why does this happen..how can anyyone do this though u r soooooo in love with someone/.?
2006-12-02 11:24:54 · 14 answers · asked by fabulous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just because you love someone doesn't mean they treat you right.
I loved my husband very much but his fist hurt so finally you wise up and leave .
2006-12-02 11:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by mom363546 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was married to my wife of eleven years she cheated on me once in while we were dating just before we got married and it was not a problem then but after we were married she cheated on me over the eleven years four times and after the fourth time it was done I left even though I loved her with all my heart I had to for my own sanity. I cant say that I love her today we have been divorced for alittle over five months now and I have found a lady that is everything I need and more the love I never knew I now have and thank God for each and every day. Its not easy to lose love or even leave it but sometimes its for the best.
2006-12-02 19:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jack H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps, they know they can not be the person that you need. Or they love you, but ultimately in the long run they do not see a future with you(ie marriage).
You can still love someone but not be able to be with them. Just because you love someone doesn't always mean the two of you are the best fit together.
2006-12-02 20:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by melissa_anne_maison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are times that we need to sacrifice our feelings over matter.. especially when it has something to do with life and death.
love alone cannot survive.. we need to consider everything.. the future especially..
you see, it is much better if you let go the feelings now that to let it go when its too late..
let the hurting be now, and time will heal the wounds.. believe in the saying that if someone leave.. someone will surely come..
be brave and strong!
2006-12-02 20:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by labs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes love has nothing to do with it. If you can't treat each other well, and wish the best things for each other, then perhaps its time to move on to someone who will treat you well, and wish the best things for you.
2006-12-02 19:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by jordan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too vague with your question to enable anyone to speculate. There are "sooooooooooooo" many things that could be involved in that decision.
Basically, if two mature available adults are "really in love" with each other, I see no reason why one would leave........
2006-12-02 19:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by Mugsy's Place 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its possible to choose who to love but it is by chose how you choose to live..Just because you have feeling for them doesn't mean that they make a good spouse or parent.
2006-12-02 19:32:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mechelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, there's different kinds of love. You love your mom, you love your puppy, you love your boyfriend.
2006-12-02 19:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by Nick C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't if you love them & they are treating you right.
2006-12-02 19:40:21 · answer #9 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"whats love got to do with it?"- Tina Turner :)
2006-12-02 19:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋