we've been together for almost 6 years. i love him and i think i want to stay with him. theres no more spark, no passion. we have financial obligations together and pets. he doesn't notice me, hes a burnt out pot head, and we don't communicate. i'm tired of being the "nagging wife". should i give up and move on or is there something i'm missing?
2006-11-24 18:55:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If there's no spark, no passion and no communication, why are you with him? He's not just a pot head, he's a burned out pot head to boot. Do not even account for the 6 years, they are gone. The very reasons that you stay in a relationship are not there. It's alright to love him but love yourself more and move on.
2006-11-24 19:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by mpicky2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not missing anything. If the pot part can't 'clear up' some, and there is no passion, think about splitting the finances and pets (although it sucks) and move on. Communication and passion are two things you can't do without.
2006-11-25 03:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on before you find you've spent 30 years with a burnt out pot head. There's more to life than that - much more.
2006-11-25 02:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by Joanne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, if after 6 years together, you're going to lose the spark, it's up to the two of you to rekindle it here and there for eachother. If you aren't happy with him and you have no children, then move-on. Don't cheat yourself out of happiness. I wish you the best in your endeavor
2006-11-25 02:58:12 · answer #4 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've been missing good judgment for at least five of those six years.
You are not legally bound. You are not a wife, nagging or otherwise.
Time to cut your losses and move on. Get going.
2006-11-25 02:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does not sound like you are happy with the current situation. Either something has to change (within the relationship or your expectations) or will become more dissatisfied. Only you can weigh all the pro's and con's and make such an important decision.
2006-11-25 03:02:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on you are the other woman in this relation ship
the primary relationship is him and his drugs
he will lie promise and cry but the drugs will always win
pot in some ways is worse than heroin because4e it takes months to leave the system and robs people of drive at least heroin users can get disgusted with themselves and change
pot heads just feel sorry for them selves and dont want to change their life
2006-11-25 02:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would give up and move on. I know it's 6 years of your life wasted but think of how much knowledge you can gain from the 6 years you had to deal with this bum...
2006-11-25 02:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should sit him down and talk about what your feeling and why. And after the talk you can say if he is going to try or not and if so you have a clear vision what is going to happen if you stay with him. So you can decide if you want or are going to leave him or not. Sit down and talk, so you can decide about your future. Is it with him or not? In the end you have to sit down and think is he given me or going too give me what I want and need. Decide what is best for you.
2006-11-25 03:01:05 · answer #9 · answered by J.Bo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said he a burned out pot head need we say more!
2006-11-25 03:26:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋