Marriage & Divorce - 27 November 2006

my wife has all the skills and makes good money so i dont have to work,but i sort of feel less of a man,what should i do?

2006-11-27 11:00:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have to say it has never been an issue because i think he knew up front that i was a very jealous person and that i will not tolerate him watching porn..... we have watched together, but if i found that he was doing it without me i would probably divorce him.... am i asking for trouble??? people seem to think it is such a "normal" thing.... to me it is freakin audultery!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-27 10:57:15 · 27 answers · asked by don't be rude. 3

2006-11-27 10:53:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 10:53:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband was the first guy I went out to eat with, and a movie with! He was my first , I feel weird to even think of having anyone else touch me! I feel lonely and sometimes desire that touch of a man holding me! When will I be ready and not feel guilty!

2006-11-27 10:51:45 · 14 answers · asked by jane22 1

I have seen this a couple times. Once in the police section a guy flunked out of law school then recommended a young woman who stole from a department store just plead guilty to the misdemeanor and bargain for a lower fine!

Today, a paralegal opined that a will gifting to a dog will override the money going to the wife and kids. The advice people get on this site is sometimes frightening.

Do you agree? What are your horror stories?

2006-11-27 10:50:50 · 9 answers · asked by jsb3t 3

i just read a disturbing post..... some of you probably answered on it..... anyway! i really don't think my husband looks at porn, yet a lot of people say its normal. do all men watch porn (internet, magazines, videos, etc...)

2006-11-27 10:48:15 · 11 answers · asked by don't be rude. 3

and hes acting strange ...he changed all his passwords.... what should i do...

2006-11-27 10:47:51 · 39 answers · asked by EVE 1

Any of you ever make a naughty video with a guy? And if so, would you do it again? Seems like it's a 50-50 breakdown...

2006-11-27 10:47:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 10:42:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband smoke alot..about 20 in one day..i asked him to quit that and he promised me he do..and he did..i was so happy.he always told me he did that because he love me so much..but now after few months i discovered he countinue to smok and he tryed to hide it..now i cant forgive him..why did he do that with me.?i feel stupid..because it was a deal between us and he strongly promised he would forget the cigarette

2006-11-27 10:40:50 · 21 answers · asked by binam 1

i have been married for four years and i have had three miscarriges i am in my late 40s and my husband wants to go find a girl who can have a baby he said he doesnt want to leave me and is sure he can find a girl who will be willing to have a kid with him so should i stay or leave????????????

2006-11-27 10:40:29 · 17 answers · asked by tristy 2

im 15 and well, i read through my dad's emails today and there's this lady he met on a dating site and she's in love with him and stuff it seems and she want to have sex with him and that's what im reading from the email. stuff like that. he doesnt seem to be saying stuff like that too but the thing is, he's asking her when they wanna meet and where and all that stuff but he asked her if she's actually serious about meeting. it's creeping me out beacuse my dad is married and he's like 53 years old and my mom is 47 and he has kids (me and my brother who's 12). i know my parents arent "in love" anymore, they just seem to be getting along like friends it seems. but my dad isnt only talking to one girl online, he's talking to two i've seen, maybe even more. he did this years ago and i told my mom about it but she just said that at his age, he just wants to talk and see what these people are like on dating services just for fun. is that kind of normal for men? im worried what should i do???

2006-11-27 10:35:56 · 20 answers · asked by BEAutiful 2

I know when we got married, the church was very anamate that we were not living together before the wedding. My friend got married about a year later to a guy she was living with, and every church she talked to (including mine) wanted them to live apart for six months before they'd marry them. (they got married by a Justice of the Peace) My brother and his finacee are living together now, and plan to get married in a Catholic church. They claim they've never been asked for her address. Is this common? Is it a "don't ask, don't tell" thing?

2006-11-27 10:35:55 · 3 answers · asked by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7

2006-11-27 10:33:27 · 21 answers · asked by Caroline A 1

Just found out that my husband cheated on me, lied about it for several months while he was talking to the gal over the internet. She live in a different country.... She was back for a visit when the cheating went on. Now, after he told me about all that happened, he swears he will never do it again and never did it prior to this time. He says it is over with her but, it still hurts to think my husband was with another... He seems to be devoted to my and our children now. Do i give him a second chance after all the lies and stuff?

2006-11-27 10:28:44 · 37 answers · asked by jayjay 2

I have asked my husband many times to not look at porn on the internet, it makes me sad to know that I am not good enough for him and he has to turn to other things to make him happy. Do I have the right to ask him to choose either me or the internet porn?

2006-11-27 10:26:47 · 25 answers · asked by beckithenurse 2

My dog came from the safety of the outside in to the burning house and saved me when i was trapped in house fire and my wife just stood outside and never tried to help.

And if I out live my dog can i leave it to Animal charity....What are the laws?

2006-11-27 10:22:41 · 33 answers · asked by Brown guy 2

I recently got custody of my 2 kids when we went to court the judge ordered her to pay child support she only has to pay 194.00 when I was paying her I had to pay 450.00. so why sould the woman get off cheaper than the man.

2006-11-27 10:20:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are there any consequences?

2006-11-27 10:19:37 · 20 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1

Any feedback is appreciated. Thanks!

2006-11-27 10:15:36 · 19 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1

2006-11-27 10:14:48 · 46 answers · asked by fabulous 2

Just asking because recently i found out that my husband actually lied to me about the amount of money he spent at a fast food restaurant. I think he might be hanging around with an old friend (male) and i don't approve of it because in the past he had been a bad influence.

2006-11-27 10:12:40 · 23 answers · asked by Elizabeth 1

So how many women here will let your man rub you and stuff in bed then at some point say something to the effect of " Now dont get any ideas" or, "you aint getting nothing", how about "what do you think your trying to do" um basically saying no nookie and never give any explanation. Well my wife does that all the time and its driving me INSANE.

I dont need all the details about what I can do for her , look at my past questions if you want to know more.

Basicaly I just want to know how many HAPPY wives say things like that to their husbands who they are atracted to and love dearly on a quite frequent basis. ---- Thanks

2006-11-27 10:12:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so my new hubby used to have a ex-fiance. She ran into him at the gas station then emailed him that same day. I happend to check the email that day and saw it. It read..." looks like congrats are in order, thanks for waving at me today" Now if she saw the ring why try to email him?

2006-11-27 10:10:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband has worked his a...s off lately to get us out of finacial difficuly and we are both tiered and moody.
I would like some inspiring ideas to show my appreciation?

Not being the obvious one of sex and that doesn't involve loads of money.

2006-11-27 10:06:39 · 11 answers · asked by sammyantha 4

Help My husband and I just had twins (4days old) on our way home from the hospital he got a call on his cell phone which I never even touch he has his and I have mine,anyways he told the person I am driving let me call you back or you call me back,the caller then asked where he was and he sounded upset saying don't worry about where I am,I asked who in the world was that?he said it was one of his male friends I then told him I knew it was a womans voice so after we got the babies in the house and got settled he said it was his ex wife which I knew already I asked why he felt the need to lie to me and he said because he didnt want me to get upset since I just had not one but two babies.My question is my Husbands never lied to me before now so why would he try to hide the fact that it was his ex on the phone?I am trying not to think the worst but i think my husband is about to get divorce papers.

2006-11-27 10:04:43 · 10 answers · asked by CaliMa 3

We have been married for 11 years. I would never dream of straying. I love my husband but he never tells me I am beautiful anymore. I lack attention and romance. Any thoughts?

2006-11-27 10:02:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I got into a fight on Thanksgiving day. I asked him when his court date is for the divorce proceedings with his ex. He told me he hasn't even filed the paperwork yet. The papers were signed by both of them back in early August. He says he is sorry and that he has just been lazy and forget. Also, he didn't have $300 to pay for filing them. I feel really hurt and upset. We have been together for almost 9 months and he is still technically married. What do I do? We kinda made-up over the weekend, but I am still disappointed.

Have you been in a similar situation?

2006-11-27 09:58:50 · 18 answers · asked by Steph 5

are they just more honest than ordinary couples who have affairs etc?

2006-11-27 09:54:21 · 21 answers · asked by gillian p 1