Marriage & Divorce - 27 November 2006

When I became pregnant he would tell me he was going to marry me, move in together and things would be fine. I gave birth 3 mths ago and currently live with my dad and sister and he lives w/his parents. Ever since I had my son he (31yrs old) does not tell me things are going to be ok. We've had a lot of arguments because of this. In the begining we had problems because he would not tell his parents that I was expecting. He finally told them when I gave birth. Now he wont tell his ex-wife he has a second son because he's afraid of losing him. When we started dating he was not divorced (he is now) just seperated for the past 2 years. She does not know that I have been in his life for the past 1 yr and ½ . Is that right? He just told me he feels I love him more than he loves me. Should I give him more time or is it a sign that he want's to move on. I have been very patient w/him. I feel I have been mislead and unfortuanately there is a child involved now. I need opinions

2006-11-27 07:22:31 · 10 answers · asked by Izzie 2

After a very drunken night, I cheated on my husband with his best friend. We didn't go all the way, but closer than I ever thought I would be capable of doing. I am not the type to cheat. But I don't really think I love my husband anymore. Otherwise, I don't think I would of put myself in the position to cheat. I know his friend cares alot about me, and I think I share those feelings as well, but I know nothing can ever really develop and feel good about myself knowing that I wasn't faithful to my husband. I know that me and my husband are going to seperate, we have been talking about it for months, and haven't gone through with it for financial reasons. Could me and his friend have any sort of future? Has anyone been in this situation? Do you think that my husband get past this? He knows that his friend and I have "something" going on. I just don't think he knows exactly. Please help!

2006-11-27 07:21:44 · 26 answers · asked by sugar00101 1

2006-11-27 07:17:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just vissited my friend the past week on their farm and her parents were fighting the hole time, she said that she thinks they are going to get divorced. But her dad does the farm work and her mom the fainances.

2006-11-27 07:13:07 · 7 answers · asked by Adonis 1

to each other!! Now our families are going to get very angry but we want to stay commited for the children!! Anyone have advice on how to handle the families? They all got dragged into this divorce and basically think we are crazy!!

2006-11-27 07:12:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I help my bother get over this girlfriend/with kids who dumped him, he was wrong to her he never helped her do anything and took her for granted.She kick him out and cheated with his friend the very same night she threw him out And now he is staying with me, he crys to me constantly about how much he hurts and what he should do? She has cheated on him several times in the past. Heck, when he met her she was married to someone else and cheated with him.What advice should I give?

2006-11-27 07:12:26 · 15 answers · asked by laviniablue 1

one day i came home and i caught him masturbating to gay porn with his best friend.. he does not know that i saw him and i dont know how to confront him.. should i leave him? is he gay?

2006-11-27 07:11:41 · 22 answers · asked by ladiilovee 1

2006-11-27 07:11:07 · 36 answers · asked by yumna 1

I do not wear my wedding ring becasue it bothers my hand and is in the way of golfing and working. I only put it on when I am travelling and at parties. Now I don't wear it all, my wife does not say anything, does she not notice or she maybe feels thats just a material of love bondage. What should I do, keep it on or just leave it. I do love my wife and I am faithful.

2006-11-27 07:06:13 · 31 answers · asked by r m 1

My life has been pretty interesting. My exwife has made my life a living hell now for 7 yrs. I just recently lost again my job and had to move away to so called escape her. I have a son who I love more than life it self and have been fighting for custody for him since the day he was born. I do have him with me and have had him with me now for quite some time, but you can imagine the games she plays with custody. I have also lost a woman I love and her 2 little girls who I raised for 2 1/2 yrs due to my ex. I wont go into too many details. It ruined us. So all in all Financialy and relationship wise i am ruined once more. And forced to start over yet again. I have my son but simple dont have the means to provide him with what I call a normal life. I live with my brother and share a room with my son with two matresses. Now whenever I start to get alittle better just the simple things in life push me back under. How do you make a comeback? How do you climb out?

2006-11-27 07:05:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend....has EVERYTHING! What do I get him for Christmas??

2006-11-27 07:04:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

or make it a double barreled name??

why?

2006-11-27 07:04:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife left me after 3 months of marriage. It stems from my emotional outburst where i used foul language and yelled venting my frustrations regarding my 7 seven year old step daughter. Who i truly do love but was learnig to adjust to raising her, she still saw me as the friend and not the step father, and using the word "no" wasn't working. My wife has since left the house and moved back in with her mom, she has also filed for an anullment. I have tried calling and e-mailing, and she would not reply. I finally went over to her house and she simply said "you invovled her" and closed the door. I have been attending marital counseling, but it is getting tough because my wife won't attend, and it's hard to prove to her since she is not talking to me. What should i do now? I miss my family and it is very hard to understand.

2006-11-27 07:02:59 · 10 answers · asked by john d 1

I think my husband forgot my birthday...
Should I remind him?
or Should I just wait until later and hope he remembers?

2006-11-27 07:01:10 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 07:00:11 · 4 answers · asked by jane 1

My husband and I have one daughter who is 8. We are a Christian family, and strongly believe in spanking. The only implement we use is a spanking paddle. My husband is generally the one who is more of a disciplinarian. I have noticed that when our daughter gets a spanking from her father for something, she usually never does it again. It really works, but I am open to any opinions as this is a debated subject. I just hope people will see our views, too.

2006-11-27 06:52:07 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

..........being married 2 years with 2 babies, a girl 4 and a boy 2?

2006-11-27 06:48:40 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2

Do you always tell your spouse/ significant other
"Happy Birthday"
On the day of their birth?

2006-11-27 06:48:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for just under three years. We have been arguing quite a lot and our sex life has gone downhill. I have been ill with depression and have gained some weight also. I had just started to try and get my life back on track by being back at work,applying for new jobs, dieting and exercising when my husband annouced he wanted us to divorce. He says he no longer is attracted to me and doen't see how he can get those feelings back. We are curently still living in the same house but in seperate beds, we are talking more and arguing less and we have a session booked this week with a marriage counsellor but I am unsure how this will go. If he doesn't feel attracted to me and is not allowing me to get close/intimate enough to try then how am I supposed to convince him we have something worth saving?

2006-11-27 06:48:12 · 11 answers · asked by Selina 1

I've been married for 18months. I met my husband while both of us were in the military. I am currently out of the military now. He just got back from Iraq in Sept. I had a preemie (3months early) last year because of all the stress he put me through emotionally. I am currently making an appt for him to take a lie detector test to see if he has physically cheated on me since we've been together. I have caught him talking sexually to women on yahoo i.m. This was when we were first married. He told me he didn't know how to be a husband at the time and he was sorry. I wanted to leave, but I stary b/c of our son. I currently don't work. My job is my son. I am going to find a job as soon as I can find a good daycare for my little boy. I want to wait til after the lie detector test is done and base my actions on the results. Apart of me is say for get the stupid results, just get out of this marriage now. Don't get me wrong, I love my husband, just hate the way he treats me.

2006-11-27 06:47:15 · 17 answers · asked by CHIGALORE 2

2006-11-27 06:44:40 · 8 answers · asked by dharmesh_sun 1

After 25 years she cheated and really never gave him up during our therapy sessions..always one lie after another, she was deflecting saying that she didn't like the way I would react after each lie...she rarey had emphazie...she filed...a month ago..is it to late!..I would work to take her back...long road

2006-11-27 06:41:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 06:39:07 · 15 answers · asked by preety_roshi 1

2006-11-27 06:35:23 · 15 answers · asked by Stacye S 3

I have been with this guy for 8yrs, married for 5 of that. i thought everything was going good, when we went out one night and had a few beers together and then decide to go home early. we get home and he tries to pick a fight with me and then decides to leave. i decide to follow him cause he has been acting weird. I find him pulling up to some girls house and goes in. I go to knock on the door and she answers the door and says he's not there, when his truck is parked in front. well i leave and he stays there all night. he comes home the next afternoon, and we talk and he says that he didn't do anything wrong and that he never touch the other woman. should i believe that??

2006-11-27 06:33:20 · 13 answers · asked by MEL 1

my husband supposedly only has two more years to live. he hates it when i talk about it or show any emotion... but i look at him and my heart breaks that we are so young (19) and this is happening! i just want a way to fix it, but i can't..... how can i hide all the emotion and not think about it so he doesn't have to either? how do i say goodbye to him when the time comes?

2006-11-27 06:32:08 · 15 answers · asked by heaven-sin-t 4

Married 3 yrs to my best friend. We have one child. He wants a divorce b/c he wants to concentrate on his business. He basically shut himself off emotionally and buried himself further into work after two back-to-back miscarriages last year. We separated in July. He has his own apartment. We have filed for divorce but don't plan to finalize until the new year. He's over several times a week, brings over groceries, calls daily. Basically, it's like nothing has changed (except for him living elsewhere so he can work 20 hours and day).
I feel so torn. Part of me wants him to get his head out of his *** and come back and the other part wants me to just move on and find someone new...someone who will put family before work...am I being a sentimental fool??

2006-11-27 06:26:32 · 19 answers · asked by whatever 3

2006-11-27 06:24:11 · 21 answers · asked by rtreshill 1

I would help a single mother to better her self so she can afford to accomplish the dreams she wants for her children. I would encourage her to get ready for a trade that she loves and would be happy in doing it. Sometimes a little faith and an extra push is all she will need to beable to continue on in her future dreams.

2006-11-27 06:22:23 · 10 answers · asked by Barbara B 1

It seems like an given with some inconsiderate husbands. But how can you turn things around without it turning into an all out war.?

2006-11-27 06:22:15 · 9 answers · asked by haditforgood 2