Marriage & Divorce - 27 November 2006

what are some of your favorite "positions" or roleplays to keep your love life active with your husband??

2006-11-27 02:23:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husbands need to keep trying to reconcile with his parents and needing their approval is ruining our marriage.

Yet, I do not seem to need this from my parents. Is it because I have had it from time to time (approval or pat on the back) ? I feel it is because I am my own person and if they approve of my lifestyyle or not, this is who I am. Take me or leave me.

Could this be because I had a more positive environment growing up or is this just my personality. trying to gain some insight into this...

Thanks.....

2006-11-27 02:22:12 · 17 answers · asked by WUDDALIFE 2

I have been seeing someone casually for 8 or 9 years - I am female, he is male - we are both attached - he lives with his girlfriend, I have had an on-off relationship with my partner, largely marred by mental health issues on his part. In the past I was so unhappy that he wasn't doing anything about it (being high can wreck lives) that I felt strangely justified in seeking a little pleasure for myself. However, he has finally sought help, and I have not played around since then. Unfortunately he found out about it this weekend - I was very sorry, but I don't want to give him up - the physical side is so good. They are both one half of what I want in a man. What should I do?

2006-11-27 02:19:47 · 40 answers · asked by Miss Behavin 5

Ok, so I broke with my boyfriend on Thanksgiving Day because weeks of thinking he was married or attached came to a blow-up with me. I thought he was married because he lives in a different city and we never go to his house, we always hang out at my house. I wanted to spend thanksgiving with him he never picked up his phone. He wear a wedding band claiming that the girl he was supposed to marry 5 years ago died and that he really loved her and wears that band in rememberance of her. When he spends the night he leaves my house at 5:30am claiming to have be at work. I know, I know.. it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, it's a freaking duck. I've just had to listen to 50 plus tearful messages on my phone, dozens of flowers. It's really sweet but I'd rather be alone than the other woman. Your advice is greatly appreciated. I feel like I already know my answer just by reading what I typed.

2006-11-27 02:19:25 · 7 answers · asked by sweet_journey 2

I have been with my husband for 12 years. We have 4 children. I love him very much but the last couple of years I have noticed my sex drive decreasing rapidly. I had a tubal after the last baby and this seems to have made it even worse. I can go for days and sometimes a few weeks without any interest in sex. Help!!!!!

2006-11-27 02:12:48 · 12 answers · asked by puzzled 2

I am just wondering for all those who are divorced, did you have any doubts when you married or did you believe 100% that your marriage would last forever?

2006-11-27 02:07:34 · 8 answers · asked by nik 28 3

my wife has continualy placed restraing orders on me for over 20 years when ever she and I disagreedon anything. to avoid getting my wife into legal trouble each time for purgery and other offences I always pleaded no contest because she always in a few days or week she would drop the order and say she was sorry there were times in the judges chambers she would admit she was only angry each time.now out of 4 boys we have 1 still at home my wife again is going through changes that have motivated her to place another order on me this time she wants a 4 year order and has showed signs that she is going also for a divorce and will try to get me to have to pay support and countless other bill and wants to have me have only supervisied visits my other boys can testify that I have never been domesticly abuseive and I have many character witnesses but I also have been threatened by my wife that if there are signs that I may win my case she will kidnap my son what can I do have no legal help

2006-11-27 02:04:58 · 5 answers · asked by brennemandavid 1

My husband and I do not get along with his ex-wife, and there are 2 kids, and we have 50/50 custody of them, so we are forced to deal with her a lot more than wanted. People have suggested a moderator?, mediator? since no one can ever talk decent to one another. How does this work, cost? Does this mean they counsel us, or are the middle man, so that we never have to talk to her?

2006-11-27 01:58:56 · 5 answers · asked by squirt 1

girlfriend? I have always wondered this and know that asking the question face to face is probably not going to produce an honest answer, especially if the answer is yes. So could all you men out there please tell me the real deal on this question? Thanks!

2006-11-27 01:58:12 · 14 answers · asked by txcowgirl 2

i don't know if this is true or not but I happen to know someone who's like that and she's been single for a long, long time...And when I look at other people I know and who are in a relationship; they possess none of that.

Do you think there may be some truth to what I stated above?

thanx...

2006-11-27 01:57:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

please help , had a nightmare weekend .... my wife`s freind come round for a drink , but after to many they started to gang up on me ... so i said if you both feel that way get you cloths off and i will sort you both out ... any way to my amazement they both come back in sexy underwear .. so i did what any bloke would do . but this bit is the problem , 1/2 way through my wife walked out .. i did go after her and she said everything was ok so i went back to her freind any way after 20 mins my wife never come back and went to bed ..the next day my wife said she wants me out the house and im a pig . we are meeting tonight to talk ... who is right or wrong on this one , i thought she wanted this to happen ???? i would have not crossed the line but she forced this woman on me and watched her with me .. i am confused

2006-11-27 01:54:47 · 31 answers · asked by mrqprfc 2

I am ashamed to please my own body... Is this normal and how do I get over it..? I would like to learn my spots so I can let my husband know the spots that please me but I feel dirty playing with my self how do I change this..?

2006-11-27 01:52:05 · 29 answers · asked by jjones_3279 2

My husband and me had a baby 8 months ago. well 4 months ago he went from a great husband to lying cheating not coming home husband. he told me he needed space and moved out. On thanksgiving he got really sick and called me and wanted me to come take care of him. then he decided he wanted me to
move back in and he wanted to make things work. finally he told me that he was cheating on me and he wont do it again because he loves me and the only person he could think about when he was sick was me. we have been married for 8 years do you guys think it is worth it to try to work things out and do you think that we can, it really hurt me and I am still trying to forgive him.

2006-11-27 01:48:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

He left his wife for her. She has one child. The ex-wife sacrificed everything during the marraige, was the person responsible for the kids 89% of the time and now she wants to live a life. The kids are 5 and 9. His kids already know the new wife's kids because they all grew up together. The ex-wife wants to move two hours away to a better job and have the kids for a six days a month and alternate holidays, 6 weeks in the summer. Men do this all of th ethe time and no one complains. Why is it so terrible for a woman ( and it is usually women who give her a hard time about it.)

2006-11-27 01:48:36 · 12 answers · asked by Tanya B 1

and make her as happy as he can ... i love my little girl more then life itself.. i can stay married so our girl has two parents , but just let my wife go her way and will , just spend my time loving my gift from god ..my little girl

2006-11-27 01:48:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

After many years of emotionally abusive and dysfunctional family behavior, after a final explosion that involved father saying he would sue for visitation of grandchildren he did not even know and so on and so on, he walked away. Now, he is thinking he should go back (just because they are his parents) and he wants me to be supportive. I have done this over and over and just cannot do it again.

I know if I say "Just go without me and leave me out of it" he will, but eventually I will be dragged into it and I know that once again his parents will come between us.

My question is this....Should I fight for us, to be together with just us, or should I say go ahead and be with them even though I know it will be the end of our marriage ?

I am so torn up over this I dont know what to do. We tried counseling, but he does not like going, and now we cant afford it.

Please help...Thank you

2006-11-27 01:47:22 · 5 answers · asked by WUDDALIFE 2

My wife's mother is pressuring her into getting a post nuptial aggreement (her father was killed in a car accident and she is getting a trust fund) and I don't want to sign it. My mother in law has even said that she won't speak to me and my wife is very sad and depressed. I have told my wife that although I feel sorry she is in a bad situation I am not going to sign this agreement - (whatever trustfund money she puts into our house she gets back) but I want our marriage based on trust not papers. I have told her and her mother I don't want her money - I married her because I loved her not her money and I even told my wife that I will sign divorce papers before I sign a post nuptial agreement. My wife said that it wouldn't matter who she was married to - it's nothing personal and it's not even the amount of money.. it's where it's coming from... that this is the last thing her father can give her... I guess my question is - am I wrong??

2006-11-27 01:43:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do women who file for a divorce feel any sympathy for their ex-husband for having to take on all the financial burden and mess, when they (women) get away with the loot?

I wonder why the law isn't fair to the men in this world of equality.

2006-11-27 01:36:46 · 19 answers · asked by catcher 3

i wish to meet my life mate soon as my parents want me to get married soon. i am very eager to meet that special person soon.

2006-11-27 01:33:03 · 14 answers · asked by paromita d 1

I have always openly and willingly given my husband sex any time he wanted, but now I wonder if I should hold back sometimes. I think men may want you more if it's not always available to them like I am to him. He takes it for granted and often doesn't act like he wants me at all. I know a lot of wives hold back sometimes and that way when the husband gets it, he enjoys and appreciates it more. I don't want to use sex as a favor, but at the same time, I want things to be exciting again. Most men love a chase, right?

2006-11-27 01:27:24 · 21 answers · asked by mrsleslie_lady 3

they were bored with their husband and they were from 30 to 50. Do you still get horny? and only women from around Pitts. Pa area.....is this area more prone to women wanting more sex with a different guy then their husband.

2006-11-27 01:20:53 · 10 answers · asked by bob s 1

Before we got married, my ex had an ex girlfriend that was a doormat for him no matter what she went through with him. (This is what his friends and family told me). Well anyways even though he's married to me now, do these kind of women still lurk around hoping that the man will still want some kind of relationship with them?

2006-11-27 01:19:47 · 10 answers · asked by stella 2

But when it comes to the sexy women they work with they care,and do not do such thing's in front of them.Should'nt it be the other way around?Do hubby's fart in front of their wife's to let them know they are disatisfied with the marriage?Do they do this to avoid sex at times,or let them know they do not feel like being social with you?Sometimes when I think my hubby should be embarrased or ashamed he act's like the stinker the better.In other words do men have a unspoken way of trying to comunicate with us ,when they dont care if you are sitting their gagging.I take it that men dont fart in front of women they are sexualy interested in,I'm I right or way off ?

2006-11-27 01:18:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

We Are In The Middle Of Divorce Now.

2006-11-27 01:18:02 · 24 answers · asked by rosanky1952 1

Do you ever feel disconnected from your significant other? I don't really know what happened, but for about a week i just feel disconnected from my boyfriend of 2 years. Things happen and we just don't see each other that much. We live together, but i work in the morning, he works in the afternoon, and i go to bed early but he stays up until like 2 am playing video games. We haven't had sex for about 2 weeks, which is way abnormal. I love him to death, i just want to get through this funny faze. Any tips?

2006-11-27 01:17:35 · 10 answers · asked by Stark 6

Plz can some one help me I have a cosin who has a girl freind and I found out that she was cheeting on him i caut her kissing on my cosins best freind and i don't know what to tell my cosin I need something to incrage him and i also need to know what to what to say to the person that was kissing on my cosins girlfreind.( just to let you know the person she kissed is 2 feet higher then me so i nedd to know what to say.

2006-11-27 01:17:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 01:16:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

please help , had a nightmare weekend .... my wife`s freind come round for a drink , but after to many they started to gang up on me ... so i said if you both feel that way get you cloths off and i will sort you both out ... any way to my amazement they both come back in sexy underwear .. so i did what any bloke would do . but this bit is the problem , 1/2 way through my wife walked out and never come back , but i did stay with her mate and carried on ..... the next day my wife said she wants me out the house and im a pig . we are meeting tonight to talk ... who is right or wrong on this one , i thought she wanted this to happen ????

2006-11-27 01:14:39 · 48 answers · asked by mrqprfc 2

2006-11-27 01:12:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 01:11:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous