Marriage & Divorce - 27 November 2006

ok guys i'm a woman who is tired of hearing about dead beat dads. i've met men who are HOMELESS because of child support payments while the wife does nothing via a job!!!! how many of you think if the ex wants the child support she should have to work at least 30 hrs a week? now if she's disabled i can understand but... maby she needs to have a sit down job then. so plz tell me what you think???

2006-11-27 08:04:38 · 17 answers · asked by kattz1111 2

been dating a great guy for 2 yrs and plan on getting married next yr.hes a divorced dad who is great with his kids never misses a school function allways pays his child support on time and goes out of his way to help his ex.the problem is he cheated on his wife 2x and left her for the second gf(was not me and did not last long)he said he was never happy in his marriage and his wife was awful to him and controlled his every move.i have met his wife more than once and everthing he said about her is true.i asked him if he was so unhappy why did he not just leave and he said its not that easy when you have kids.he said he wanted to do the right thing and try and make it work. i want to believe him as he really does love his children but i'm just afraid he will do the same thing to me.men can you answer this can a man be driven to cheat by a controlling wife?

2006-11-27 08:04:15 · 34 answers · asked by carriemartin0990 1

My fiance and I will be getting married in a few months, but want a pagan wedding. It will be too cold to get married outside, so any ideals for an inside wedding? and someone to marry us. We are both pagans, so a traditional christian wedding is out of the question.

2006-11-27 08:01:29 · 12 answers · asked by libbe2020 1

SHE IS NOT HAPPY WITH HIM AT ALL BUT SHE SCARED SHE WILL HURT THE KIDS IF SHE LEAVES HIM WHAT SOULD I DO?

2006-11-27 08:00:42 · 11 answers · asked by jec110779 1

I 'm seperarated and I feel sometimes guilty for telling my husband to choose drugs or his family! I think I have some sort of emotional abuse , that I feel that I have to stay with him because I have to help him! I have three kids with him and as they r getting older they r suspecting things on him!I really need to hear from someone that has been on my road and help me know my emotional state right now?

2006-11-27 07:59:52 · 15 answers · asked by jane22 1

Suppose you fell in love with someone other than your husband / spouse of 15 years. You still love your husband, very much, you are just not "in" love with him; you are in love with this other person. The other is still in love with you, but chooses his wife. To top it all off, you have to think of the best situation for your children to grow up in. Suggestions? Cutting it off completely doesn't seem to be working. Counseling is helping, a little, but it is a long process, and the relationship has existed for almost a year.

2006-11-27 07:59:39 · 17 answers · asked by Blondie 1

2006-11-27 07:57:50 · 14 answers · asked by Optimistic 6

He said it was not what he expected it to be. We've been married for 9 years together for 13. She came to work in my office and that's how I found out... she has a big mouth. I feel like I could die.

2006-11-27 07:55:40 · 11 answers · asked by Sugar 3

Divorce states "shared" custody with Dad having primary physical custody. (we agreed to let him have physical custody when we got divorced. And we also agreed that when the kids are over 12 they can decide where they want to be) We live 2,000 miles apart. My son WANTS to live with his Dad. But dad says he can't. (His current wife had a big say in this) Son has ADHD and behavior issues. Son was living with dad for most of the time since divorce 10 years ago. He has been with me for last year and a half. Dad wouldn't even take him for Summer break!
So here's the question--
Can I legally fly him out there and leave him on his dad's doorstep?? Would I get into trouble?
I personally think this 14 y/o needs his Dad and his older sister that lives with Dad. Can Dad just say "Nope you burned your bridges- YOu can't live with us" -Even though he is SUPPOSED to have physical custody.. Does Physical custody change since he has has physically been in my care for the last 1.5 years?

2006-11-27 07:55:02 · 4 answers · asked by funornotfun 1

Based on the great number of "who do I choose" questions I am curious. Fess up...no one knows who you are just say "I do" (obviously if you don't don't answer).

2006-11-27 07:54:24 · 7 answers · asked by Shebaby 3

Nothing kinky! We just wondered if there is a website where couples can meet other couples for friendship.

2006-11-27 07:51:42 · 12 answers · asked by janeylizzybee 1

in my relationship??? If I do ignore certain things he automatically accuses me of cheating, I need to learn to NOT engage in his child like bickering or fights, its almost like he wants to argue...why are some people like this...how do you avoid it?

2006-11-27 07:47:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

This community that i am in does not have many options to get assistance. I have currently received custody of two nephews and the state does very little to help. I do not have any family and do not know of many resources. If you have any ideas please help.

2006-11-27 07:47:53 · 13 answers · asked by Rebecca C 1

ok.. this is a little personal but this is my last resort...
I have never climaxed during intercourse. my husband thinks that this is because of him but its not i just cant seem to get off by intercourse...when i get fingurd or anything else i can.... so please how do i climax during intercourse? my husband and my 2 years is coming up and i would really like to make it memorable!! what is a way that i can maybe climax? any one with this same problem? how did you overcome it?anything to personal to write may be emailed to me thru yahoo....dazeaway_fromtoday or if you have myspace message me there....www.myspace.com/urbndrk

2006-11-27 07:46:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in Hamilton and the court date is set in Cauga i dont drive and have no one to drive me what will happen

2006-11-27 07:45:10 · 7 answers · asked by John O 1

Can someone please tell me if it's possible for me to get the paperwork divorce lawyers file on behalf of their clients from a court house? I intend to do the paperwork myself and take it to the courthouse, pay the filing fee and any other fee that may come about. i don't believe in lawyers and I know I can do this myself

2006-11-27 07:45:01 · 2 answers · asked by mattiewinrow 2

I'm just so in love with my sweet husband today. I'd love to hear what makes others' relationships fulfilling. What character traits are endearing to you? What gets you through the bad times? Why have you stayed together?
Thanks!

2006-11-27 07:42:01 · 8 answers · asked by QueenSupreme 2

And why?

2006-11-27 07:41:24 · 8 answers · asked by larryjr3333 2

In general, once two people get married are they responsible for the debts that each bring into the marriage, or only the debts they incur after they are married? For example, if I marry someone with $5000 in debt, and she suddenly passes away, am I responsible for the debt? Morbid example, but you get the idea.

Similarly, I've heard that all income earned by a married person is considered a joint marital asset, EXCEPT money that is inherited from a relative's estate. True?

2006-11-27 07:41:22 · 3 answers · asked by Stretchy McSlapNuts 3

who has lived with a man (not married, but in same home for number of years) and had a kid by them, and then broke up...did you get the kids? did he? I want to leave my relationship but he says I will not get to take our child and that is the only reason reason i am in this still, also years of his insecurities and accusations have made me stay home with the kids and not work outside the home, he is also using this against me...what can I do??? He makes well over 80,000 a year and tells me he will not pay child support and that I would have to...HELP!

2006-11-27 07:40:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Without harming any of the children. As safely as possible.

2006-11-27 07:38:47 · 8 answers · asked by sweetie pie 1

He has the same initials as me, his name is close to mine, we are almost the same age, he has no kids, a college grad, a good job, nice, romantic, thoughtful, handsome, fine, and he loves me just as much as I love him...Have you been lucky to find yours?

2006-11-27 07:37:39 · 8 answers · asked by angelic1302 3

I just found out from a very reliable sorce that my husband is into drugs. He has always promised me he would never do drugs. This really bothers me that he is now keeping stuff from me. And our first baby is on the way. I am so upset. Should I confront him?? I am afraid he will just get mad at me and lie about it. What should I do :(

2006-11-27 07:37:28 · 12 answers · asked by Loves2Snuggle 2

2006-11-27 07:37:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My daughter ask me a question when she was 8 years old "What are you going to be when you grow up" at the time I was 34 years old. I thought about it and looked in the mirror and what did I see. My question is what do you see when you look in the mirror. Be honest

2006-11-27 07:36:54 · 6 answers · asked by r m 1

Over the weekend we saw this cute movie at a place that sells new and used dvd's called "the lion king". The cover had a big lion on it and then they had this little baby lion being held up by a monkey in the sunlight. It looked so cute!! Then it had this scary lion on there but it looked so neat with all these animals in it. I asked my husband if Jessica and I could watch it but he said that we couldn't because it had these bad subliminal messages in it and he thought it would be too scary in some parts for us. I asked him if we could get it and then maybe he could record over the bad parts like some of our other movies but he said he couldn't do that on a dvd at home. I then asked if he would watch it with us and then tell us to close our eyes and cover our ears at the bad parts and he said he would think about it. What can I do to make him really happy so he will say yes? I need to also find a way to ask him without sounding bothersome. Any ideas?

2006-11-27 07:36:01 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in love with my boyfriend! We wanna get married! Thing is, I'm still married! He loves my kids and my X hus wants to fight for them. My X didn't do anything for us while we were together or even while we are apart...I have 2 kids, one isn't for my X and one is...should I let him have both to visit or just one...also, am I wrong but I let both my kids visit the first kid's father too b/c I don't want to seperate them...Should I seperate my kids when they go visit their fathers...p.s. one lives in Tx, I live in souther LA and the other lives in Northern LA

2006-11-27 07:35:38 · 1 answers · asked by angelic1302 3

2006-11-27 07:35:32 · 3 answers · asked by arlethasl 1

GA does not have Ailanation of Affection. I now live in FL and they do not have this law either. How can I get this judgement voided, under the law of voids or make a petition to vacate the judgement.

2006-11-27 07:32:04 · 8 answers · asked by Tammy S 1

EVEN IF A MAN HAS A WIFE DO YOU THINK IT IS OK FOR HIM TO STILL LIKE PORN.... WHAT DOES THAT MEN OF THE WIFE.... DOES IT MEAN THAT SHE IS NOT ENOUGH SEXUALLY FOR HIM?

2006-11-27 07:27:23 · 22 answers · asked by Michelle A 1