Do you ever feel disconnected from your significant other? I don't really know what happened, but for about a week i just feel disconnected from my boyfriend of 2 years. Things happen and we just don't see each other that much. We live together, but i work in the morning, he works in the afternoon, and i go to bed early but he stays up until like 2 am playing video games. We haven't had sex for about 2 weeks, which is way abnormal. I love him to death, i just want to get through this funny faze. Any tips?
2006-11-27 01:17:35 · 10 answers · asked by Stark 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
have you spoken to him about it , maybe he dosen't even realize whats going on with the both of you
2006-11-27 01:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by sami-joe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relationships take a lot of work. This is just one of many fazes you will go through.
MAKE TIME!!! You have to make time to be with each other. I have been married for 14 years. My husband has always worked days, and I used to work nights (11a - 7p). I would literally get to spend 15 minutes with him a day. It was terrible!!! Eventually I changed my shift, and things got a lot better. This may not be a possbility for you, but there are things you can do.
Make an hour every evening to spend with each other. Trust me, you walk in front of his video games wearing nothing, and you will get his attention. You may be tired the next day, but you will have a smile on your face!! Explain to him how important it is to you to spend time with him. Ask him to lay with you every night until you fall asleep. Even if he gets back up to go play video games later.
Make an effort and you will see results!! Good luck to you!!
2006-11-27 09:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This reminds me of my relationship with my boyfriend.. almost the same.. I complain and he'd not listen and play on his video games.. which is rude.. but a guys brain works differently.. So.. after weeks of this.. I sat down with him.. and i didn't do all the talking.. i just stated how i felt.. then guys like to solve things... so he came up with setting atleast 1 night.. or whatever that we spent together.. and this helped a lot.. So maybe just set time away for the 2 of you.. good luck:)
2006-11-27 09:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by Chrissy 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but he may be cheating with a co-worker, both of u should work the same shift or he might meet someone since u are not around as much as u should be. I know this sounds cold, but it happened to me. There are alot of girls out there who don't care if a guy is taken, they will still try to get with them.
2006-11-27 10:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Set your clock for midnight and get up go out and invite your boyfriend to bed the best way you know how. This should get the two of you back on track.
2006-11-27 09:25:00 · answer #5 · answered by ranchforman57 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I f this was me I'd throw the video games away for a start.
Then I'd cook him an amazing meal, run a bubble bath and relax in it with him.
2006-11-27 09:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by spunkybadger69 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. That's all you can do. Tell him how your feeling. Unfortunately it doesn't sound too good. Sorry, hope things work out well for you
2006-11-27 09:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by Shar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
plan something special when both of you can get together, make his favorite meal do all the things he likes, wait until you and him are laughing and talking then tell him how you feel.
2006-11-27 09:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes, first have sex with him,then tell him how you are feeling, and finda way to spend more time togeter. good luck.
2006-11-27 09:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by Thumbs down me now 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, things get complicated when you live with someone you're not married to...
2006-11-27 09:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋