I just don't understand it! I found out my wife of 18 years had been cheating on me. Not once, but with 5 different men! I found out she was having psychological problems and tried to salvage our marriage. A big mistake. Now we are separated and she borrowed money from her parents to retain an attorney and is now trying to take my kids and everything else. I'm disabled and on a fixed income and she knows I can't afford a lawyer. She's accusing me of beating my son and having sex with my daughter! (NOT ONE BIT OF TRUTH!)
Somebody please explain to me how a women can be so heartless?
Signed,
dazed and confused
2006-11-24 22:00:14 · 8 answers · asked by fnytms 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Diane S,
There's alot more to this story!
She started by playing games on yahoo. That led to chat, that led to cyber-sex, and that led to her actually meeting with at least 5 men and having sex with them!
It all came to a head when she disappeared for 10 days without leaving any contact info. One of her friends told me what had been going on and I confronted her when she returned. She admitted to all of it!
My children are my life and I don't want them to be subjected to that kind of lifestyle. All I care about are my kids! She can keep all the material crap!
2006-11-24 22:47:41 · update #1
I sympathize with you but you cannot blame your wife's actions on all women and say that all women are heartless. Don't let this bad experience stop you from finding a real woman that will love and respect you. But I can't explain how women can be so heartless because it isn't a woman thing it is a human thing. A man could have done those same things too.
2006-11-25 00:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by Dyme Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the same can be said for alot of men as well they are heartless too ya know not just one sided on this issue. Your wife sounds like she is mentally distrubed and needs psycological help. You know some lawyers do pro-bono work check with your local health care agency they might be able to help you find a lawyer and you say you are disabled might not cost you a thing. good luck and god bless and happy holidays.
2006-11-25 08:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife has serious mental health issues. Your story is very sad. Stay true to yourself and always try to do the right thing, you will be glad you did when looking back.
Good luck.
2006-11-25 06:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by Bullwinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like her psychological problems are in control ...contact Legal Aid or the Bar Association for help
2006-11-25 09:13:34 · answer #4 · answered by Library Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....somehow I sense there is more to this story then is being told....at the end of the day, I hope the two of you have enough sense to make sure the children are taken care of....good luck
2006-11-25 06:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your Ex Wife is just one real crazy person... Especialy to accuse you of those things that she did...
Take it easy .... and Good Luck
2006-11-25 06:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds determine to take everything you have and ruin your life. you need a good lawyer man.
2006-11-25 06:06:52 · answer #7 · answered by pany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email me tell me exactly how she cheated
2006-11-25 06:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by john s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋