Tonight I just asked the woman of my dreams to marry me. She said yes but she reminded it is not legal here in the USA. I want to know does anyone know where maybe it might be legal at. I really love her and I want to make this comminet to her. So any advice where we could join our love.
2006-12-02 18:05:20 · 14 answers · asked by eca1094 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you cant find anywhere near where you live, you can do a commitment ceremony...
2006-12-02 18:14:29 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
outside the Us is an obvious answer. Could do it on a vacation. If you are married in say Canada, your marriage will be recognized in the United States.
The next step would possibly be a state where it is legal. Technically, it won't be an actual marriage, but the same basic things apply. Not really sure on alot of them, but I think there are at least ten states. You can move back at any time, because the same laws apply as if you get married in another country.
BTW, I'm all for gay marriage. Everyone in the world should be given the oppurtunity to be chained to another person for all eternity.
Really, I see not importance in marriage at all. Legal union, I sort of understand. You need some able to sign the DNR and collect the will if thing go wrong, but love is love and what does a piece of paper, a ring, and a ceremony do.
2006-12-03 02:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by Deathgrip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate that this is not legal in the US! Totally blows. I am not gay but I believe everyone should be able to make the huge commitment like marriage gay or straight.
Maybe you can do something in Jamica that would be romantic on a beach or maybe in paris the most romantic city in the world.
I'm not to sure on where it is legal. Sorry but I wish you lots of luck you deserve it! Love is such a beautiful thing. :)
2006-12-03 02:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations! I wish you all the happiness in the world. I think it varies from state to state here in the U.S. But civil unions are permitted in many places.
I honestly don't see what the big deal is with gay marriage. It's not like people are going to stop being gay (or start) if its legalized.
I recommend that you do a wedding anyway. Wait until its finally legalized, then renew your vows.
Best of Luck
2006-12-03 02:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! Be happy! Unfortunately it isn't legal at all. SOme states, like Vermont, are a little more tolerant. Hopefully some day the rest of the country will realize that everyone deserves to be happy. good luck with that.
2006-12-03 02:09:05 · answer #5 · answered by Amy R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe Netherlands, fúck I'm not sure.
Anyway it should be legal everywhere. But don't worry if you can't, u can still spend the rest of your life together without having legal papers saying you're married.
2006-12-03 02:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by jonsinher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you can get married in Canada... here in the states I think Massachusetts allows gay/lesbian marriages . Just a couple places to look into. Also...for lesbian acomidating vacations and honeymoons is the Olivia cruise line....you can look them up at olivia.com.....Congrads and good luck!!
2006-12-03 02:13:36 · answer #7 · answered by Kimberly K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is too legal in the usa you need to find a state that does it like Iowa
2006-12-03 02:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by melissa_spear2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry, i personaly think it should be legal everywhere . . . but since its not , yea, definitley find a state and go there, well it depends where you live, do you know if you can get married in thne state you live in now??
2006-12-03 02:11:17 · answer #9 · answered by lexi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vermont.
Good luck!
2006-12-03 02:11:33 · answer #10 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋