I am just wondering for all those who are divorced, did you have any doubts when you married or did you believe 100% that your marriage would last forever?
2006-11-27 02:07:34 · 8 answers · asked by nik 28 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes I thought it would last forever,and that is the very reason it didn't.I am now remarried,have been for 13yrs,and I think my marriage will last forever,the reason I know this is because there have been times when we have hurt each other,and have been very angry with each other,and just plum sick of each other.And there will be times like this in the future.Anyone that thinks this will never happen to their marriage,are being foolish,it will happen to the best of all marriage's.It is the people that think it will never happen to them that cannot accept this dose of reality that end up divorced.Anybody getting married should know this,marriage is never the fantasy people make it out to be.That's just the way it is,so when the minster Say's for better or worse,know that the reality of marriage is just that.For better or worse.If you accept your spouse for better or worse then you can know it will last forever.I don't think anybody can be married for yrs without losing it with each other at times.It's just a choice if you want to stay married thru the good and the bad then you will.
2006-11-27 02:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I knew it wouldn't last but was fooling myself in thinking it would. I did that twice. When I got married the third time, I had no doubts whatsoever. I have been married for 4 years and with her for six and still have no doubts whatsoever. I am glad I made the mistakes I did, consider sing there were no children involved, that way I learned from my mistakes and was able to be very successful in my relationship and with my family. I always tell people if they have any doubts about being with a person for the rest of their lives, wait and don't get married until they know. Time will tell you.
2006-11-27 02:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had doubts and wanted to call it off about a week before the wedding as I had found out my soon to be husband had lied to me about some very big issues. I felt that I was on a track and didn't really have a choice and went ahead and tried to make the best of it for 6 1/2 years. I can't say I regret it because it resulted in a wonderful little boy, but know my life would be very different had I had the strength to call it off.
2006-11-27 02:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married twice. Both times before the wedding, the relaitionship was great. However, shortly after we said I do...the hitting started. Some people could know the people forever and never see that coming. I can't answer for anyone else, but I will not put up with any man putting his hands on me. No one gets a guarantee that their marriage will withstand all the ups and downs, but hopefully they chose someone who will work it out with them. Thank you and good luck.
2006-11-27 02:27:02 · answer #4 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought it would last forever. Tried to make it happen too. Stuck around in a bad relationship trying to change her mind about children. didn't work so after 14 years, it was over.
2006-11-27 02:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100%
2006-11-27 02:44:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had no doubts. I thought we would be married forever.
2006-11-27 02:13:24 · answer #7 · answered by mkjhfiuy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believed it. ()
2006-11-27 02:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋