should i feel guilty (even though i am 18)for watching sex videos during night and my parents don't know and i feel really guilty>
plz help
2006-12-02 10:06:26 · 25 answers · asked by Hally berry 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is OK to watch sex videos as long as they do not contain swearing.
2006-12-02 10:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by Pastor Sauce 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Do not feel guilty of having a healthy sexual appetite. Do, however, realize that the people on the videos tend to be substitutes for reality which is a healthy sexual relationship with someone who loves you and has made a lifetime commitment. Many people become addicted to porn because it is pleasure without relationship, but it is a fantasy. Being fulfilled in the bedroom is very important, but without the day-to-day interaction it is empty and frustrating. Besides, not everything that you see on porn is doable or even enjoyable in real life. I suggest that you fill your time with reality and not a fantasy. You are probably lonely in many ways and may just be filling that loneliness with pseudo pleasure.
Since you are 18 it is time for you to exercise your life plan. It looks like this: Education, financial success, and peace of mind. What about love? When you are involved in making a success out of yourself you tend to meet people along the way who have your same mindset. Love will come, but it must be in its proper time and with the right person. This is reality, and not a fantasy.
Sex entails responsibility and has consequences. Those who pretend otherwise end up pregnant and living in the poor house, hoping that some sucker will come along and rescue them. Let it not be so with you. You are too precious for that.
With much love and understanding,
Mr. M on "should I feel guilty?"
2006-12-02 18:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I don't know if guilt is the right word. True, it is unethical. But people, especially at your age, always want to explore, and have an urge to learn new things. Unfortunately, people become curious about things that are forbidden to us, in a way. Come to think of it, yes, there should be a feeling of guilt, because by you watching, youre encouraging unethical acts..
Try to ignore them for sometime, sleep before ur parents go to bed, or talk on the phone with a friend at night. In other words, keep yourself busy from turning on that T.V or computer or whatever you use..
2006-12-02 18:13:40 · answer #3 · answered by H.K 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No i dont think you should feel guilty. If you want to watch sex videos then at 18 that's entirely up to you.
2006-12-02 18:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't feel guilty. Its not like your commiting a crime. Just make sure you don't get carried away, and do nothing but watch porn. It can become too much. It doesn't sound like you are doing anything wrong to me.
2006-12-02 20:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should,its not a good way to learn,because there is good books on loving they show you some nice pictures NOT PORNO ones.and they explain in a healthy way.you don't have to look at SEX videos to learn.and anyway wend you'll get a boyfriend or get married you will leaned by experiences.so SEX videos its doing SEX,its not good loving any way if you want to take my advices its only you that nose.don't forget sweaty i don't con dome good loving if your 18 years old,what i am con doming is the SEX OR PORN MOVIES.and take your time your still young you no.
2006-12-02 18:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by cilia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, definatley not. you are 18 years old and that is normal for you to want to do that. Many people do the same. Most people would not want to tell their parents about it, it would be weird, but you shoudl nto feel guilty about it. Trust me, its really normal for you to do that. Hope this helps!
2006-12-02 18:12:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no sweetheart because you are of legal age to go and do what you want. I understand the feeling of guilt being that you probably still live with your parents but it is a normal thing. I know that majority of people watched them at some point in thier lives wether it be by yourself or with a friend.
2006-12-02 18:10:59 · answer #8 · answered by kort 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no shame or guilt in wanting to know about this subject. If you are 18 you will have a sex drive at this age it is normal. What is the true issue?
2006-12-02 18:48:22 · answer #9 · answered by love2bepassionate 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should feel very guilty. Stop watch them, and you might not feel guitly. It would help. Get a B/F instead.
2006-12-02 18:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by Star 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you feel guilty , then its something you should not be doing . I never felt guilty for that .
2006-12-02 18:10:01 · answer #11 · answered by Thomas H 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋