Marriage & Divorce - 3 December 2006

Me and my husband has been married for 2 almost 3 yrs. Our sex life is great except for one thing. When he wants it he gets it, but when i want sex he says hes too tired or something. Im getting tired of it. if he wont give it to me when i want it why should i give it to him when he wants it?

2006-12-03 14:29:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

A woman had an affair with my husband 14 years ago,we became friends because the affair produced a child.She married.Her husband left her once they divorced she re married him a month or so later.Her husband left her again.Her and I didn't have much contact however we spoke and the kids new on another.She contacted me asking about my husband and how her daughter want to know her Dad.That's never been an issue.How ever my husband and her got together an she got pregnant again!!After 13 years. Once she got pregnant she wants nothing to do with him.She got pregnant purposefully.She has two adult children(she had them when she wa 14 and 15 years old from a relationship back in the day.She has always had a reputation for sleeping with other womens men.Now she has a 1 year old by my husband.She goes to Church and calls herself a christian.I thinks she crazy and I can't get the situation out of my mind.People just just do things like that.What do you think?

2006-12-03 14:28:30 · 21 answers · asked by Frankly 1

My hubby is coming home from Iraq and I would greatly appreciate getting some ideas on how to spice things up...don't get me wrong I love our sex but i want to make it better because he has to go back in a month...Men I want things you would like and woman things you have done. Thanks.

2006-12-03 14:23:29 · 18 answers · asked by speedy 1

usually, I have 4-5 times sex a week. But when i am depressed, i double that. Your advice ,plz!

2006-12-03 14:14:34 · 5 answers · asked by flah10 2

2006-12-03 14:07:18 · 21 answers · asked by Mike 1

2006-12-03 14:03:22 · 14 answers · asked by emma 6

I have physical custody and we filed a self prepared divorce packet ourselves, after working out other details together. Now I want to move and have informed him about it. Do I have t have something in writing stating so, and where can I find additional info on all of this?

2006-12-03 14:02:14 · 1 answers · asked by SONYA N 1

Is it a hoax or really a legitimate way to make money from home? anyone ever done it or heard of it? Is it or can it be considered a real job? If so, pros and cons please...

2006-12-03 13:59:02 · 7 answers · asked by Skypride 2

I broke up with my ex when my daughter (now almost 6) was 3 years old. Her father can only see her at supervised visituations which he "refuses to pay for anyone to watch him with his child." Thus he has not made any contact with her in over a year. Needless to say he's not an "outstanding citizen" and I almost feel that it is in her best interest not to be involved with him.
I am concerned that my daughter is going to have abandonment issues (which has has already asked me "why doesn't my daddy love me?") when she grows up. Any help or advice would be much appreciated from any of you folks who have experienced or are experiencing something similar with your child.

2006-12-03 13:58:05 · 9 answers · asked by NautyRN 4

2006-12-03 13:55:20 · 11 answers · asked by Jim 2

2006-12-03 13:54:41 · 5 answers · asked by businessman7337 1

I wonder if abusive men ever see their own mistakes in a marriage. Or, do they constantly point the finger at others and say that their behavior was justified?

2006-12-03 13:47:57 · 21 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

After 5 1/2 years he says that he is tired of being married. I thought he was the love of my life and that we would be together forever. I am so devastated that I can hardly function. I am a strong woman and know I will be OK but I would be much better if I could just stop loving him. If you have any idea how to stop loving someone or how to get over a badly broken heart please help. I could use any advice.

2006-12-03 13:47:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband (soon to be ex) sexually abused my 14 year old daughter and just recently she gave birth to a baby boy and the DNA came back and it came back positive that the baby is my soon ot be ex's. I want a divorce, but don't have the money to file for the divorce. He also took both cars we had together and I want one back. How can I get help to divorce him? The bastard raped my daughter and now I want to divorce him and it is his fault the marriage failed. Now what? Do u think I can file for alimony and get it also?

2006-12-03 13:43:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Worked my but off,wife had a affair with someone I was trying to help ,now I have nothing left.She lied in court an they believed it,she's got our kids.Taken for everything that ment anything mainly my kids now her boyfriend is mean to them,they look to me for a asnwer,all I can do is say I don't know what to say .Would like to kick the **** out of him , but know that woulld only make things worst,thats why I'm here!
Been a good person , didn't use dirty tactics thought that good would come of it "WRONG WAS I"now kids are with them,can't go and confront the issue( the court says I can'talk to her or vist my kids at her residiece)GOOD ONE.
What do you do if the law is on someone's side that used the system to get them what they wanted them to believe.Kids are in danger both mentally & physically ,Socail Services are aware but have done nothing,but get a 10 year old &two 6 year's old more abuse(the system my be at work but what are they looking at)I'm a very upset non-custodial dad!

2006-12-03 13:43:19 · 15 answers · asked by whyknot 1

What was your experience like? Did you have a visitation schedule and travel between two homes? Did you maintain a good relationship and sense of family or did your parents undermine eachother and put you in the middle? Did anybody become estranged from their dad in the process?

2006-12-03 13:39:13 · 13 answers · asked by fuglefun 3

My ex husband commited suicide last Fri the 24th.Our girls are 25 19 and 17.I need some advise on how to help them? And also what I need to do now. If anybody has been through this please I need some guidence on everything from helping them to our financial now that we will not get any child support etc. Thank you for any help.

2006-12-03 13:36:18 · 20 answers · asked by age2purrfection 1

My husband and I have been arguing a lot lately. We have two small children (both under the age of 3). I just found out that he changed the locks to the home we are currently renting. Is he legally allowed to do that? I'm staying with my mother tonight and have no way to get into my own home. Any advice would be much appreciated. Thanks.

2006-12-03 13:34:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 13:20:06 · 20 answers · asked by charles u 1

2006-12-03 13:16:35 · 12 answers · asked by charles u 1

we broke up about 2 months ago....we dated for about a year and 9 months, but we broke about 6 times and got back togetehr n all that...i was his first love and he was mine.....hes has a new gf now for about 3 months...but yet he is still wearing the promise ring i gave him :S... and he has other lil things that representsme that he still carries around :O

2006-12-03 13:14:52 · 5 answers · asked by babyyy 2

2006-12-03 13:14:30 · 11 answers · asked by charles u 1

2006-12-03 13:14:18 · 11 answers · asked by Confused kitty 1

look at guys the same we some of look at them? say shopping for instance, i see a nice girl/women and i do sometimes wish i could sleep with them say in a closet or lift or something.. is that perverted or do other guys think it or better still women think it... If so, where do you shop? LMAO women that is!

2006-12-03 13:13:38 · 9 answers · asked by stuio 3

i have just found out throw an email that my soon to be ex husband might have a girlfriend..should i confront him about this or what...help

2006-12-03 13:09:54 · 25 answers · asked by nancy_moore68 1

2006-12-03 12:57:49 · 31 answers · asked by Steve P 2

Do you cheat and lie? If you do, do you feel guilty? Do you go with other people and tell your partner? Are you faithfull and resent it? Are you faithfull, have good reasons to be and are satisfied with it?

2006-12-03 12:54:12 · 11 answers · asked by bamboo 2

I am 33, been married for 11 years. Husband was my high school
sweetheart (we started dating when I was 17) and the first & only man in my life, of course, until now. 2 years ago around Xmas time, hubby filed divorce on me because he met someone else. I stuck out and beg for a second chance. We got back together. But, life is different since the incidence. I still like him and care about him a lot, but I no longer have the love / lust for him. I couldn't look at him as a woman looks at a man.

Then there was this guy (boyfriend). We used to work together, same company, different department. We got along but were never really close. Earlier this year, I left the company and took a new job elsewhere. 5 months after I quit, he approached me and hinted that he wants to be "more than just friends". Despite that fact I was really attracted to him, I declined the offer, because both of us are married. He was pretty aggressive and determined in a way, and eventually convinced me.

2006-12-03 12:50:36 · 8 answers · asked by Zooya 2

Just to point this out, I never have nor probably will use a prostitute. It's just this:

Marriage in the U.S. is supposedly about free will. Nevertheless, women care a lot about how much money their husband makes and they'll divorce him if he loses his job. (kind of illogical since it removes a potential stream of income).

If you do the math, you might need $50,000/year to keep Susie B. from divorcing you. A prostitute costs, for the sake of argument, $50 per session. (not sure of the rate).

If you used the prostitute every day of the year, that would only be 18,250, and most guys aren't in the mood everyday. Plus, no divorce settlement, no custody issues, no hassle, etc.

It almost makes sense that countries in which there is a dowry and an arranged marriage are more honest, because they bring the money issue to the forefront and settle it once and for all. Perhaps as mature cultures, they've captured human nature more succinctly.

2006-12-03 12:45:24 · 13 answers · asked by boomer 1

We haven't been able to find her since 2001. What can we do? We know her state - but that's all. Her mom has non-published phone numbers, etc. We know both their SSN's. Any way to search & FIND her?

2006-12-03 12:45:14 · 2 answers · asked by reereebsm 3