So how many women here will let your man rub you and stuff in bed then at some point say something to the effect of " Now dont get any ideas" or, "you aint getting nothing", how about "what do you think your trying to do" um basically saying no nookie and never give any explanation. Well my wife does that all the time and its driving me INSANE.
I dont need all the details about what I can do for her , look at my past questions if you want to know more.
Basicaly I just want to know how many HAPPY wives say things like that to their husbands who they are atracted to and love dearly on a quite frequent basis. ---- Thanks
2006-11-27 10:12:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Umm Yahoo answers sucks because you can never tell the whole story hehehe , but she gets all of my attention , I dont go out with the boys , If I am not at work , I am at home with her , she gets my attention , I rub her a lot without expecting sex or even letting her think I want sex. Its not like I ignore her all day and go to bed and I just instantly want sex. I actually wouldnt want sex every day , it would be too much IMO , and its NOT about myself. I actually get more pelasure from making someone else happy. hopefully that will stop the answerers thinking that I am a just a male pig that wants sex. it goes much deeper than that. :)
2006-11-27 10:42:26 · update #1
I'll say it... but my husband just starts to push my buttons and I am putty in his hands...
no woman would be able to say no when you are doing all the rights things to get her to say YESYESYES
:)
2006-11-27 10:15:05 · answer #1 · answered by mombobbloggerpants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to do everything "THE WOMEN" recommend: flowers, massages, weekend trip, date nights...etc. NONE of it worked because I was doing it to get sex.
I realized that women have been treating men like Pavlov's dog when it comes to sex and its about time we turn the tables on them.
They hint at having sex tonight and stand back and watch us work our tails off: flowers, date night, romance, massage, dishes, laundry...etc
Ever notice how they also are offended and threatened by anything that would give a man any kind of pleasure and talk bad about it like sports, guy friends, hobbies, video games. If she remains the only source of pleasure for guy then she calls the shots. The funny thing is the more women can get away with making the guy do for sex the more they think they are worth.
You want to know what works? I only was romantic after sex. I only bought flowers after sex. I had date night only after sex. I would make a reservation after sex for a few days later. I made sure to let her hear me make the reservations. If she didn't put out between then and the "date night" I would have a head ache and cancel. I think you need to let her know her sexual credit is no good.
2006-11-27 11:03:33 · answer #2 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are like my husband and wait until she's in a sound sleep you shouldn't expect anything. I wish my husband would do those things before I fall asleep so he often hears any of the things you list because I've been asleep for 3 or 4 hours. Sorry by that time I get virtually no pleasure. Any other time he'd get a response he might want.
2006-11-27 10:45:21 · answer #3 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes women need more then rubbing to be in the mood for sex. Don't forget women tend to be more emotional and everything contributes to her sexual interest. How are the other areas in your marriage? Do you listen to her, do you give her attention with out it being sexual? Do you make her feel like she is the most important in your life? Sometimes these factors mean more to a woman then foreplay.
2006-11-27 10:28:11 · answer #4 · answered by Lilypad76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I answered your other question, and you appear to do things for you and your pleasure only. Bad sign. Women like things done for no reason but to have things done....If you're going to oil her up, do so,spend 12-15 minutes giving her a lovely massage, then give her a kiss on the back of the neck, put the sheet over her then disappear and ask for nothing. That, honey, is love..... Mmmmmmmmmm
2006-11-27 10:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe go a different route as maybe start giving her attention before bed. This would get me going and do not get it, so I am sorry!!!
2006-11-27 10:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it irritates me when men only do that kind of stuff when they want sex. It makes me feel like he doesn't want to be close to me unless he's getting something out of it.
2006-11-27 10:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your info is sincere/truthful than I am sorry to say that I don't think she loves you. If she did she would want to make love with you.
2006-11-27 13:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe shes angry with you or someone else and just wants someone to make her feel better.Or maybe she wants to dominate you.
2006-11-27 15:18:02 · answer #9 · answered by cindybells 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋