i don't know if this is true or not but I happen to know someone who's like that and she's been single for a long, long time...And when I look at other people I know and who are in a relationship; they possess none of that.
Do you think there may be some truth to what I stated above?
thanx...
2006-11-27 01:57:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
because priorities change. married people focus on careers, homes, starting families with a baby, etc.... it's not less romantic & passionate, it's a priority shift. ask over a million people and they'll agree. it's just as satisfying, but they are in a different place in life.
2006-11-27 01:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by _ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The majority of people that I meet on a daily basis started their relationships because...
- they settled for that person (even when they will never admit it to you or to themselves!)
- they were desperate and didn't find anyone else quickly enough
- they really didn't know what they were thinking and are now so used to one another that they are AFRAID of breaking things off.
- Or they really didn't know what they were doing and they convinced themselves that being with somebody is better than being alone, regardless of who it is
So yeah, I've met a lot of people who are EXCELLENT catches, great, loving, energetic, passionate people who happen to be single.
These people are great with OR without a romantic attachment. Because it's not a relationship that makes you like that. It's who you are inside. It's what you have inside of you that radiates and shines out.
That's why psychologists will tell you that before you even think about starting a relationship you should learn about your own self, about introspection, about loving yourself first, about learning how to love yourself....
Because all you can do in a relationship, really, is share. Most people miss that point, for some reason.
Sad.
2006-11-27 02:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mario E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am one of those romantic and passionate people and I remain single to the date. Although there may be some help out there for me yet if I can get him to leave his mamma! There is actually some truth to your statement.
2006-11-27 02:03:34 · answer #3 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rarely it happens. A romantic mind expects an equally romantic partner and compares everybody with his own nature. If slightly pessimistic, he or she will find some faults with the people they come across and will wait for the right person to come to their life and alas! thy may not get what they want!!!!.
2006-11-27 02:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by THE WORRIER 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some of the most romantic and passionate people expects a lot more from their other half. a lot of times, because of their high expectations and picky-ness for romance, their other half often can not handle the stress, then leads to a break up.
2006-11-27 02:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by shycoolboylikeme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know how funny that sounds, the same thing is happening to me, girls seem to go for those guys who beat them up, get drunk and living a risky life, but i guess that how things are supposed to be, its a way for them to first understand what they don't want in a relationship then move on to what they want, and that where people like us are gonna come in to the picture
2006-11-27 02:02:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be b/c they come on too strong in relationships and scare the other person away or become suffocating and hard to deal with
2006-11-27 02:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by jenivive 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because we don't get enough affection.
2006-11-27 02:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by MsFancy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think they are lonely because they are searching for that special one
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2006-11-27 01:59:50 · answer #9 · answered by john doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋