Marriage & Divorce - 2 December 2006

My husband spends a lot of his time at work with a woman who does not even work in the same dept. as he does. He leaves his dept. to go sit with her for hours. He calls her on her job. She always doing little favors for him. Everybody is always saying this woman sleeps around with everyone. He says they're just friends. There is a rumor that he is/was messing around with her really close friend. I found the friends cell # hidden in his phone once. (That was before we got married ) However, he still spends hours with the woman at work. I have told him about it time after time, still he's in the woman's company. "She's just a friend nothing is going on" So we got into really bad and he left. Now he wants to come home.

2006-12-02 23:57:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you have a happy mariage? Is it even possible because I start having some doubts.

2006-12-02 23:55:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my man two years. He's sweet, funny and respectful. But I find myself desperately wanting intelligent conversation at home and I just don't get it. I've tried talking to him about it, but it just doesn't seem to get me anywhere. It's the only real problem area for us, and though I can go to mates for a good conversation, it's just not enough. What do you suppose I should do?

2006-12-02 23:45:06 · 12 answers · asked by The Mad Shillelagh 6

Been together 8 yrs now and feel quite fed up.... However, how can I be sure that leaving is the right thing to do or am I just fed up and it will all be ok again eventually?

2006-12-02 23:42:32 · 19 answers · asked by Stephanie C 3

I am an English woman, married with two kids living in France. Last week my dentist followed me home from the school run, overtook me, waved me down in the road and basically told me he was obsessed with me, had a photo of me... other embarrassing stuff. I was kind but firm and told him I was happily married and there was no future.
Two problems - I have an appointment to see him, second problem, his lovely wife works at my daughter's school.
I feel a bit stressed an angry - I don't know how the culture works here, but you don't go stalking people like that and I don't feel I even know him very well.
Do I avoid him, do I tell his wife or do I go for my appointment and tell him he obviously has problems at home and needs to sort them out?
I am quite brave, but want to do the right thing. My gut feeling is that he seemed so confident he's done this before - UGH! Advice would be really appreciated.

2006-12-02 23:42:28 · 22 answers · asked by Empea 3

The last couple months, her attitude has changed. Always demanding, angry and complaining. She tells me that she doesn't care about me and doesn't love me like that way she used to?? She doesnt clean after herself, her clothing scattered on the bed even, the restroom is not clean. I feel like, Im the one who's holding this relationship together, just dont like the way she treats me. All she does, talk on the phone with her gf's and go online...God knows what she's up to. I start to think, Do I really deserve this girl? I really want someone new. She doesn't appreciate me, I really love her and do whatever she wants. Im just tired of her drama but dunno how to leave her. Any ideas how to leave her and/ or end this relationship?? If so, where do I start from..

2006-12-02 23:35:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should an intimate couple live together before marriage?

2006-12-02 23:33:59 · 13 answers · asked by starsgirl021687 2

Seriously, our baby can only still crawl so it shouldn't be hard for her to keep up with him.

2006-12-02 23:26:31 · 23 answers · asked by Lothario 1

I see tendency in the developed countries to let wifes of males that are not so kind or not so polite, to ask for divorce and leave such husbands. so, by leaving such husbands, they abandon all love they once had. in the end we find a world where too many people abandon too many others and too many promises are broken.

2006-12-02 23:21:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi,

What age do woman want to settle down with a guy? is their a lower limit where you would say 'no way' not ready or is it love, security etc so age wouldnt matter.

Thanks

2006-12-02 23:03:04 · 29 answers · asked by loopyhaze 3

There is this girl my cousin has been seeing. They where going out and then they break up.But she keeps visiting my family. So last week we really started talking ang i really like her. And then she called me and we start talking more and she told me that she has beem messing arond with my my cousin's brother. What should I do ?

2006-12-02 22:46:56 · 9 answers · asked by miller j 2

Do you have a solution and resolution to your woes?

2006-12-02 22:11:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's dysfunctional depressing behavior that makes me wish I didn't have to live in the same house!

2006-12-02 22:05:49 · 13 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3

yes/no

2006-12-02 21:35:41 · 23 answers · asked by Sanju 1

ly, I am truley still in love and I believe he is too. I guess what I am asking is....does anyone still feel the fever that we do? I mean do youstillfell like it is brand new. not every day mind you but some times. It takes work but I have to say I am or feel like I did when I was when I was 18, and 25 and 32. I am proud tosay Iam now 40/ Let me know your feelings. Thak you

2006-12-02 21:22:57 · 16 answers · asked by so sick of being broke 2

I'm planning to marry a Catholic girl and I have no religion myself. I was told that the Catholic church does different style of wedding because one partner is not in the Catholic religion. I was told by my fiancé and it seem unfair to me. Why is there a different type of wedding for a non-catholic partner with a catholic partner wedding VS both partner are Catholic wedding? From what I was told, it is unfair because I thought God treated everyone equal and hate no one, but forgive them. Can we still get marry with the same traditional wedding like everyone else whose are Catholic? Why is it always my way or the highway? I know all religions teachers us to do good to other, but when it come to marriage then there is a wall between two partners. When we have kid/s why does the Catholic religion want them to follow the Catholic religion? Why not let them choose what religion they want to follow if any?

Thank you

2006-12-02 21:22:04 · 5 answers · asked by Hao L 1

my parents want me to marry a job worker whom, who might earn 5000 per month. do u think i will be able to adjust as i belong to a nice family, i m only of 20 yr, i m studying bca. infact i m ready to get married but i want my husband to be richer than me and educated. do u think i m wrong, what should i do help me please

2006-12-02 21:14:23 · 36 answers · asked by shreya 1

Or should I just introduce my 'friend' as a friend and tell everyone that my wife couldn't make the party?

2006-12-02 21:02:50 · 19 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3

have a good friend who i have known for almost my whole life. when i was 12 he gave me my first kiss. since then we have just been great friends but have always loved each other, but maintained our obligations to our religion.

about a month or two ago he approached me with the idea of getting married. he didnt propose... he just asked me if how i felt about this idea. i told him i definitely wasnt opposed but since i am only 18 and he is only 20 we should think about it a little bit more first.

two weeks from that i found out he slept with a someone on one of his business trips. he recently smoked weed. and also, he says that he has come close to having sexual relations with another man.

he claims that he was in a state of depression (both of his parents passed away recently) and that is the only reason these things happened. he is very sorry and wants to make a life together and do right by me.

does anyone think there is anything left to salvage here?

2006-12-02 20:57:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Without complicatons!

2006-12-02 20:40:54 · 42 answers · asked by Albe G 1

I am to find a woman preferably oriental. Basically for an arrange marriage. It is really hard to find one period. I am really shy to ask family where to look. it really is a family tradition. we search on our own. I chose it is now time to look. if ou can tell me where to look for a bride then thaat would be great. thatnks a lot. any help would be greatly appreciated.

2006-12-02 20:35:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

For less? If you are already in a relationship or married, but you are more compatible and attracted to someone else, is it wrong to end the current relationship to establish a new one? Or should you stay and be only partially as happy as you really could be?

2006-12-02 20:34:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

......out to dinner with some trashy looking lady. The husband saw my co-worker, and immediately gave an excuse, and didn't introduce the trashy lady.

The co-worker has been friends with his wife for about 14 years, and has done some real-estate business with the husband, so she knows them both pretty well.

But she refuses to tell her friend what she saw. The trashy lady was of a different race, which her friend is completely against. My co-worker says that she's been in a similar situation, and lost a friend after telling her what was going on, and doesn't want to get involved.

Is she a bad friend? Or is she right in minding her own business?

2006-12-02 20:29:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

In what way does it help the spouse to learn of their spouses infidelity?

It seems that the sole purpose of the confession syndrome is to make the guilty party feel better about what they've done and makes the innocent spouse feel crappy for no good reason.

I wouldn't want to learn that my spouse had been cheating on me; I would just want her to stop and not do it again.

2006-12-02 20:25:26 · 19 answers · asked by Hank Hill 3

is watching porn on his computer when im working can someone let me know how to find out??

2006-12-02 20:11:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-02 20:08:24 · 24 answers · asked by Cleng 1

And then come to find out they are actually married, what would you do? End it immediately? Demand that they confess to their spouse and divorce them? Assist them with the proceedings and forgive them?

2006-12-02 20:07:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is married, but her husband has not been able to give her an orgasm during the whole 7 years of their marriage. She's been faking it, even faking multiples! She's wondering if she should come clean, but she really loves him and doesn't want to hurt his feelings. I really couldn't care less, but should she?

2006-12-02 19:59:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a 24 yr. old mother of 3 small boys. My oldest 2 are from a previous relationship to a man w/whom I'm still lagally married.And they both reside w/their Daddy,God is good! I able to care for them as needed and was battling an addiction to meth.It was my decision to leave the home we'd created,knowing they'd be better off w/o me and my addiction.Unaware of certain facts that've recently been brought to my attn. by a mutual friend,I became involved w/ a past neighbor,who I once babysat for! It wasn't meant to be more than a fling but circumstances changed that,quickly! Before I could realize what'd happened I was living w/him at his sisters house,w/o someone to turn to for advice,my own fault. 2 yrs. later I'm the Momma of my 3rd and last boy(got my tubes tied),which soon after his arrival his father was sent to prison for 15 mnths. during which time I was for the 1st time attemping to make it on my own.Yet here I am afraid to leave and more afraid of what's to come if I stay.

2006-12-02 19:58:36 · 4 answers · asked by still searching 1

2006-12-02 19:28:56 · 5 answers · asked by DAN M 2