My ex has done so many bad things to me, ripped me off, lied, beaten me, twisted my mind etc. I Gave him so many chances cause i believed it was the drugs doing it to him.And he promised that he stopped. I found out he pawned my phone for a R1000 for coke when he told me he left it at a friends house. I had to go buy it back. This is the last staw. I am stupid for giving him chances. But this time he has gone too far. I cant go to the police cause i have already droped numerous charges against him. I need to get back so badly that it hurts. He doesnt know that i have my phone back, or that i know that he pawned it, so i can really play him, but how?
2006-11-24 19:22:27 · 17 answers · asked by kazzyhighst 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stop the drama. Walk away. Choose to be healthy and not feed this disfunction another day.
2006-11-24 19:24:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to get back at them the worst way you can. Move on. End the relationship and just go. That will play with their head, their heart and their body (since they won't have access to your stuff to pawn for drugs anymore) than anything else you can do!
Good luck, and I would love to hear how bad they got cuz you did this!!!
2006-11-25 03:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by Star 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You really need to just cut hime loose and move on. Getting even would feel WONDERFUL at first. then you will feel like crap later. If you have a big heart, you wont have it in you. You gave him a million chances. So the biggest thing you could do to him is just turn your back on him and NEVER look back! i wish you the best of luck!
2006-11-25 10:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by Just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting him back would only anger him more and could lead to you getting yourself hurt even worse. The best thing to do is go on with your life and let him think that he has won. Dont stoop down to his level. Tell him your done with his childish games. That you dont want to be hurt no more and that you are moving on. I would get an ex parta on him though just incase he doesnt like what you are telling him
2006-11-25 03:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HUNNY....SAVE YOUR ENERGY!!!! If this guy is such a scum king anything you do will just be water off a duck's back.
If you keep feeling so passionately about this man it gives him power to make you feel bad. By walking away from the situation you keep control of it.
don't waste any more of your precious time on him, he's taken enough allready. Be a lady, be gracious. and leave it be.
Good luck. libbi :) x
2006-11-25 03:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by wretchedbint 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He wouldn't understand your point anyway. To him you are less than a person. He doesn't respect you, he doesn't think you are worthy of his regard. You would probably just wind up in trouble with the law yourself.
If you want to vandalize something, make sure you have the money to pay for it, or don't get caught.
2006-11-25 03:33:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about the revenge and walk away clean why do stupid stuff and play games like him,? just move on . he is no good for you. good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-11-25 08:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only true way to get back at him is to forget him, move on with your life, better your self and be happy.
2006-11-25 04:00:59 · answer #8 · answered by MUSHMAN 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge on him is for you to be sucessful and happy. Especially the fact that he can no longer push your buttons. Also, that you don't need him and that you are actually happy.
This is the best revenge.....believe me!!! It will drive him nuts.
Move on
2006-11-25 05:38:39 · answer #9 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This has been a chance for you to achieve wisdom. If you lower your self to his level, youve gained nothing.
2006-11-25 03:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by telecaster 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋