Marriage & Divorce - 27 November 2006

is it ok to get the same gift for my wife and my gf? they'll never really know, and it'll make shopping so much faster,,,

2006-11-27 06:22:10 · 6 answers · asked by ? 4

2006-11-27 06:21:03 · 15 answers · asked by walker w 1

so you can run off with a woman you have been having affair with?
Newt Gingrich thinks so, what about you?

2006-11-27 06:20:31 · 11 answers · asked by abascious 1

My father died when I was a teen. I am now going to inherit a sum of money upon my next b-day. My mother wants me to get a post nup signed because "it is the last thing my father can give me" and "if my husband and I get divorce - it will hurt even worse to have a broken heart and a broken wallet". My husband and I are no strangers to divorce talks in the past - I have just moved back with him two months ago. We are trying to work things out but ever since this post nup talk my husband has said that he will not be pressured into signing anything - even waiting until after my b-day or months after that - which he knows I need the papers signed before then or I will have to tell my trust fund holders not to liquidate the assests - he is holding this over me. What is the difference between now or six months? This is a strain on my mother and I - and this paper only says I will get back what is mine if we get a divorce. Is this so wrong??? I had this before we were ever together!

2006-11-27 06:18:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok here is the deal I had been cheatin on my husband for 11 months emotionally and physically. I fell in love with the other guy and he fell in love with me. My friend told me that I should tell me husband and quit going behind his back I agreed that I should and said right after thanksgiving I am going to come clean with everyone. Before getting the chance to this so called friend called my husband and told him everything I was going to she knew that and she went to him before me then tried to cover her ***. Now she wants us to be friends ike nothing has ever happened both men are still wanting to be with me my husband and the other man. What I am suppose to do?

2006-11-27 06:17:25 · 25 answers · asked by momof2 2

My husband seems to not be interested in me sexually anymore(all though I may be taking it personally, he may not want sex period)

At first I thought it was my physical appearance but I do yoga everyday and see a personal trainer 4x a week so not to sound like a gloat, but iam very fit. Also, the sex we had had before was good, i suppose, he seemed pleased?Hopefully one of you can tell me whats wrong.

2006-11-27 06:16:04 · 6 answers · asked by Still_Dirty♥ 1

My husband works nights at his job..and tend to sit up late at night and watch nasty videos on the internet. I've caught him doing this a few times. He tells me over and over agian that its not me. That I am enough for him. I just don't understand why he's doing this. Does anyone have any information that might help me get him to stop? The oddest part is that he dosen't masterbate or anything while watching these videos. He just sits and watches them. I just don't understand why or how to get him to stop..can someone please help me?

2006-11-27 06:14:22 · 28 answers · asked by mandy b 2

my friend has been recently falsely charged under Protection of Women from DVA 2005 by his estranged wife.we all know she's lying, as does her Counsel. but she's persisted with it, threatening him out of vindictiveness, when it came to light that she'd been lying all through. so in the form she's filled, there's nothing that she's left unticked. they'r not living together since the past 18 months, and in this case, its the hubby who's a victim of the wife's cruelty, who's turned him out of his own house and is living in it with someone else.
he's filed for a divorce, but now this counter from the wife.
under these circumstances, how does he protect himself?
can someone help him get out of a very bad marriage? any NGOs/ groups in mumbai/delhi where he can take proper counselling and adopt the correct course of action?
i look forward to quick responses, for his sake.

2006-11-27 06:13:23 · 6 answers · asked by rajat-gujrat 1

2006-11-27 06:13:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 06:08:07 · 3 answers · asked by Grace 1

I need someone to marry ma man and i bc i am 17 and he is 20 and we want to get married NOW but cant so PLEASE get at me!

2006-11-27 06:00:57 · 15 answers · asked by Tasha 1

HI,HAVE BEEN IN RELATIONSHP FOR 15+YEARS,WE SPLIT FOR SIX MONTHS THIS YEAR,HE HAS MOVED BACK HOME FOR 2 MONTHS NOW,I STARTED TO FEEL SAD AGAIN,WE HAVE CHILDREN TOGETHER AND DONT THINK I COULD PUT THEM THROUGH A SPLIT AGAIN.HE IS TRYING SO HARD WITH ME BUT DONT THINK IM EVER GOING TO FEEL THE WAY I DID,I WANT TO BUT ITS JUST NOT THERE,WHAT DO I DO,JUST WANT TO FEEL HAPPY AGAIN.

2006-11-27 05:58:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I have had a strained marriage for over 14 years. We have agreed to stay together for our chidrens sake but we are mostly friends and NOT lovers. We rarely have sex or do anything together.

The past two years I have been in contact with my true love via email and phone. We split 20 years ago because she moved and she and I both have feelings for each other. She recently has asked to see me. We have not seen each other for over 20 years.
Am I being unfaithful if I meet with her? Should I take the chance seeing her again would make my feelings for her stronger? Looking for any opinions.

2006-11-27 05:52:04 · 41 answers · asked by tmcumis 1

My mother-in-law is getting much closer than she used too. I don't want to tell my wife, I don't know what to think. I don't want to hurt either. I was in the shower once and she said If I needed help washing my back. I ask on how she got in and she laughed and said your wife showed me.

2006-11-27 05:49:48 · 24 answers · asked by r m 1

I have another question up on this issue, but...

My soon to be ex-sister in law was arrested for having assaulted her adult daughter in the family home.

My brothers attorney has state that as the daughter does not live in the residence (nor does the ex-wife) that this situation cannot even be mentioned in the divorce case.

Does this make sense to anyone? It would seems to show what type of parent she actually is and would weigh on child custody for their other daughter, who is a minor.

2006-11-27 05:48:46 · 6 answers · asked by ? 4

My dad took me and my sister when he got devoriced, no help from anyone..... Do you think child support is just a way for women to get money???

2006-11-27 05:46:23 · 19 answers · asked by _DestroyingAngel_ 3

my sister is 19 her boyfriend of 2 years asked her to marry him with the ring and all. their is no dought in my mind and theirs that they love eachother ad could make life work for them its just the rest of the family thinks its to young so she was thinking of maybe getting married after she turned 21. what do you think?

2006-11-27 05:44:26 · 14 answers · asked by darkvamp4542 3

I am struggling to think of things to say that aren't a repeat of what we have heard in movies. Everything sounds so cliche'. Any suggestions?

2006-11-27 05:43:34 · 35 answers · asked by puzzled 2

my ex is over 35K in arrears on child support AND (get this it's almost funny) fighting me for SOLE custody of our daughter whom he has made no effort to see in over 5 years! Normally I'd have let the CS situation go but he's costing me a TON of legal fees & that is impacting what I am able to do for our dauther - thus I think it's appropriate at this time to go after the arrerars. The OAG says they may not be able to get the arrears because he claims I have hidden our daughter from him & denied him visitation. NOT true! He has not TRIED to get visitation but is making these wild claims that he came to our home & I denied him! He's NUTS! His claims are 100% false but how do I PROVE it??? He has never as much as called our daughter to wish a happy birthday or sent a card or anything! But I can't PROVE that either. Apparently his new wife is buying his BS sob story & helping him with the legal fees.
Anyway, have any of you had any luck with the child support collection agencies?

2006-11-27 05:41:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My divorce went very quickly because my husband (now ex) had an affair. We were divorced 3 months from the day I found out. That was 4 months ago. It has been 7 months in total. My ex will be moving in with the other woman this week. I am finding it difficult to deal with him on issues with our son. He is not spending alot of time with our son lately. I have tried to tell my ex that he needs to put more effort into his relationship with his son but I got this comment "you are not my wife, you are not my mother - you are irrelevant and your opinions do not matter". That hurt - so I have decided to let things go. I no longer make any comments. It seems as if my ex wants to set the boundaries. Then he will call me and ask me my opinion on something not related to our son. He confuses me. What do I do? I have decided to ask nothing and expect nothing. That way I do not get disappointed. Anybody else in a similar situation? How did you handle it? Why is my ex like this?

2006-11-27 05:39:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 05:37:14 · 17 answers · asked by thinkmovement 2

I'm hoping that someone has some experience and can offer insight.

I have a family mmber going through a divorce, their soon to be ex-wife is just a nightmare. She's been diagnosed as having a border line personality disorder & Multiple personalities (seriosuly), has abandoned her kids, and has been having an affair with a Dr. she works with (on a seperate topic, she's not an attractive woman and that makes this all the more puzzling) and has tried committing suicide (well, she took aspirin and called a bunch of people, twice).

At any rate, shes trying to get alimony, does not want to pay child support wants to take my brothers retirement accounts as well as stick him with all of her attorneys fees. Essentially, she wants to drop all her resposnibilities, take my brothers to the cleaners and receive alimony checks.

Does anyone have any idea of what type of outcome he can expect? Until about 6 mo.s ago, she used to make more than him and now she dropped her work to two days a week.

2006-11-27 05:32:49 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4

my husband is out of the country and I like to call him because i miss him so much. Eventhough i call him everyday he hardly calls me. When i call him he says his busy. He is working out of the country. I always get on him for not calling me, and he tells me that he is working hard for our future and the childrens future. he says i need to give him more support instead of getting mad about little things like not calling me. What can i do for him to realize how much i love him and for him to call me?

2006-11-27 05:24:26 · 28 answers · asked by tropic f 1

do they tend to be more sexual with their wife's,because of the sexual excitement of being with the other woman,or thinking about other women?Or is it just the oppisite,do they tend to have erection problem's because thinking or being with another woman makes them feel guilty, or desire their wife less,than what they normally would?It seems like the only time my husband desire's to be with me is when I know he recently got his self excited over another woman,other wise he has erection problem's and has very little desire for me.Even though I,am a sexually desireable woman.I'am thinking he does not desire me because of a or other women,or that is the only reason he does desire me when he does.I will greatly appreaciate any honest answer's from the men on this subject,very curious as to how another woman or thinking about other women affect's the sexual relationship with their wife's.THANKS GUYS AND WOMEN THAT WANT TO REPLY.

2006-11-27 05:24:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm getting divorced and I have a problem with the cars my husband and I had. He bought me a car (it's financed under his name) and I bought him a truck (it's financed under my name). My car is almost paid off, the payments are only about $150 a month which I could totally afford on my own now. The truck is new and have only paid about $4K off on it and it's a $19K payoff. The monthly payments are $500! I CANNOT afford to take the truck back. If I take it back to the dealer where I bought it and turn it in, how much will I get back? What happens? I'll have to trade it back in to get a new car ASAP (I won't have time to privately sell it). Can someone please explain to me what will happen? Also, I am BROKE right now and can't afford to have to put a down on a new car and my credit isn't good. Will that matter since I'm trading in? Please help!!! You can IM me at TucKitty820 on AIM. THANKS!

2006-11-27 05:23:02 · 12 answers · asked by QT from Cali 1

2006-11-27 05:18:20 · 8 answers · asked by adacan25 1

My hubby has made it clear to me that I am a bad wife at house cleaning compared to his previous two wives. They held down great paying jobs and cleaned apparently Miraculous. As to where he says my cleaning looks like an half *** and asks me why I am so Lazy in the cleaning Department. Since I don't know how to clean like Godess am I really that bad of a wife I have trie dthat stupid fly lady thing I just don't know things I do look clumsy and good advice I will so appreciate.

2006-11-27 05:14:37 · 30 answers · asked by blueflyhorizon 1

2006-11-27 05:12:40 · 11 answers · asked by neutral 2

I am a very beautiful blk woman. I have a very high sex drive.(which my husband never complained about before) We have been together for 5yrs. We have two children together- 19 month old and a 8 week old baby. Even when the children are sleep-or away-even when Im fresh out of the shower with Victoria's Secret on-even when I strut around like a sex-godess-he never wants me. I need to have sex everyday or I am highly stressed and depressed. We only have sex when he is ready-which is maybe every 3 days. Im sick and tired of this ****. Someone please give me some advice. Im not going to divorce him nor cheat. We are a Christian couple and I have prayed that he'll desire me the same way I desire him, but it has yet to come. Maybe I need to get help for my over-sexual mind. I dont know. He has no ED problems nor is he cheating. He does have a high workload and is stressd from work most nights. Thanks a bunch!!!!

2006-11-27 05:12:00 · 32 answers · asked by butterrum28 5

2006-11-27 05:11:12 · 5 answers · asked by helix 3