Marriage & Divorce - 30 November 2006

2006-11-30 23:45:40 · 18 answers · asked by ajay kamal sahu 1

I'm a 37-yo MWM that has an absolutely wonderful wife and two beautiful daughters. My mariage is perfect except .... after our second daughter was born, about 5-years ago, my wife lost her libido and, despite talking with her OB-GYN and other professionals, she has zero sexual desire or intimacy. My problem is that I love sex and physical intimacy, and I don't want to continue this course and never have that physical relationship and intimacy, but I don't want to "cheat" on my wife; and I am tired of "self gratification". Trust me when I say we have talked about, and tried, anything and everything short of a sex therapist which she adamantly maintains will never happen, What do I do? I'm frustrated in more ways than one.

2006-11-30 23:28:12 · 10 answers · asked by Patrick D 1

my husband has just said that for xmas he,d get me some gold hoops from Argos so i found a pair.Bloody gorgeous 18inch hoops (9ct gold!!!) but he said that theyre tacky and will only get me the 8inch!!!!Well im mortified.I love the way the big hoops pull me down so far to the pavement that i can actually lick my own stilletos.Anyway i think i could definatly divorce him on the grounds of emotional abuse.Im just not having it.Its not like we dont have the money ...i mean we get enough with the giro every week.Ive given him 6 kids and this is the thanks i get.What do you think?

2006-11-30 23:26:00 · 36 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4

Me and my ex fella seperated in January 2006, due to him having an affair with my friend amongst other things like domestic violence. the council has now put me in accommodation for my safety and my health. i was forced to sell the house due to not being able to afford it on my own, when he left in january he never paid me a penny for any bill/mortgage. the house was sold in August 2006. And left me with debt, unfortunatly there all in my name which i now that i cant do anything about, i'll just have to learn from it. but the advice i want is that we had a joint loan which didnt get paid in full. The money what was left from the house went straight to the loan company. when the house went through there was never an agreement made to the outstaning money. i was under the impression that the loan company accepted the 18.500k. i have now found out that there is 8.600k outstanding. and they want the money. my ex has done a runner. what do i do? im cant pay it. do i file for bankcrupcy??

2006-11-30 23:23:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

after 5 years of divorce...would the husband still love his ex? even if they keep in touch rarely?
how woul ddivorce impact his new relation with another whoman?

2006-11-30 23:17:58 · 11 answers · asked by Work For A 1

he has not long left and hes loaded so i can live happily ever after

2006-11-30 23:17:21 · 29 answers · asked by ♥ ♥abc 4

2006-11-30 23:16:25 · 17 answers · asked by Niranjan 3

2006-11-30 23:08:03 · 13 answers · asked by seema 2

other than "love"

2006-11-30 22:52:41 · 24 answers · asked by cat 1

the more I think about these two concepts and apply them to my life the more I realize I may be better off without them.

cause nothing has worked out yet and I'm already in my late twenties

what do you think ab it

(and I am not talking about the things you can achieve; I'm talking about the things that are or are not given to you)

thanx

2006-11-30 22:51:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am getting married end of this month. but she tells me she doesn't mind me having girlfriends after marriage. she doesn't mind if i am would be in a different r'ship with a different woman or if i am just having casual sex with other women. she says i can do it if it makes me happy. and she says she will stay with me till death. however, i am very crap actually when it comes to picking up women for sex. i am an introvert & a long-term r'ship guy.

how strange is this?

2006-11-30 22:25:06 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife seems to be having a lot of baths lately - on more than one occasion l have heard a mans deep voice saying something like "hotwaterbottle" - I have checked the room afterwards and haven't found anyone yet but the window is always open. Do you think l should bash the door down when l hear the voice again and catch them at it? ;-)

2006-11-30 22:16:55 · 39 answers · asked by max 4

I met a man abroad, I went to his company for an interview for the job of a voice and accent trainer. I did not think anything of him, nor knew about his situation. I was recommended to his company by a friend/colleague.

Our friendship developed and we became lovers after several months. He left his wife and two boys and he got his own flat. He moved in with me and our relationship began. He promised me that he would get a divorce after one year of being apart from his wife. I am back in London and have been for the past 6 months and we have kept in touch regularly. I have always said that he needs to get a divorce so that we can proceed with our future. He has told me that the families have met and no financial resolution has been reached therefore he will not be divorced. Living with him like this will make me his mistress. His wife has more rights over him and in the society where he is from I am looked at as a home breaker.
He is coming here in December.

2006-11-30 22:06:54 · 15 answers · asked by karma f 1

My boyfriend and I are moving out of state. I am nervous as we have suffered a personal loss. Many family members are urging us to stay and are not supportive of the choice to follow through with our plans. We are not running away from our loss but they see it as such and I feel very bad. Any thoughts?

2006-11-30 22:00:28 · 9 answers · asked by Jen 3

2006-11-30 21:24:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Even with the TV show "Big Love," people have been giving a young woman who is involved in a polygamous relationship a lot of guff, assuming she is making it all up. Don't you believe anyone really does live polygamously?

It may be that she really is kidding, but other people who read her question may not be. I personally feel it is worthwhile to answer any question as if it were serious. It doesn't hurt anyone, but refusing to believe it is serious can be hurtful to someone in any kind of unusual situation.

2006-11-30 21:16:41 · 8 answers · asked by auntb93again 7

I'm just curious coz there are people claims that they do get along well with their stepkids although they may be deceiving themselves. It is because I have come across a friend of mine who always end up faulty and does not treated fair judgment from her hubby.

2006-11-30 21:06:21 · 11 answers · asked by Adorable Mrs 3

i am 19 years
Born- 12th june 1987
Female
Time of birth- 1.10 pm afternoon
Day- Friday

wht is the prediction?? plz crious answers...abt my age of marriage ?? wud have arrange or love or wht??

2006-11-30 20:59:36 · 6 answers · asked by -friend- 1

2006-11-30 20:51:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-30 20:47:48 · 5 answers · asked by Vicchoo 1

do you think you could deal ith this if you had no children of your own?

2006-11-30 20:46:50 · 30 answers · asked by no3 1

I asked this question in a different category but I'd like more feedback.

I'm engaged in a sexual fling with a married man. We had an impromptu encounter today and I suggested we have sex versus just oral. We've had sex before and we always used a condom. He refused to have unprotected sex even after I said it wasn't a problem.

Is he just being cautious or does he think I have an STD?

2006-11-30 20:43:08 · 30 answers · asked by buffythebeast 1

i care for my husband, but i am not in love, we have no sex life, is it fair to me to stay when i know i need more than what we do. maybe we will do it once a year, but what about my needs. i have ask him, can we have sex out side of the marriage. he said, he dont want that. but i need something, do i have an affair anyway,please i need help, or sex, i am beginning to have dreams about me having sex, please be fare to me , what do i do, i have been talking to another guy, but i have not cross the line YET. when the med start the sex stop, i cant tell you the last time, about 3-4 years.

2006-11-30 20:41:42 · 15 answers · asked by queenmidas1014 2

and had him/her come back with "You're neurotic/mad/need a psychiatrist"? Beyond the obvious ie they don't want to be found out, what goes through their mind that not only are they prepared to cheat, and lie but to mess around with your mind as well. I thinking of Chris Tarrant here but it's happened to me too. Is this a common reaction?

2006-11-30 20:28:53 · 14 answers · asked by True Blue Brit 7

I found out that my husband has 1 month old twin sons with another woman.He has them and our kids on an insurance policy that was hidden in his jeans pocket.When I confronted him he tried all sorts of tactics even saying that he does not know where the father of these kids are and tried to deflect from answering i.e bullying and threatening,bringing up his past or present gf names,asking why I am snooping through his things and loads of other stuff.Iusually just stay quiet and forgive more like let him get away with things but I couldn't let this one go.He even tried making a joke about it.
Yet he won't say anything not even give a lame excuse.

I am so angry and devastated that I can't even stand to touch anything of his own and I do not want to be bitter.
I love my husband so very much but I can't take this.He is away to see his family with the kids at the moment and I am alone.He has not called or emailed me.This is killing me.I am 7 months pregnant with our third child

2006-11-30 20:07:58 · 13 answers · asked by JUSEve 2

Thinking of separating from hubby.We've been married for 7yrs but found out stuff that has devastated me entirely.I want him to tell me something but for some reason I can't even stand the sight of him or touch anything he owns.

We have two kids together and I am 7 months pregnant with my 3rd

2006-11-30 19:47:45 · 7 answers · asked by JUSEve 2

I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years and she has lied about cheating 3 times. She has now asked me to marry her. I know there is a huge trust issue here, but keep this in mind. She has been with me during my great times and bad times, which includes three life threating seizures, where one seizure she actually saved me from drowning during a seizure. I deep down love her and cannot imagine being without her, nor with these new seizures I don't feel comfortable alone. We have had the best times of my life together, but I have also been hurt extremely bad. What should I do?

2006-11-30 19:16:34 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked my boyfriend who is marry another woman soon, how much i mean to him and where do i stand in his heart?
This is his answer; "I also don't know where you stand. You're someone I miss when you're not around, someone I feel sad when I see you suffer, someone I am looking forward to see everytime and someone I feel who is special to me. I might not spend al my time with you but you're always in my mind. I keep missing you!"
What does this mean? Does he love me?

2006-11-30 19:05:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-30 19:04:09 · 12 answers · asked by Sopwith 4

How does anyone survive a man who is emotionally unstable and a work aholic?

2006-11-30 19:01:25 · 7 answers · asked by autumn w 2