Marriage & Divorce - 2 December 2006

This should've been in polls and surveys, but the last time I asked about a relationship question, they told me "thanks alot for reminding me I have no one" so I come here.

My question: Is your spouse older or younger than you? Notice I said spouse, because I want both male and female respondents.

2006-12-02 19:16:06 · 31 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6

we did live together in a couple of houses, however I had to return home to responsabilities,not that it was that far away,but he had no licence we both worked all the time shifts were never compatable,financial hardship for him thru no fault of his own.

He always treated me like I was precious and my 2 kids and their kids always built up my spirits,however he drank a little too much.
Never abusive though.

It just feels right now I hope I'm so I'm tired of going thru life alone my kids are grown up now and I'm free medicaly retired.We are in our 40's

I'm gonna go for it and there will be lots of travel coming up,Things have improved a lot for him now.

PS its easier the second time round I know him and already love him.

I want to know what you think

2006-12-02 19:13:55 · 2 answers · asked by deb m 4

we did live together in a couple of houses, however I had to return home to responsabilities,not that it was that far away,but he had no licence we both worked all the time shifts were never compatable,financial hardship for him thru no fault of his own.

He always treated me like I was precious and my 2 kids and their kids always build up my spirits,however he drank a little too much.
Never abusive though.

It just feels right now I hope I'm so I'm tired of going thru life alone my kids are grown up now and I'm free medicaly retired.We are in our 40's

I'm gonna go for it and there will be lots of travel coming up,Things have improved a lot for him now.

PS its easier the second time round I know him and already love him.

I want to know what you think

2006-12-02 19:11:23 · 5 answers · asked by deb m 4

2006-12-02 19:03:52 · 19 answers · asked by billyholic 2

had house before marriage and after 2 yrs wife wants divorce,is she entitled to anything husband owned before marriage?

2006-12-02 18:51:15 · 14 answers · asked by darlin12347 1

i have a good friend who i have known for almost my whole life. when i was 12 he gave me my first kiss. since then we have just been great friends but have always loved each other, but maintained our obligations to our religion.

about a month or two ago he approached me with the idea of getting married. he didnt propose... he just asked me if how i felt about this idea. i told him i definitely wasnt opposed but since i am only 18 and he is only 20 we should think about it a little bit more first.

two weeks from that i found out he slept with a someone on one of his business trips. he recently smoked weed. and also, he says that he has come close to having sexual relations with another man.

he claims that he was in a state of depression (both of his parents passed away recently) and that is the only reason these things happened. he is very sorry and wants to make a life together and do right by me.

does anyone think there is anything left to salvage here?

2006-12-02 18:47:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Making love to my husband used to be about just that- the love. These days, it's just about the destination. It's quick, it's not passionate, and once i'm done I just want my husband to hurry up and "finish". I am currently 26 weeks pregnant, (and maybe it's just the hormones, lack of sleep, different schedules, pain and discomfort during sex that make me feel this way), but I have no interest in sex anymore. And i know it sounds horrible, but I also keep thinking to myself(esp. lately) that we don't need to have sex anymore, after this pregnancy we have all the kids we need. I also keep thinking about birth control after the baby is born, and don't want to have to deal with it. I am only 21 and can't get the tubal ligation done until at the least 27 according to my doctor. I absolutely do not want to have anymore kids, esp. if i have to go through another pregnancy like this one.

2006-12-02 18:44:02 · 23 answers · asked by Cyndi Storm 4

My husband doesn't know what love is. I am almost sure that he doesn't love me because he doesn't touch my hair, never hugs me, doesn't initiate sex, doesn't want to talk to me, says I am a waste of his time, and never even thinks of talking to me and sharing his thoughts, experiences, or doing any activities together. He hates me for bothering him with my feelings or needs. When I ask him if he loves me he tells me he doens't know what love is. I yell at him a lot and have even started kicking things and slamming doors and slapped him in the face. He says I'm abusive. We're going to try a period of separation. Any advice? What is love? Have you been divorced? What would you do?

2006-12-02 18:43:13 · 6 answers · asked by Cynthia W 4

now we r together and want to tell them, but are worried about how they will react.

2006-12-02 18:41:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married since 2 years and my husband doesn't love me and he had an affair in past after marriage too,which was there before our engagement.Now i was away from last 9 month from him,i didn't felt like talking to him and neither i was eager to be in contact with.Now he came back to me and wants this relationship to work,but i don't feel love or any feeling for him.but my heart want this relationship to work.As he is soory for his behaviour,but I am blank from inside.i don't feel anything .

2006-12-02 18:36:24 · 17 answers · asked by Lonely_girl 1

Husband comes out of room with work cell phone in his hand, saying someone was calling &he wants me to do a reverse look-up of the number on the net. I tell him just to call the number back and see who it is, I try to take the phone out of his hand, but he won't let go and when he does, he's on the screen that says dialed numbers and they have all been erased. He says he erased it 3 days ago, but hasn't made ONE phone call to his workshop, for driving directions or what not in 3 days? I think he's lying. So, I do a reverse look-up. The phone number is an unlisted landline in Eugene, Oregon. Now, back when we met, he had a thing for a girl in Eugene, and lied to me about talking to her on the internet, even though I knew the whole time he was, he would deny it and get all upset and angry. One day he finally confessed because as it turned out he then wanted me to talk to her, so she would still be 'his friend'. He calls and its a girl, saying she got the number from him calling her.....?

2006-12-02 18:32:42 · 15 answers · asked by Little Jeannie 4

I dont know if i should belive her... I dont remember what happened. nothing passed kiss though- should i tell my husband just in case i DID kiss someone else? what if it really didnt happen- not sure what to do!?!?

2006-12-02 18:31:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please click on "My Answers" and review my remark on, "My man is trying not to drink and i need some help here?" This woman is in heavy denial, and she feels that...(her words) "he is an adult and as hard as it is for him he is just going to have to live without it (alcohol) if someone has sugar they don't stop going places that has sugar in their food they just eat what they are allowed and that it it...." Give me a thumbs up if you feel that I am right, and please excuse the bad grammar because that was not my quote.

2006-12-02 18:25:56 · 7 answers · asked by Nut 2

well i dont have a attrn( to expencive for me)
but my ex got one. so what about child support? how can i get a child support from him?

2006-12-02 18:23:51 · 7 answers · asked by leila_hatami8 1

I went to a party and was introduced to a man who turned out to be a man that i had a year and half relationship with..we broke it off after he had to go out of state for collage..anyway..he now is married and has a year old son....we have been talking alot recently and he has told me how his marriage is going sour and his wife cheated on him with her ex husband and even got prg but got an abortion.We have fallen in love all over again he say he wants me but he has to go through marriage counseling first before he can leave her.He also had a fight with her tuesday nite and called me up after he stormed out of the house...saying how much he loves me and he is not staying with her anymore,not going to counseling anymore.I get a call 1 hour later from him that she called the cops(because he did pull some plants in the front yard and kicked the lights on the walkway) who said that they should go ahead with counseling. Should believe that he will leave her for me if so why the counseling?

2006-12-02 18:21:19 · 17 answers · asked by susan s 1

2006-12-02 18:13:20 · 16 answers · asked by nova 2

Tonight I just asked the woman of my dreams to marry me. She said yes but she reminded it is not legal here in the USA. I want to know does anyone know where maybe it might be legal at. I really love her and I want to make this comminet to her. So any advice where we could join our love.

2006-12-02 18:05:20 · 14 answers · asked by eca1094 3

I am fat but was once thin and beautiful. How do I find a guy who will love me for what I am? I am very out going and not shy. I love sports as does my Son.
I have been divorced for 7 years but have not dated since then. How do I find a male partner where I can not be embarrassed of my weight? I was thin and beautiful 5 years ago) I am a female, age 44 now and I am self conscience) how do I find a partner where I can find someone whom I can be my self with and trust with my 8 year old Son? (In Texas) "Please don't respond to “Your are fat just give up"

2006-12-02 17:58:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can someone tell me why I don't want to have sex with my husband? He is a good husband and a great father. But I am just not happy with our sex life. He doesn't saticfie me in bed any more. I have no idea why I fell this way. But I have to act like I'm having an orgasum when we do make love. Cause I don't want to hurt his feelings. I have told him that why should I give it to him if I don't get anything out of it. All he says is I don't know how to make love to you anymore or be romantic. Please somebody help me figure this out. It is getting to where I don't even want to be around him. I have never cheated on him. But if this keeps up I just might. So please give me some good ideas.

2006-12-02 17:52:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-02 17:50:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-02 17:42:07 · 28 answers · asked by scgraphix 2

I am finding difficulty in adjusting with my wife. We have been married for 7 years. We thought we were made for each other. Since last year things are changed. She is an MSc and a house wife. Most of the times we get into arguments because of in laws. I don’t like her parents and family due to some un favorable incidents that took place in the near past.
Not living together is not the solution, it will have more problems than what we have now. I want to support my parents and family. She doesn’t like it. She has “tit for tat kind of attitude” is there any one who can provide free marriage counseling in Bangalore? Is there any yahoo group where I can post specific problems and get answers. It is an arranged marriage. Now i think that I have chosen a wrong partner. There is not guarantee that wife /husband will have the same attitude which he/she has at the time of marriage. In the case of a job we can change the job and apply the learnings in the new job. Is this the life...........?

2006-12-02 17:41:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-02 17:39:18 · 21 answers · asked by mangleshpanchal 1

i recently got a divorce we tryed to work it out i ended up messing around on my ex hubby with another guy and now i am really confused and he cant seem to get over me any ideas

2006-12-02 17:26:45 · 9 answers · asked by chey 1

I have an unusual happening! When my wife and I have sex-she usually has 2 or 3 orgasims to my 1. (no I'm not bragging) I'm 48-and she is 50. I'm just an average guy in most all respects (no I don't have a huge hammer). Been married for a long time and this just started happening in the last 5 yrs or so. I don't mind this so I'm not complaining , but it's got me wondering what has changed.
We usually have intercourse for less than an hour. Any one got any feedback????

2006-12-02 17:25:37 · 16 answers · asked by T J ! 2

Married people I need ur advice.

2006-12-02 17:22:50 · 9 answers · asked by AAYY 1

She is whinniepooh and she is not telling the whole story. As a matter of fact that user name is a name that she had with a sbc yahoo account that a guy she had an affair with was paying for. Should i count my losses and move on or what. She fails to mention that she is on ebay every other day shopping for purses, of which she has about 100. But when i go to spend money its a waste. Whats up with that?!

2006-12-02 17:03:18 · 6 answers · asked by Donta M 1

And no fair just quoting from the Bible. I know what it says. But I want to hear WHY you think it's wrong. Maybe start out with defining adultery. Is it simply sex with someone other than your spouse? What about emotional adultery?? Why is emotional adultery related to sexual adultery? What is the common thread between the two? What is it about it that makes it so bad for us? And are there any exceptions?

2006-12-02 16:53:47 · 31 answers · asked by intuition897 4

He was contacting a woman who lives 30 min from here. He was asking for photos and was offering some of his. Would you forgive him?

2006-12-02 16:44:50 · 30 answers · asked by Xuxu8765548034567680 2

What would you do if your husband cheated and is now trying to work things out with you. He has gone to counseling by himself and is asking you to go with him to the counselor so that you can work it out. I do love him but am so hurt by his affair. It went on for 10 months and the reason he says he did it is because he didn't feel like I loved him and I wasn't there for him emotionally or sexually. He swears that it was all about sex but I know that isn't true cause they went places together and did things. I know that I wasn't there for him emotionally or sexually for awhile but I was really struggling with my self esteem issues and didn't want to go out places. I don't blame myself for the affair cause it was his choice and he made it alone. I am struggling with the issue of working it out or not. I have been married to him for 11 years now and we have a child. What would you do honestly if you were in my situation. Please no rude comments I can't take that right now and need advice.

2006-12-02 16:39:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous