Marriage & Divorce - 24 November 2006

2006-11-24 23:57:59 · 22 answers · asked by Amazing Chloe 1

Nobody stays married for lengthy periods of time anymore. It seems that evey other person I encounter has been married and divorced atleast once, some two or three times. My own sister, for instance, is working on her third marriage. I'd be willing to bet that in another 25 years or so the "50th wedding anniversary" will have gone by the wayside. What do you think?

2006-11-24 23:51:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was in jail but she said she would faithfully wait however long it would be, I said if there was any doubt she couldn't to just move on and maybe I'd look her up when I was free. She insisted she loved me and would wait. After almost 2yrs I was free and moved in with her. I started working 3 weeks later and from that time on she started accusing me of cheating, it was progressive a little more every week but it got so absurd I was sure she'd stop. It got to the point were I couldn't handle it said I would move I tried on multiple occasions to explain how her absurd accusations and her checking up on me was affecting how I treated her, she got so bad I didn't wanna talk to her.So after a few months of trying I had enough moved out.She admitted having sex with a few men when our relationship was only sex, but supposedly monogamous.Told that her non stop accusations about me means she cheated? Or is it a mental imbalance? The accusations were constant yet often so impossible you laughed

2006-11-24 23:51:23 · 7 answers · asked by rrrrhhhhinsd 2

ok we had a baby 1 month ago and for 2 weeks now my hubby is acting strange. he never wants to spend time with me or even cuddle with me. when i go close to him he always says he is working on something on the computer so dont bother him. its so furstrating coz that happens every single time. and he never ever initiates anything. also i found a confirmation email in his yahoo account that he signed up for some dating website. when i asked him he said he didnt do it. does that even make sense coz in that account everything matches him except the name. Even the postal code matches. i am so frustraed i cry every day dont know what to do. i dont wanna get suspiciouse but all this is making me liek that . so do youthink he is talking to some other girl. he always comes home on time and hardly goes anywhere. spends time with baby a lot but not me. is it jsut hormones or am i right about him. he has been taking care of him hwo he looks sort of not really ..but still i am going crazy what todo

2006-11-24 23:48:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Husband left me 3 weeks ago. No cheating on either side. Told me I didn't pay enough attention to him & he's hurt too much to reconcile. Dropped blank divorce papers off 3 weeks ago for ME to fill out.
He called to wish me a happy thanksgiving. I admitted my wrongdoings. Told him I was consulting an attorney (I don't know what I'm doing). He went ballistic.

Then he calmed down. Started crying and crying. Told me to call him tomorrow to keep him company on his 6 hour drive home.

Is he being nice because he cares? Because he doesn't want me to sue his ***? Because he feels guilty for leaving me when I had no job & I had to drop some classes (emotionally devasated. I'm better now)?

2006-11-24 23:13:40 · 9 answers · asked by Calc44 1

I am a doctor in the US .with my level of IQ you'd think that i'd be able to tell when a girl is really into me and when she has an eye on my wallet. but the truth is that I have no clue.
There is this girl I met not too long ago. She is as sweet as can be but she has a lot of debts. She owes every credit card company. she likes expensive trips, expensive stuff,She dosent seem to care how she spends money. she wants the best in clothes and shoes even though she dosent earn that much. so it becomes a problem knowing if she wants me for me or she wants me for my money. Is there a defnitive test out there for me to find out one way or the other? I dont want to sound uptight or cheap. and I dont want to sound paranoid but I need help

2006-11-24 23:10:44 · 15 answers · asked by tof982003 1

I was married many times, and have two beautiful children, one boy, now 31, one girl now 26. Both are happily married, and have kids of their own, and all love me. Why does society expect me to be with another woman? I am happy all by myself. I've not met a female that is worthy of me, or my family.

2006-11-24 23:01:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 39 yo, a mother of three...a wife with an abundant life-my husband is working away from our country. Rescently i meet a batchmate from my high school years who filled my empty life with joy out of his companionship. we comitted no sexual attatchments but his extra loving qualities made me realize his importance in my life at the same time created some negative impact toward my husband who is not that expressive as my batchmate. A month ago my batchmate went out of the country to settle for a brighter living. I got depressed! got some pills but to no avail. Pls help... do i need to reveal the issue to my husband? he will surely not understand...

2006-11-24 23:00:26 · 7 answers · asked by sherry W 1

the divorce rate in countries that marry 4 love is more than 50%compared to countries that have arranged marriages which is less than 10%.

2006-11-24 22:46:56 · 16 answers · asked by the_one 2

2006-11-24 22:34:43 · 21 answers · asked by shobana s 1

2006-11-24 22:06:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just don't understand it! I found out my wife of 18 years had been cheating on me. Not once, but with 5 different men! I found out she was having psychological problems and tried to salvage our marriage. A big mistake. Now we are separated and she borrowed money from her parents to retain an attorney and is now trying to take my kids and everything else. I'm disabled and on a fixed income and she knows I can't afford a lawyer. She's accusing me of beating my son and having sex with my daughter! (NOT ONE BIT OF TRUTH!)
Somebody please explain to me how a women can be so heartless?

Signed,
dazed and confused

2006-11-24 22:00:14 · 8 answers · asked by fnytms 2

Please answer the following questions!

A. What makes a man not like oral sex?
B. Does pregnancy turn a man off?
C. What if my husband has never given me an orgasm... I have always done the work.. and if I want one... I have to do it myself?
D. He claims that he needs to see a doctor that there is something wrong?
E. We used to have sex almost everynight...now I am lucky if I get it once every two weeks... and its wham bam... thank you ma'am.

F. I asked my husband if he has always been this way with his ex wife or other partners that he has had.. he said,. " No... I have always pleased them first... I dunno what is wrong with me?

Tell me what is going on in your opinion... and please be serious and not rude!

2006-11-24 21:59:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anna Q 1

i am finding that as time goes on my partner and I are becoming less intimate, to the point that we spend very little time together, i work, she looks after our child. We have been married for 4 years, and get on very well, but there is a big hole in our relationship...when we argue it always (eventually) gets to the fact that we don't have sex, i'm frustrated, and i'm told that she has no interest in having sex anymore........what can i do!?

2006-11-24 21:37:19 · 27 answers · asked by Cy 3

Even if i am talking to him normally he starts shouting without any reason and it turns into a big fight.It could start with any small issue.I dont know what to do.Its been two years since we got married but i have never been happy.Its not that he dosen't love me..he does.. but he fights on small issues.He cannot control his temper.We cannot get divorced because we belong to a very conservative family where divorce is not atall common.After fighting he will not talk to me atall and if i try and talk things out he will simply not reply and that makes me more frustruated and depressed.It takes me days to get him back to talking normally.Its always me who takes the initiative to talk.He will never come back to me and talk or say sorry even if he realises that he fought without any reason

2006-11-24 21:24:17 · 20 answers · asked by ria 1

Do you consider it an invasion of privacy to open their mail? Why or why not?

Do you consider it a crime? Why or why not?

2006-11-24 21:00:42 · 19 answers · asked by zoya 6

My husband and I seperated 3 weeks ago after 8 years of marriage. I ended the marriage after his continued drug use and lying, deciding that my children and I would be far better of with him not in our home. I feel very relieved after my decision and much happier! With Christmas coming up I am not sure what to do with regards to the children. My girls are 6 and 9 and love their father very much and enjoy the time they spend with him. My husband and I are capable of being civil with each other which helps matters. I cannot stand the thought of not spending christmas morning with my girls, and have a family lunch planned at my brothers. I realise I need to put the childrens needs first. Does anyone have any experience or advice they can share with me?

2006-11-24 20:59:58 · 15 answers · asked by souldancer70 1

Informed people want to know.

2006-11-24 20:45:25 · 20 answers · asked by In Honor of Moja 4

We often talk about marriage & he thinks that he will need to know my native language in the coming years so he is taking lectures... Please tell me what do you think?

2006-11-24 20:41:23 · 20 answers · asked by ♥Lasha♥ 3

Does it show? Does your hubby give you grief?

2006-11-24 20:32:04 · 6 answers · asked by desertblue62 3

she is 35. i just don't know what to do. my father, grandfather and grandma has seriously has done nothing abt it as if they are not worried.and when i & my sis talk about it ,they tell us we are too young to talk about this. they have given up bacause she is uneducated. she cries in front of me. and i can't do anything because i m just 15 yrs old.

2006-11-24 19:50:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey guys, I need some help.
My husband and I are married for 2 years now. The marriage wasnt always easy and we had many setbacks but I always thought we worked it out. Anyways I had to work overseas for a while, due to my job. My hubby is in the military and just got deployed to Iraq before I came home, but we talked everyday and even so sometimes I had a weird feeling I believed him when he told me everything was ok. Short and painless.I found some things out: He met another girl while I was gone, found that out because he forgot to delete his msg on msn. When I asked him he tried to hide it in the beginning but then admitted it but said nothing happened and avoids this subject now. He bought a laptop,was hiding the bill and took it with him. He signed up on several online dating sites, etc. He didnt paid the bills, left me with nothing in the house..even the phones were turned off. I am a little confused and shocked, but he still insists everything is ok.
What do u guys think??

2006-11-24 19:50:07 · 20 answers · asked by sweet28muffin 1

does anyone have the number to a good training school. she may just need to brush up on it a little.

2006-11-24 19:48:34 · 16 answers · asked by just hanging around 5

Hi...my first time sending a question in...its late!
I leave for a girls vacation next week to Cancun. Just me and 2 close friends. We get to go crazy...drink...be silly - basically get off the real world for awhile.

We do this once a year -and sure - sometimes at a bar or on the beach we will have some guys make a move on us. Its flattering, and I always have told my husband about it.

OK...my husband says if i ever want to pursue this - meaning - fool around while on vacation - he would be o.k with it.
At first I told him he was crazy...but - he keeps bringing it up again and again that I should REALLY enjoy myself while i am there.
He wants me to pack sexy clothes...and the more we talk about it - the more excited i get about doing it.

Any reason he wants me to cheat??
And no - he wont be fooling around on me - he will be busy with our daughters here at home!

Has anyone else been given "permission" to fool around?

Did you do it?

Thanks.

2006-11-24 19:30:28 · 33 answers · asked by Marie A 1

i was married once and i swear i will never do it again now everyone tells me that its not true that if the right guy comes along i will do it again . to me its like having a criminal record and now my boyfriend feels the same way and i know you will all say the same thing that if its right it will be done again but my question is whos more aptd to do it first the man or woman

2006-11-24 19:28:19 · 14 answers · asked by aengel69 3

Okay my hubby and I have been married for like 3 years. I have been pregnant b4 I was with him like 5 years ago. I think there is something wrong with him. How do I handle with him maybe the cause of our infetility? I do not want to adopt.

2006-11-24 19:27:12 · 9 answers · asked by jessica h 2

My ex has done so many bad things to me, ripped me off, lied, beaten me, twisted my mind etc. I Gave him so many chances cause i believed it was the drugs doing it to him.And he promised that he stopped. I found out he pawned my phone for a R1000 for coke when he told me he left it at a friends house. I had to go buy it back. This is the last staw. I am stupid for giving him chances. But this time he has gone too far. I cant go to the police cause i have already droped numerous charges against him. I need to get back so badly that it hurts. He doesnt know that i have my phone back, or that i know that he pawned it, so i can really play him, but how?

2006-11-24 19:22:27 · 17 answers · asked by kazzyhighst 1

This question is in many peoples mind !Sex means also marriage between same race or with different race(!) An Indian with Chinese, Or a Russian with a ugandanian black. An Afgan with a Korian , An american white with combodian (!) do u think that , it is much comfortable then with in same race?

2006-11-24 19:15:38 · 6 answers · asked by ogmansur 2

we've been together for almost 6 years. i love him and i think i want to stay with him. theres no more spark, no passion. we have financial obligations together and pets. he doesn't notice me, hes a burnt out pot head, and we don't communicate. i'm tired of being the "nagging wife". should i give up and move on or is there something i'm missing?

2006-11-24 18:55:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-24 18:55:14 · 18 answers · asked by ddl 2