i have just found out throw an email that my soon to be ex husband might have a girlfriend..should i confront him about this or what...help
2006-12-03 13:09:54 · 25 answers · asked by nancy_moore68 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Exactly the same thing happened to a friend of mine. She confronted him, in a "friendly" low key way, explaining to him that while they were still married and living at tha same house, he had to be more careful about leaving his personal correspondence around for everyone to see. They have teenaged children and maybe one of them would have found the email. She also told him that the email confirmed that her decision of divorcing him was the right thing to do. He was speechless and mortified.
But I would recomend you to ignore it because you are getting a divorce anyway. I guess it may hurt your pride, but move on and forget the whole thing.
2006-12-03 13:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by Dulcinea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he going to be an exhusband, let him be an ex. I am not quite sure what you would want to confront him about. Your relationship with him has ended, he moved on , you should too. That is what people do when they break up with someone they just can no longer be with, they find someone else. I would just let him go. Find someone you can be with better than him.
2006-12-03 13:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to confront him? If you are willing to call him your "soon to be ex".....you should both move on. You can't fault him for trying to find someone who compliments him. You should do the same when you feel its the right time.
2006-12-03 13:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by Dan H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just another reason for him to be an ex instead of just a soon to be ex. Forget him and move on.
2006-12-03 13:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by theoriginalquestmaker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are getting a divorce, it is only natural for him to move on. You should, too! Live your life and let him live his, too! The sooner you move on and let him go, the better you will be. It sounds like you still might have some feelings for him. But, it sounds like he doesn't feel the same for you. Get over it! Best of luck to you!
2006-12-03 14:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by country girl 006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are getting a divorce, why would you confront him? Send me an email at Hijack6er@yahoo.com and I'll send you an email back that you can let him find...
2006-12-03 13:13:46 · answer #6 · answered by john n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until your state is a burden of proof state for divorce it will not subject!!!!! Most statew are no fault. Go and search aid for you and the children it's going to now not get you anymore cash by way of defaming or following this women round. MY God Bless you and dispose of your hurt.
2016-08-10 00:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really sucks. You probably want him to experience life without a women cleaning up after his ar$e all the time. Don't worry most likely it won't last just hope he comes crawling back to you when it's all over and you can tell him to take a hike (but meaner!).
2006-12-03 13:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by hes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say he's soon to be your ex husband. Why would you care? If you have separated and are divorcing, just let it go.
2006-12-03 13:13:10 · answer #9 · answered by bobbie v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if he is a soon to be x... then who gives a crap. let it go go out and have some fun just remember hurting your self isn't any way of making things better.
2006-12-03 13:11:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋