some body tell me how to get him back
2006-11-27 21:18:59 · 20 answers · asked by cocojojo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Did he leave because of that?? Was it a one time deal or something that you have been doing for a long time??? I don't know why he would leave if it was just once- if you adore him- do what you can to please him and make him happy- invite him over for a surprise- cook his favorite meal- put on a sexy nitey and invite him into the bedroom- and make wild passionate love-
2006-11-27 21:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why you pushed him away. Were you mad at him or what? If it was because you just didn't feel like it at the time ask yourself how you feel now. LOL. Making love is always a good start to making up. Also, with my husband anyway, me writing down just a few words and explaining that it wasn't anything he did and how much I love him...if he leaves before you in the morning leave him a little note on the mirror in the bath room. Something as simple as have a great day works with my husband. Then he knows I was thinking of him. Gosh I am sounding cheesy. I can be contacted through yahoo ask and answer if you would like some ideas. I will stop being sappy. Without being sappy however, If I were you, I would go get 'EM if ya know what I mean.
2006-11-28 05:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by kenntonip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did this to punish him, for something else... You should apologize, and talk about the problems instead of that kind of treatment.
If you didn't do anything because you were feeling ill, or couldn't get in the mood, (maybe you had a bad day that was just too much), than he should be understanding about the situation.
BUT ALWAYS, ALWAYS communicate why... Don't just leave him hanging, (Pardon the bad pun).
CyberNara
2006-11-29 02:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him? you adore him? Then you should be willing to do almost anything to get him back. Apologize. I believe that part of the marriage vows is 'to have and to hold'. You need to start expressing that love you have for him physically, in addition to whatever other ways you want to express it. And you need to let him kiss you, you need to let him show his love to you, you need to let him make love to you. The physical side of a marriage isnt' everything, but it is a big part of the relationship. It keeps you close and strong. It places a bond between the two of you that you can't get any other way, that no one else can touch. It's a special intimacy, and it's very very important. So you need to show him love, and let him show you love. Best of luck.
2006-11-28 05:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all...your husband has every right to be angry because he is after all your husband, not a boyfrd or nething so i dont know y you wuldnt let him kiss you or have sex with you. And the only way i think you can get him back would be by cooking his favorite food, and dressing really nice and sexy, and finally have sex with him.
2006-11-28 05:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by Ignite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what was the reason are you in a Heathy relaionship men need love to and if you are doing this out of some kinf of game or looking for attintion then you are in the wrong
2006-11-28 05:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't feel like having sex with him, that's okay and your husband should understand. If you feel badly about it now, go wake him up in a very nice way!
2006-11-28 05:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by 2sweet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go explain why you didn't want to make love to him, if he don't understand them screw him girl, save your stuff for someone else....just because he's your husband doesn't mean you have to be his sex toy.........but if you feel that bad, get yourself all done up and give it to him good!
2006-11-28 05:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by Katrina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go make love to him now
2006-11-28 05:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I tell u one bitter truth???? so the truth is he is going to leave u soon and u will be crying if u keep on doing so...i mean come on ...he is ur husband...not the Boyfriend...and listen to me" Sex is the price woman pay for marriage and marriage is the price man pay for sex..so think about it my friend...or he is gone...
2006-11-28 05:50:00 · answer #10 · answered by sureshflourish 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋