Dear M r/Mrs. I'm a man who is in the last on 20 years old (29 years old). I engaged with a person who is the thing which I'm alive for (She is 28years old). We are from Iran. We have the best relationship which we hope along our life. We have very nice sexual relation which was really good and we were very sexy persons with our love. We are going to married two months later. One day (about a year ago) suddenly she apologize me and said could I have no sex with you because I don't have any sexual sense with you? She really has not any sense about sex with me. She have loved me yet and I too really.I don't know why. I'm really confused and I have thought this important matter each seconds of my life since one year ago. I'm civil engineer and it effects on my job also. I am not worried about me but I'm really worried about her because she was really sexy person and she isn't now. Please guide me, please, please
2006-12-03 21:28:45 · 6 answers · asked by mohammad t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are lucky to find this out before marriage. The best idea is to find a new girl who feels sexually happy with you. If your girlfriend does not, then it is hard to change. It is like asking someone to change their preference for vanilla ice cream to chocolate. Both are delicious but for some reason, some people like one and some the other.
You could also do some reading about sex. Many families treat it with shame. Be experimental. Try new things. Then whomever you end up with will have their choice of 'flavors'.
2006-12-03 21:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying she doesnt like sex any more. If so ask her what happened to change this,maybe some body assulted her and she feels hurt. There has to be a reason. Also if she is on birth control like the pill it may be affecting her hormones and she is losing her sexual disire.
2006-12-04 05:40:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What it sounds like is she hurt your feelings so youve become somewhat insecure and youve backed off or detached yourself from her sexually. Its a shame that you didnt discuss this with her for a complete understanding a year ago. Try talking it out now and rekindle the romance. Peace.
2006-12-04 05:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't even be having sex before marriage, dude.
Serves you right.
And to think that you might be a Muslim too... goodness...
2006-12-04 05:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you mean she doesn't want to have sex with you anymore??.....have you talked to her?... is there another man?....something wrong with the marriage?.. you need to find out what it is that is bothering her.....
2006-12-04 05:39:40 · answer #5 · answered by Morena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you not so hot
2006-12-04 05:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by murphys_lawyers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋