Marriage & Divorce - 2 December 2006

last year I got her a fan belt and some toilet brushes and she went mental

2006-12-02 12:01:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Separated 3 years-no desire to go back, but spouse brings girlfriend to my house to pick up our child. He breaks dates w/ our child to take her and her kids places ( I made him pick up our child before he picks her up--so it's "backtracking" for him.Also he has paid nothing for 3 years. My atty says sue for half of everything and show no mercy because it's my right. I make more $--so, is this vengeful? Or should I make a clean break and ask for nothing.

2006-12-02 11:59:43 · 15 answers · asked by reeses30135 2

With about half of all marriages ending in divorce, is it worth the expense just for the girl to have her big day?

2006-12-02 11:55:36 · 42 answers · asked by Im a killer 2

Most of us go through life not experiencing true love and for those who do is it possible to do it twice.

2006-12-02 11:43:20 · 17 answers · asked by Mechelle 3

My husband told me that he wanted a divorce about one month ago. He told me he didn't want me to live with him anymore so I moved in with my parents. At first I took it really hard and even became depressed. I'm feeling pretty good now, but he's suddenly started coming back around and telling me he wants to work things out. I've somewhat moved on and i even have interest in someone else that i know would treat me better. i know , uh oh, adultry! no im not with him, but i know i would eventually like to be. at the same time i still love my hubby but he didn't treat me good. im afraid of regretting going through with the divorce if i do. im just very confused.everyone else tells me that my hubby is not good for me, but it makes me sad to divorce him bc i still do care about him. he is going nowhere in life and i dont see that changing anytime soon. any suggestions?

2006-12-02 11:41:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you suspected your partner to be cheating on you would you consider hiring a private investigator to follow him/her?

2006-12-02 11:37:30 · 32 answers · asked by tetley 1

2006-12-02 11:29:04 · 8 answers · asked by Kenneth 1

why does this happen..how can anyyone do this though u r soooooo in love with someone/.?

2006-12-02 11:24:54 · 14 answers · asked by fabulous 2

You have a serious problem. You cannot resist logging on, tuning out, and searching for something outside of yourself to meet some need, living a fantasy where women and young girls spread for you over and over again. You do this every day, often several times each day, while rejecting the love of your real, flesh and blood wife.

Be very careful how you respond to being confronted with your behavior. If you lie or decry the invasion of your privacy, you will lose what little credibility you have left with me. Your behavior has placed our marriage, our well-being, and your career in serious peril. Before you deny any of this, consider that all you needed to do was stop. Instead, you have been willing to place your marriage and your future in jeopardy on a daily basis.

I am worthy of 100% of the love, affection, attention, time, energy, and passions of the heart that are yours to share. Can you renew your promise to me, and keep it forever? Choose now. Choose forever.

2006-12-02 11:24:35 · 16 answers · asked by RiverGrrl 1

We have no relationship/he does not reply to my questions/I only get negative responses/ from his activity online i feel he has other relationships and has committments and does not want to admit this to me. I am really confused. Is it better to leave or stay?

2006-12-02 11:22:05 · 18 answers · asked by shahnaz s 1

If both parents have remarried who is responsible for purchasing gifts for the other parent for holidays and b-days, their spouses or the ex?

2006-12-02 11:21:02 · 16 answers · asked by stacey h 3

My husband's ex wife hacked into our personal and business e-mails. She is trying to use the information in those e-mails to black mail us into paying her more child support. Is hacking into a persons e-mail illegal? What are the penalties for doing it? Is the information obtained admissable in court? Thanks

2006-12-02 11:17:42 · 13 answers · asked by CHRISTIAN B 1

he was accused of assault against his daughter but was proved not guilty this was over a year ago and he has been fighting through the courts all this time and his ex still will not allow him to have contact with his daughter and he has tried and done everything she has asked of him but he can not think of anything else that he can do he is at his wits end is there anything he can do ?

2006-12-02 11:09:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found out earlier today that my daughter "Little Angel" here which by the way is not her name, was posting these bizarre and freaky questions on here. Let me tell you that I sincerely apologize for this behavior, because absolutely none of her question/stories on here are true. She has been raised in a religious household but nothing of the sort that she makes it out to be on here. I think ever since her mom died she has had these "motherly instincts" magnified but I had no idea she thought like this. Yes, our family believes the man is to be head of the household, but not like she portrays it to be as some kind of master/slave type relationship. I do not exactly know why she thinks like that and neither the polygamy thing which was really shocking to me. It seems some of this stuff she said to get a laugh but the humor to me is pretty disgusting. I apologize for this garbage and to anyone who sincerely answered her questions. By the way, how do you delete these questions?

2006-12-02 11:08:25 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

They are always saying " You wouldn't buy a car before test driving it, would you?"

People who wait for marriage are very strong people. In this day and age where everybody is doing it. It is hard to be strong and wait. They are giving something so special to their husband/wife. Sex is so special that is should only be done with your spouse. It is really not needed before marriage.
I was a virgin bride at the age of 28. To me I wouldn't have sex before marriage because I was given up for adoption at birth and I will not be like my "whore" birthmom. She was very dumb and fell for a guy who told her that if she love him she would have sex with him. Such a stuiped woman!!! At 22 she should have known better.
I vowed never to be like her. So I waited. When I told my husband on our 2nd date that ( I was 25 at the time) that I was a virgin & I was saving my self for marriage. He was shocked at first ( I don't know why) and then he was honored to be dating a woman who was

2006-12-02 11:05:44 · 16 answers · asked by LITTLE 1 :o) 6

my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years.we have a daughter together,he has been drinking and disappearing for days.he will just leave and not say anything to me,ill be at work waiting for him to pick me up and he never shows.he started to do this a few weeks after taking xanax.he doctor gave him he has done this 39 times in the last 3 years.he tells me he will stop,but he hasnt yet.i dont think he is cheating,but it still hurts he leaves us last in his life.ive told him he can go out every saterday,as long as he comes home sunday,but he still takes off in the middle of the week.knowing he has to work and wont go.i do everything for him i wait on him hand and foot.all i ask is for him to be nice to me and let me know he cares.he said he doesnt know how to show me,this is the way he was brought up.so i try to deal with being alone and feeling like im not a women to him.i dont think that he will change do i keep holding on or do i finely say enough?

2006-12-02 11:03:18 · 13 answers · asked by joannluna1974 1

2006-12-02 10:55:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-02 10:53:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

She had cheated on him and hasnt made up her mind on geting back together. He still holds on because he believes in his marriage. Now spending so much time together he has fallen in love with me and I have fallen for him. Now he is confused and has been deppressed. He doesnt want to lose me as a friend but now our friendship is dying and things are not the same. Should I just leave or wait?

2006-12-02 10:53:29 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2

What do you think of mail order brides? What do you think of the guys who marry them?

2006-12-02 10:50:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-02 10:41:22 · 12 answers · asked by miss lady 4

Sex is an important part of me and my wife's life. It really is a time for us to come together and enjoy each other in the midst of our busy lives. I don't have a problem with quantity of sex but rather quality of sex. What I mean is, that quite frequently my wife "passes gas" during sex. This significantly dimishes the quality of our sex life and our relationship as a whole. Is this enough to consider divorcing my wife over. I mean if I'm not happy and she is not happy, why should this relationship go on. She thinks I'm being "nick picky" and I think she is being gross. Needless to say, this marriage is getting rocky. What should I do?

2006-12-02 10:39:42 · 42 answers · asked by icyhott4urmind 1

2006-12-02 10:37:30 · 22 answers · asked by kevman0713 2

My husband is a mechanic and doesn't wear his wedding ring at work. I totally understand. However, many times he forgets to put his wedding ring back on after he gets off from work. Do you have any suggestions/advice and how he can remember more often? It seems like 2-3 times a week he forgets and I have to remind him. He has said that there is no hidden meaning when he does foget. I'm starting to resent him when he does forget. We've only been married for 10 months and this has been a constant battle. Any suggestion/advice would be appreciated.

2006-12-02 10:31:05 · 18 answers · asked by Curious W 1

Please help, I dunno what to do?
My mum usually ask me to check their emails, I'm 21. This morning I checked it as usual and then I noticed an email from adultfriendfinder.com and thought the email mustve been sent to their inbox in error. In the email it gave the log in details and thought I might as well see who's profile it is just to make sure, coz my mum would never in her life do sumthing like that. So when I logged in I found that it is my dad's profile. I was so shocked. I dont think he knew they were going to send him emails. IThe right thing to do is to tel my mum what I found right? Please help. I think my dad wants to cheat or he might b cheating already. Please help@

2006-12-02 10:30:04 · 7 answers · asked by FIERCE 2

its personal pictures and u dont see our faces but hes still not shure

2006-12-02 10:25:54 · 9 answers · asked by xsabella 1

2006-12-02 10:12:05 · 23 answers · asked by DGabbys 2

I have a friend who recently divorced her husband (which was coming all along anyway) and moved closer to her family. She reconnected (after 4 years) with her pre-marital ex-boyfriend (who cheated on her and had a baby outside of their relationship) and has been talking to him every since. She claims that the relationship is strictly platonic but admits that she has feelings for him still. As many men do he claims that he has changed and learned a hard lesson after their break up. Well anyway I informed her that it would probably not be a good idea to get involved in another relationship right now until she's healed from her recent divorce and all of the issues that she dealt with prior to marriage. I also told her that her ex is an ex for a reason and though the chemistry probably is there between them, it's probably not a good idea to revisit that relationship. I kind of feel bad because I know she likes him a lot. What should I do and furthermore tell her?

2006-12-02 10:09:04 · 7 answers · asked by Sweet_Sassy_Scorpio 1

I filed for a divorce, so I am legally seperated. I am with another guy now. We had a child together. However because I was married at the time of my delivery, my child got my soon to be ex-husbands last name. My ex-husband asked for a DNA Test for child support reasons. The DNA came back that the EX is NOT the Father! But here I am stuck. Since he is not the father and I am with the childs father, how do I go about getting her last name changed to her biological fathers last name? Do I just have to go to the Health Dept in the county she was born and give it to Vital Records and get a new birth certificate? Go before an attourney? Please help me.

2006-12-02 10:07:09 · 3 answers · asked by SueZq 2

should i feel guilty (even though i am 18)for watching sex videos during night and my parents don't know and i feel really guilty>

plz help

2006-12-02 10:06:26 · 25 answers · asked by Hally berry 3