i talked to my ex husband to leave us alone and i dont need anymore him even the child support,because a lot of times i tried to convince him and please him that i cant support my kids right now coz he left us with nothing and no work.it really hurt me alot for cheating me and playing with my emotions.his family even saying some bad words of me because we got married no question at all aftersix years he abandoned me and when he came back to me i accepted him and married him eventhpough i knew that he had live in partner have a son.but iam the first and we had a baby wen i was 17yrs old and hes my childhood sweethart and he left me coz they migrate in states.after sixyrs we saw each other again and i stil inluv with him no doubt i accepted him again after he left for sixyrs and thats the first time he saw our first child.after we got married he went back to state and promise us to fix our papers.i trust him so much and my whole life his da only man that i loved and i waited him.pls help
2006-11-27 22:31:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you need Christ Jesus' help that is the only way to get any forgivness. try reading the bible. look in the back for the reference to forgivness. that will help you.
2006-11-27 22:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by Eliza F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not sure where you’re from but if you’re in the UK, he can’t force you out of the house anyway and I’m almost certain that any contact with the kids would have to be supervised at the very least. I’d be tempted to say if he’s not been around for so long, the Court Orders would go in your favour so you really needn’t worry. In a nutshell, no. Don’t forgive and forget. Your kids need him around like a hole in the head.
2016-03-28 22:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a trusting FOOL!!!! You'll be waiting on those papers until the cows come home to the barn----let me know when they get there ......
If your man has gone back to the states----and left you and the child behind----chances are a snow balls chance to stay alive in Florida that he'll get those papers and do the follow through---
WAKE up----stop the pity party for yourself and do something for yourself---LIKE get a life of your own and move on!!! Get that JOB---get some education---make YOU happy!!! Co-dependancy on someone else to make you happy never works it just makes you more co-dependant!!
2006-11-27 22:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel very bad for you. I can only hope that you turn these around fr you, Meaning stop wanting and needing someone who doesn't care. If he does come back, he is just using you, Due to where you are at right now , heart and soul in love, this could destroy you. Don't give any one that power over you. Stand up. Say No and you need to learn this lesson and you will learn it hard, but I promise you, You will become Strong because of it. What you want in this life, it is up to you and you alone to get it.Do this for yourself and your children. You need papers fix. find a way. You need to cut his person out of your life. NO more tears No more him. Good bless you and good luck in your future.
2006-11-27 22:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is an old story Id like to share with you . A young lady on a cold winters day was walking home from work , she look down and there was a snake. It was a frozen snake . His color shown so brilliant in the ice. So, she put him in her coat pocket . She got home took her coat off and laid it down in the warmth of her house. The warmth of the house aided the snake in its frozen state to become unthawed. She later thought about the snake and went to retrieve him from her coat pocket. Once she reached in her pocket the snake bit her. She says to the snake , " Omg why did you bite me I pick you up and saved you!" Which the snake replied , " You knew what I was when you pick me up !" The moral of this story is you knew who and what he was when you met him !
2006-11-27 22:47:32 · answer #5 · answered by lovie12346 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you really love him, that you want to be together with him, and that you simply are trying to deal with your feelings about what he has done to you and, i think, how he is like a yo-yo - leaving and coming back, leaving then coming back.
it sounds too simple and to some people pretty dumb, but God is in the business of straightening out crooked marriages, of healing hearts, of helping couples work through thier problems, etc.
Pray to the Lord, ask Him for help, for forgiveness, ask Him for strength and guidance. Ask Him to help you to forgive. Ask Him to heal your heart. Ask Him to heal your situation.
"God is a present help in time of trouble"
and, yes, read your bible. Learn what God says to you in it. The Bible can be a secure rock in the midst of life's storms.
God bless!!
2006-11-27 23:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by happy pilgrim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all rewrite this paragraph cause it's confusion,i can't help you if the words doesn't make since.
2006-11-27 22:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by LaToya T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how could you marry him without forgiving and forgetting?
you should have already forgiven him.
btw forgiving IS forgetting
2006-11-27 22:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by Enigma 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋