Marriage & Divorce - 27 November 2006

I mean if we lived together in Hungary do you think that I will face a cultural shock there,She will follow my religion,She loves me and I love her very much,But I am afraid of the cultural differences between us,,are we able to overcome all of that? Am I will adapt my self there?her family likes me too much,and I do also,I am little confuesed,So I need advise

2006-11-27 23:50:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

and she disapeared, she moved abroad or can't be found, maybe dead or hidding. Is it possible to get a divorce from her ?

2006-11-27 23:48:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 23:46:18 · 17 answers · asked by neutral 2

My girk\l friend who I love has a cancer in her uterus,She will not bring more childrens to me in the future if i married her,I will leave my country to live with her in her country,I can sacrify by any thing for her,BUT this point is very critical,What will I do after many years when I feel I need a baby?she did not agree about marrying another girl in the future to bring me babies,I am confuesed,I need to solve this condition,Continue with her the relation or not,She will make a surgery to removed the cancerous part in her genital system,What I am going to do ? I need a babies in the future and I need her also at the same time?

2006-11-27 23:44:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 23:42:04 · 17 answers · asked by rainyman258 1

he made it clear to me before he left me that he didn't love me anymore. He is rather cool with me each time he makes a contact. We were married for 18 tears. I just don't trust him anymore and I am wondering what goes in men's mind to even want a contact again after completely falling out of love with their wives? Any ideas out there of what to tell this confused man?

2006-11-27 23:35:57 · 13 answers · asked by BFCP 3

Does anybodys husband also find this sexy? I don't like stockings,
what kind of pantyhose are sexy but comfortable. He alsio wants me to keep them on during sexhe says just cut a whole in them.
Has anyone else outhere done this?

2006-11-27 23:29:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every excuse he came up with that causes his drinking...I've corrected them. He hides and stashes beer. He even holds back on paying household bills to be able to drink as much as he wants.

2006-11-27 23:13:15 · 21 answers · asked by Babyface 4

Somebody at work believes in it and the way I see it is they must have great will power because presumably, if they are getting married they will have been living together and probably sleeping in the same bed and well, you know..........

And frankly, you wouldn't buy a new car withou test driving it.

I'm not against it, just wondered if anyone could shed some light on the logic behind it.

2006-11-27 23:08:14 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married for 4 yrs. and have two boys. We have always gotten along as friends. She says that there is something that is "just not there". I love her so much and have struggled with some personal issues in the past. She tells me that "she does not see me like that". I assume she means as a lover. She doesn't work at all. I work two jobs and am a good provider for our family, but that means that other areas are neglected (including her). Now that I kinda woke up and realized how I have done many things wrong, I fear it's too late. I can see how she would be hurt by my actions in the past, but I don't want to just give up now. I don't want to divorce her. I want to be the man to make her happy. I am trying to be optimistic about our future, but she is extremely pessimistic about it. She thinks that we should just click automatically. She says that I'm a good husband (now) but she doesn't think she wants to be with me forever. I am desperate for some direction!

2006-11-27 23:07:57 · 11 answers · asked by cohrsman 1

I always dreamt of having a very big house with lots n lots of rooms and all my poor family members are staying in there jointly. Have lots of money to buy everyone gifts for B/days and Christmas and all other occations. A big bank balance will only help as the interest will be pouring in for the needy. I know it sounds stupid but............

2006-11-27 23:00:48 · 8 answers · asked by Belinda Ann D 1

2006-11-27 22:58:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 22:55:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i got pregnant when i was 17 and we were a childhood sweetheart but he left me coz he migrate in states.i was young then and its easy for me to forget and forgive him.and he had livein partner in states and they had a baby.after 6yrs 2002 we saw each other again and he said that he left the girl.no doubt im still inluv with for da sake of my son but we got married but he went back to states to fix our petition.but i found out this MAY that after our marriage he still living with his partner in states and have another baby.and last yr he wants to divorce me bcoz da girl wants to.he choose that girl but that time i ddnt know da situation but he found out girl cheating.he came back to again and said sori i though i did sumting wrong.but few months ago he wants to break up with me again and her mom told me everthing behind i was shocked coz i trust him so much.he wants to come back to me again but i made a decision to stop between us.i admit im still inluv with him.we have two kids.HELP

2006-11-27 22:52:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've got a new job which is 8 Hours a week working as an sales assistant. I study part - time (5Hrs) which is two nights in a row
My partner at home alone and never tidy up after him but understandable because he's an accountant and works 36hours a week.
But when he does create mess, when he collect me from college and having just walked in my front door I see dishes lying on the worktop, not washed, he leaves his tie on the chair and could have been put away, he leaves his dirty clothes on the bedroom floor and the basket is 10 foots step away, what i'm trying to say is I come home from classes and I would be grateful if he doesnt create a much of a mess, I had to clean up this morning and now im heading into the city to get a few things and head to class, then tomorrow i.ve work, this weekend my mother staying over and I have no time to clear up the spare room and clean the rest of the apartment. I just wish he would tidy up after himself. let me get on with my coursework

2006-11-27 22:49:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am pregnant and will it be better for me to file for a divorce before the birth of baby or afterwords for child custody. I dont want any contact with him after the divorce will it be possible?
what rights will he have?
Its been its been 9 months to marriage and am staying with my parents from 2.5 months.
I am from a decent family and I dont want to bring out the matter that he was abusing me ...
in an Indian family its gets very difficult to stay with the after effects of a divorce. I am really very confused as what to do...or should I continue to stay separate without taking any action...

2006-11-27 22:47:51 · 6 answers · asked by 28March2007 1

i talked to my ex husband to leave us alone and i dont need anymore him even the child support,because a lot of times i tried to convince him and please him that i cant support my kids right now coz he left us with nothing and no work.it really hurt me alot for cheating me and playing with my emotions.his family even saying some bad words of me because we got married no question at all aftersix years he abandoned me and when he came back to me i accepted him and married him eventhpough i knew that he had live in partner have a son.but iam the first and we had a baby wen i was 17yrs old and hes my childhood sweethart and he left me coz they migrate in states.after sixyrs we saw each other again and i stil inluv with him no doubt i accepted him again after he left for sixyrs and thats the first time he saw our first child.after we got married he went back to state and promise us to fix our papers.i trust him so much and my whole life his da only man that i loved and i waited him.pls help

2006-11-27 22:31:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a western professional in my 40's living in Asia. I have an interpreter at the office to assist me in communications. My interpreter is a demure (typical here), highly educated 30 year old single female Asian and I have fallen madly in love with her (unknown to her I think). She was engaged to be married and asked me my opinion of her situation. I was honest, and told her that in her culture she will be expected to give up her job and completely devote herself to her husbands’ needs and the home. Apparently, after our conversations, she asked her husband-to-be about his expectations and found that her life would in fact be worse than imagined. The marriage is now off. I feel responsible for this mess. I am married, love my wife and won't cheat - but when I'm near my interpreter I feel a gut wrenching attraction to her and I think she is attracted to me also. I don't want to fire her to protect myself but can't stand the tempation of having her near me- how do I get out of this?

2006-11-27 22:25:39 · 7 answers · asked by mindless 1

2006-11-27 22:08:35 · 44 answers · asked by smi 1

Seemed that I had been cheated?

2006-11-27 22:05:55 · 29 answers · asked by Shirley 2

I Have gut feeling but dont know how to go about it ive asked but he gets mad and tells me that he doesnt. If not then why do i have a gut feeling some times

2006-11-27 21:52:25 · 22 answers · asked by sweet_angel180 1

i have been married 4 years. My husband got fired bc he got depression 4 yrs ago and never did anythng which resulted in him loosing his job. He finally got over his depressionn but it took 2 years to find a job..he found a job that went backwards and has been in that role 18 months... he is VERY unhappy and brings it all home..his personality has changed and he is always at work, comes home late and then he does his own stuff on the weekends. His personality has changed. He doesnt show he cares yet he keeps saying he does and things will get better..i feel llike it is a continual denial. He will never be happy untll he finds a job he really likes...how much longer should i go on like this ..its not like he treats me nicely anymore...he has become selfish..help pls

2006-11-27 21:51:07 · 16 answers · asked by nat n 1

i am married to a guy from a diff race. unluckily his parents doesnt like me because of 1001 reasons.
the thing is my husband doesnt want to stand up and just keep listening to all the brainwashing done by his parents. my husband cheated on me over and over again. and his parents knew about this instead of trying to help they make it as a reason for him to really leave me . i am also pregnant right now. i love my husband but i am not sure whether its enough to safe this marriage cause i found it hard to trust him again.

but now things get worse with pressure from his parents on top of everything i am not sure i will remain sane if this goes on. what kind of parents wanted to destroy the kids marriage? are there hopes?

2006-11-27 21:46:20 · 10 answers · asked by gia 1

I loved my ex she hurt me when she left, she then returned I took her back but hurt her to get her back for hurting me, It was great but it was not meant to be and I know that. But I cant stop thinking of her even thow shes not good for me. it may be the great sex we had or because she was my first love. my new wife is the best and she loves me to death, i find it hard to return the love. what should I do?

2006-11-27 21:40:44 · 17 answers · asked by sam k 1

two people having an affair there both married and are missrable in there marrages both have kids but they dont want to mess the kids family life up they want to be together but how do they go about it there affair has been going on for six months he wants to be with the her but the she wont break up with the partener what do they do. he wants to be with her and move in together but she dosnt want to hurt herhusband but is torn between the two help

2006-11-27 21:33:33 · 12 answers · asked by shon 3

some body tell me how to get him back

2006-11-27 21:18:59 · 20 answers · asked by cocojojo 1

2006-11-27 21:13:38 · 12 answers · asked by Andy L 1

with a chick in California. They even exchanged phone numbers and he called her from his motel room when he was working on the road. He now regrets it and says he won't do it again...do I trust him? He has never been around a computer and I've been teaching him how to use one. Didn't know it would "nip" me back....would like some good constructive criticism... thanks

2006-11-27 21:11:39 · 18 answers · asked by chatterella 3

2006-11-27 21:00:12 · 12 answers · asked by bilal_qadeer 1

I like my neighbour very much cause my wife, she is boring, can I give her the sexy time to her virgin? I give my neighbour (who has nice face and nice physique) a television, with 2 remote and 3 chickens. I buy her radio on Sunday. With a cassette deck. My wife is big. I not like her. She will be angry.

2006-11-27 20:58:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous