and sometimes we had some tenssion). 8 month i try to say to her i love u , i have change, i know that i love you, i cry i offer to her flower. Sometimes she said to me i don't want to retry with you because i'm affraid if its broke, and if its broke its for life, i wan't to wait, but 3 days later she said to me that she just say that in the moment now no, and say to me words like that. 8 month she is with a guy, she love the guy, but i love her so much. I don't know what to do, she change her phone number, and say to me i am not crasy to retry with you you are sick you are crasy, i don't want you! and talk to me like a dog. Its hard, i aloso see my ex with the guy, he is not beautifull but she love the guy. I love her advise me to try to have a 2 chance

2006-11-21 20:48:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-21 20:46:33 · 7 answers · asked by Kid Fro$ty / $up3rman 3

My son and DIL are married just over a year. they have a sweet baby and seem so much in love. I have a wonderful relationship with my DIL. Last night she called to tell me that my son is having an affair with another woman. What a fool he is! I'm so angry at him for throwing his little family away like this. DIL is coming to us, and I'm taking her side. I wonder how much should I even get involved. Our son is an idiout, but he is our son. What should I do?

2006-11-21 20:46:07 · 21 answers · asked by bluebyou 4

eg When there is a great imbalance in the Women/Men ratio.
Or when all parties are happy with it......
Some Religions are for it and some against.Why?

2006-11-21 20:42:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-21 20:37:41 · 10 answers · asked by Nimisha J 2

ive been with my g/f for 11yrs, we have 3 kids and i think its time. but what is the best way to ask?

2006-11-21 20:33:40 · 9 answers · asked by JOSEPH J 2

I'm 18 and i've been sleeping with a 37 year old married man ...he's sexy,smart and very wealthy...I want him to get a divorce but he doesn't want one because he's worried he'll have to pay TONS of money for child support and alimony,Even if he did he'd still have tons of money ....do you think he really wants to divorce her? Do you think i should tell his wife that we've been sleeping together???( i think i should) How should i tell her??? and if things don't work out for us is there a way i way i can sue him for emotional distress and get some of his money???or try to get myself pregnant??? since we've been together for 3 years i think i deserve something out of this

2006-11-21 20:18:16 · 22 answers · asked by @ubreY 3

Its not that she doesn't want them but (at a later date) she's really apprehensive about the responsibilites of having children since we're both full time working doctors and she loves her career. We both spend at least 12 hours away from home and she's worried that children will make life harder for her to handle. She's terrified of labour too, having handled so many labouring women herself and seen the things that can go wrong. How do I reassure her?

2006-11-21 20:06:33 · 11 answers · asked by DrSH 5

My husband goes through these phases that last a couple of months at a time where no matter what I say, he snaps at me. Then for a couple of months I'm the "greatest wife in the world". Today while running erands together we needed to make a left U-turn on a packed road at rush hour. The left turn lane was way backed up. I pointed to the right hand turn lane,which was empty, and at a light for easy turning and said "why don't you turn right and then come back through the light?" He snapped back "because the lane is all backed up, SWEETHART!" I took a little breath and replied that I knew the LEFT lane was backed up, that's why I told you to turn RIGHT and then easily come back through the light. He does this constantly. I'm at the point where I am either going to quit talking altogether or get snappy back. I'm afraid to go into ***** mode as there may be no return! Does this happen to anyone else? How do you handle it without becoming a crappy person, too?

2006-11-21 19:58:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years and we just had another baby 2 months ago, and I am practically down to my original weight, I have no stretch marks but he continues to have 101 excuses why he doesn't want to have sex. But when it comes to playing video games or downloading music, he has no problem staying up late. He has gone to bed hours early because he is too tired for sex, but why then the last two nights is he more than awake and well to play video games. He doesn't want to touch me hardly ever, sometimes I think he may not even be into women because I have always had compliments on my looks, even though I know that looks are not everything. I am 6 years younger than him, he is 30 and I would think that I try my best to be a good wife to him, I avoid nagging him, Why doesn't he want me anymore?? Why does he care more about playing with games than playing with me??

2006-11-21 19:45:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive been married for almost 2 years and it all started about 4 months ago I'm male and Ive tried to hide it but its become impossible my wife is started to see me as something less manly and now im having trouble getting an errection..please help

2006-11-21 19:35:35 · 12 answers · asked by Bazil 3

2006-11-21 19:23:26 · 8 answers · asked by csmb2_82 1

My boyfriend blows his nose , I am assuming into his hands, in the shower. It grosses me out. Not that I would break up with him because of it, but I am just wondering at what point men get so obviously comfortable around a woman to do gross stuff like that. geez. i guess his days of trying to impress me are over!

2006-11-21 19:11:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

it's really hard cause we have 2 kids and been togethr for more than 10 yrs i feel like ****.. sorry but no other way to explain.. please help!!!!!!!!!!!! don't know what to do

2006-11-21 19:10:47 · 11 answers · asked by anna 1

We're only year and a half married. We havent had sex in over a month. He says he's not happy in the marriage anymore, he says its not fun anymore. I know he still loves me but he's like a little boy and doesnt realise marriage takes work. He's just smoking weed and working. He knows i hate him smoking weed, mainly because my ex went into an assylum for smoking too much. Dont know wat to do. He seems to want to choose weed over me. I dont wanna be in a marriage without passion and sex or fire for the rest of my life, but i love him alot and want to make this work. Dont wanna nag him either to talk about it, so wat do i do? He's 11 years older, im 25 and not ugly... dont know wat happened. i'm usually the one being romantic, he doesntt put much effort in but he shows his love in other ways.. We havent spoke in few days now.

2006-11-21 19:09:04 · 12 answers · asked by Lady 2

2006-11-21 19:03:12 · 34 answers · asked by anna 1

My girlfriend is 7 months pregnant. Because of the Bias court system she dont beleive in taking child support and taking a man for everything he has and going through the headach of doing all that stuff, my girlfriend would like to voluntary give me SOLE CUSTODY of the child and relinquish her rights so " quote on quote" "IF" she ever decides to leave me in the future that I would not be responsable for anything because I would have the child in my possession. So basicly it would all fall on her. My question is, we live together and want to stay together and get married someday and i dont want child support from her if anything should ever happen. Can this be done??????

2006-11-21 18:59:45 · 9 answers · asked by bvzhandson 1

2006-11-21 18:59:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Elizabeth Cady Stanton once said that marriage was nothing more than legalized prostitution do you agree.

2006-11-21 18:48:59 · 11 answers · asked by Froggy_45 2

I am madly in love with this woman and her 2 wonderful kids she moved out of my house a month ago 2 days before she left I had asked her to marry me, she moved out then about 2 weeks later I had a stroke we still talked everyday on the phone or in person and she came to see me and said yes she wants to marry me, she says she loves me dont want to live without me. Why would it take me having a stroke and nearly dieing for her to finaly answer my proposal?? I am not sure about things at all now. I am afraid that she may pull the same crap again I dont know if she said yes out of guilt her thinking her leaving is why I had a stroke I dont know

2006-11-21 18:25:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married 17 years. He does not follow sports nor does he hunt or fish.

2006-11-21 18:17:20 · 13 answers · asked by MizElizabeth 3

I am a very needy person. Somehow I need attention ALL the time!!!!!! If we are at home I usually hug him all the time and try to talk to him all the time etc...I don't know what to do and I am driving my partner crazy! He says he needs more space and can't take it anymore! Help!! We have been together for 2 years and I love him very much.

2006-11-21 18:08:00 · 14 answers · asked by Danika B 1

I often shave down below. My two little buddies go wothout fur but the rest doesn't because of the red spots of shaving. Any one know how to prevent that. I don't mind the maintenece for my buddies but just above the other thing when rested sure does itch as soon as the hair grows back. Any proven ways to solve the problem?

2006-11-21 17:49:02 · 8 answers · asked by Notta 2

My husband and I have both decided a divorce is the best course of action at this point. There will be no contesting it or disputes about who gets who.That being said, what is the most cost effective way to file for a divorce if youre a low income couple?

2006-11-21 17:46:47 · 7 answers · asked by Jess 4

I'm willing to lay all my cards out on the table with her and see how we can work it out. But it seems that we have to much dert between us that she don't know how to forgive and forget and start off new. Me I'm willing to do that so we can ease the pain between us. To me I feel me and her don't think the same as to work things out.I try to speak calm to her but It seems that shes in so much rage, she don't know how to focus on the situation on hand. Thats why we are seprated now becuase I don't know how to deal with her. Lately, shes been showing up with hickes and doing some sort of scam to hurt me in any way. I just don't know why shes thinks thats going to make anything better. I've done my part as to be with an other but I don't throw it in her face like how she does with me.Tonight I talked to her asking why she does that. and she stated to pour her hart out and keep pointing the finger at me like everything is my falt.Do you think I can work it out or do you think it's no use?

2006-11-21 17:42:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-21 17:38:39 · 10 answers · asked by shiney 1