He said it was not what he expected it to be. We've been married for 9 years together for 13. She came to work in my office and that's how I found out... she has a big mouth. I feel like I could die.
2006-11-27 07:55:40 · 11 answers · asked by Sugar 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sugar, some of the above comments are simply bad bad advice. Trying to hurt him back, divorcing him, etc - they are simply bad bad choices that will only make things worse.
what is needed is for you and your husband to seek godly counsel, to learn to forgive and be honest with each other. don't throw your marriage out the window. don't seek revenge. don't let your anger or humilation overcome you.
believe it or not, there are many many couples who not only recover from something like this but who go on to be stronger than ever in their marriage.
But you do need to be honest with other, to seek counsel from someone you both trust and respect, to learn to pray and commit things to God, to forgive....
God bless you!!!
Please let me know if I can help at all!!!
2006-11-27 08:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by happy pilgrim 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel so sorry for you! What a Bi***! Who is she to come in to your job and run her mouth.(to hurt you) You must be asking your self, Is this the only one? How many more lies? Girl, Cry yell and be mad. But then search your self and if you want to work thorough this go STRAIGHT to counseling! I went thorough some thing like this and if you want to work it out don't let every one confuse you more. every one is gonna tell you Oh once a cheater always a cheater. People will tell you all kind of crazy Shi* about him. Don't even entertain the conversation. Because they should of told you from the get go. People love to see others craziness. I really wish you the best. And ALSO keep your head up!
2006-11-27 16:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by Just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you've got two issues. I don't know why women think that cheating is the end of the world, so I would say, it happened three years ago, he admitted it, go on with life. But the fact that this Biyatch is talking about it at work is a major problem. That's the one you've got to deal with.
2006-11-27 16:00:17 · answer #3 · answered by niko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him, well if it had been all that you expected and then some would he have continued on with the relationship. What does he think, this is supposed to make you feel better, that he did not enjoy it? I am sorry you are having to deal with this. I am sure you feel pretty sick right now. So she is now your co-worker and she confessed, well isn't that kind of her! I am being sarcastic, be sure to tell her that one reaps what they sow in this world. Good luck and God bless****
2006-11-27 16:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha Ha
2006-11-27 15:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I am pretty sure I would not be able to trust this man again. Leopards never change their spots! He made vows to you in front of God when you married and he apparently doesn't believe they hold true for him. Find someone who will treat you properly.
2006-11-27 16:01:47 · answer #6 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Does your husband have a brother? If so have sex with him. Then do it with your husbands boss. Then some of the neighbors. Teach that manslut a lesson he will NEVER FORGET
2006-11-27 15:59:03 · answer #7 · answered by 8287327368723 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorce him. He cheated once, he can do it again and staying with him only enables it. Get out now.
2006-11-27 16:02:40 · answer #8 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just let it slide
2006-11-27 15:59:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, what is your question?
2006-11-27 15:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by Leo F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋