Marriage & Divorce - 3 December 2006

We are married but my husband of late is cheating. I am so hurt and have so far tried to talk to him but it turns into quarrels. I want him to change his behaviour. What can i do?

2006-12-03 23:59:02 · 9 answers · asked by Cyncon Lily 1

we got married last year and i brought my daughter into that marriage and in August this year our son os born. But since that day he's not doing anything with us anymore.going to work, working home thats what counts for him now. I'm at home all the time with the baby and my daughter and when he's home he's not even joyning us for dinner or a nice evening or something like that. sometimes i thought about breaking it up and starting new but then... PLEASE HELP ME....

2006-12-03 23:53:17 · 9 answers · asked by silket23 2

Marry me. She is wonderful, she has a good heart and the virtues inside a person that match mine. But she was arranged for marriage at a young age, and even though there were some emotions between her and her husband a long time back, they were gone long before I was in the picture.
Now we have been together for over two years, her husband found out ... but he is not doing anything.. just sitting around. I asked her to leave him often, and she is afraid of her family, his family and the Indian culture. Also losing her friends and also how a divorce will impact her and her 4 year old son.
I have been patient, but am consistently being torn as I dont see where this is leading, and she does not want to commit fearing to break my heart, although she does not realize my heart is chipping daily ( or does not want to be blamed for it).

Any advice is helpful. Please dont judge to much my actions or hers until you one day are in our shoes also if possible.

2006-12-03 23:41:28 · 9 answers · asked by UnHappySide 1

My husband die two years ago, at time I felt very lonely and upset. I want to find a good and suitable man to settle down.

2006-12-03 23:40:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 23:36:00 · 19 answers · asked by FunGirl81 1

I have accepted lot of things in her which I think is absolutely normal in a relationship as we r suppose to do that coz thats what love is all about. Compromise is also a part of the game. So, if I m expecting the same, am I wrong ?? The problem is that my tone gets a little high at times, though u cant say that I yell but its a bit higher & sounds aggressive. Instead of working out on this together with me( If not acceptable ), she started shouting on me in double the voice I use to. She says this is the best way coz she has born & brought up like this that if someone yells on u then yell at him/her at double the voice he/she has.According to her she is trying from last one year (without me knowing this) & now she just cannot bare this anymore & said that she can live without me. The problem is that I cannot.Is she doing right ??

2006-12-03 23:22:34 · 7 answers · asked by luckykom83 1

2006-12-03 23:22:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my birth date is 3rd Aug 1983 and my birth time is 14.00 pm ie 2 o'clock in the afternoon my native place is dharmaj India

2006-12-03 23:20:54 · 6 answers · asked by vidishaspatel 2

ie is she still entitled to half the house(finacial)and everything else half?

2006-12-03 23:11:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 23:10:29 · 16 answers · asked by Jesus G 2

2006-12-03 23:05:36 · 24 answers · asked by Jane Smith 1

Where i shuold get all the details like grooms id phone number etc at free of cost.

2006-12-03 23:05:00 · 3 answers · asked by esak s 1

My husband recently informed me that he had placed some sort of spy ware on our computer and had been reading my emails and reading everything that I write on this site. I do not write anything to anyone that is inapproprate. However, it's offensive to me that he does not allow me to do anything without watching me. I am a faithful loving wife. Is this how all men treat there wives?

2006-12-03 22:53:06 · 35 answers · asked by Jane Smith 1

2006-12-03 22:48:13 · 6 answers · asked by I love Corn 2

2006-12-03 22:35:31 · 11 answers · asked by oops 1

i am 23, i am getting married in 24 days, my woud be wife is great, i got a good job, my parents are great, my sister is great, i got enough money, my in-laws are great, i have got everything in life, but at the moment i am staying alone & all i wanna do is drink & drink & drink. what u think about this?

2006-12-03 22:29:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I MET MY FRIEND'S WIFE SIX MONTH BEFORE,BY THE WAY ON CIRCUMATANCES WE MAKE RELATION ONLY ONE TIME, THAT TIME SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE LIKES MY WAY OF LOVE VERY MUCH,& NOW I DONT WANT TO MAKE RELATION WITH HER & SHE TRIED TO DO THE SAME ,WHAT I HAVE TO DO?

2006-12-03 22:29:02 · 17 answers · asked by HONEY 1

she don't want him to see his kids by putting false accusation.
My husband is stressed and is completely down.please advice

2006-12-03 22:21:35 · 15 answers · asked by lea 2

My ex is trying to get custody of my kids. They are separated at the time and I have no access to them at all. The allegations against me were false. How can I best present myself in court tomorrow to talk fast and to the point to prove my side?

Do you think I have a chance of winning back custody?

What should I point out? what should I not point out?

2006-12-03 22:20:41 · 7 answers · asked by xxxcariooo 3

I love my husband so so much and could never imagine being with another person and I know he loves me very much. However, things are good with us, until we argue, and when we do argue, he gets really angry and then trys to make up with me and I dont want to make up with him coz I'm still heaps angry with him, so he gets even more angry and usually breaks something. He says its my fault because he tried to make up with me and I wouldnt.
Maybe I should make up with him but I just cant when he wants coz inside im fuming. Is it my fault?

2006-12-03 22:07:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I believe he is right. I myself am single. But that does not mean I have any disrepect for married men. What are ur opinions ?

2006-12-03 21:54:22 · 11 answers · asked by shankd67 1

im in love with a lady who is 10 years older than me. she is single, ummaried. and i wold like to marry her. now she is afraid this age difference and she started thinking about the society. what would be the possible threatens we have to face? can all of you guide me? i would like to know what can be the maximum age difference between partners if the woman is older than her partner?

2006-12-03 21:54:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

plz dont delete this.

i would like to know whether girls (not all) prefer doing threesome with their man and her best female frend or anyother girl she knows well. i dont know whether it happens. but i hav heard of it. so i would like get answer from who hav experienced and enjoyed. others plz dont mind it

2006-12-03 21:43:52 · 6 answers · asked by dracu 2

2006-12-03 21:31:41 · 23 answers · asked by itz_me 1

Dear M r/Mrs. I'm a man who is in the last on 20 years old (29 years old). I engaged with a person who is the thing which I'm alive for (She is 28years old). We are from Iran. We have the best relationship which we hope along our life. We have very nice sexual relation which was really good and we were very sexy persons with our love. We are going to married two months later. One day (about a year ago) suddenly she apologize me and said could I have no sex with you because I don't have any sexual sense with you? She really has not any sense about sex with me. She have loved me yet and I too really.I don't know why. I'm really confused and I have thought this important matter each seconds of my life since one year ago. I'm civil engineer and it effects on my job also. I am not worried about me but I'm really worried about her because she was really sexy person and she isn't now. Please guide me, please, please

2006-12-03 21:28:45 · 6 answers · asked by mohammad t 1

What was the hardest part of the divorce for you? Was it making the decision, or was it the practicalities? Would you do the same if you had it to do over again?

2006-12-03 21:25:42 · 14 answers · asked by Sugar 4

Thank you to all who answered my last question. I do actually have sex with him willingly at least once a week, but he tries and expects it several times a day. I know the problem is not only with him, but how much is too much, and when is it appropriate for me to become discouraged? Seriously! I have discussed with him doing it only a few times a week, and he is not at all happy with that idea. I have also tried to get him to go to marriage counseling, and he won't do it. What am I to do?

2006-12-03 21:23:11 · 23 answers · asked by zander's mom 1

2006-12-03 21:18:56 · 10 answers · asked by kate 1

We're having a baby and I feel like I'm the only one who's excited. We have a good marriage and a good sex life but he just doesn't seem to care about the pregnancy. Am I being selfish for wanting him to show a little more excitment?

2006-12-03 21:04:55 · 7 answers · asked by ~*~A~*~ 3

I am looking for the pro's to a breakup in family. I am doing a paper regards pros and cons. I have plenty of cons but am struggling with the pros. Thanks for the help. :-)

2006-12-03 21:03:59 · 12 answers · asked by Hope 2