Marriage & Divorce - 3 December 2006

MY MOM DIED 3 YEARS AGO I DIDNT KNOW SHE WAS THAT ILL SO I WANT TO KNOW HOW SHES DOING AND IF SHES AROUND ME .THE SAME WITH MY DAD HE DIED 18 YEARS AGO JUST WANT TO KNOW HOWS HE DOING,IM SICK WITH DIFFERENT ILLNESSES AND I JUST WANT TO KNOW IF I WILL GET BETTER. AND I WAS MARRIED BEFORE AND NOW IM SINGLE AND REALLY WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF I WILL REMARRIE AGAIN. MY WHOLE LIFE ALMOST I HAD IT BADI JUST WANT TO KNOW IF I WILL BE HAPPY BECAUSE I WOULD LIKE TO KNW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE.

2006-12-03 16:24:06 · 2 answers · asked by Dolores D 1

Married over 15yrs. She says she no longer ahs sexual feels for me. Says she still cares about me . treats me like a friend, roommate

2006-12-03 16:23:22 · 9 answers · asked by dlecasper2004 1

I am new on here. I told my best friend about this. And about me putting a question on here. All about the good advise I have recieved. So she wanted me to ask ya'll a question. So here goes.When she and her husband make love or talk about sex. He always says,"If he couldn't keep his head straight,he would be in prison. Because he would have sex with kids of any age from 10 and up." If he knew he wouldn't get caught. And she says every time they make love that he says,"He wonders what it would me like to have sex with children?" I told her GET THE HELL OUT OF THERE. THAT SHE WAS MARRIED TO A SICK ASSS PERFERT. AND HIS ASSS SHOULD BE SHOT. What kind of advise can you give her? Is he really that perverted in the head? Or is he just pulling her strings to see what she will say? I SAY SICK ASSS PERVERT HANG HIM FROM HIS BALLS. What do you think?

2006-12-03 16:23:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my husband for 3 years and married to him for 1 1/2 years. I just met his best friend who has been over seas for a little over a year. I am attracted to his best friend. I don't know what to do about these feelings and I just want to know if this is normal in a marriage to be attracted to another man.

2006-12-03 16:22:46 · 14 answers · asked by beautiful_babe170 2

2006-12-03 16:17:51 · 11 answers · asked by jbrown 1

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2006-12-03 16:14:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have been withmy DH for four years and we have recently seperated does anyone have any suggestions??????

2006-12-03 16:09:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 16:08:25 · 8 answers · asked by mimidunn 1

I've been married going on 11 Years now I feel like the only we have going for us we have Great Sex once in a while ( On a Saturday or Sunday Morning) other than that (kids) (House) (Bills) ETC... Thats IT!!
I WANT more in life what do I do??? I just Lost my job so leaving right now with christmas coming and all for (my KIDS sake) isnt an option?? what would you think if this was your life?? Love Or Not??

2006-12-03 16:01:37 · 16 answers · asked by chase 2

Hey guys its my first time in the forum and I stumbled to this closed session. I would like re-open it again because my wife is too strong minded that hates to admit that she was wrong sometimes. I reckon its got someting to do with independence. Having a man to sometimes share his idea to his wife or girlfriend could create an argument. I have to say, small arguments lead to much bigger ones and later on may lead to a divorce. Men love women who are independent but sometimes they are so independent that turns into being controlling. I love my wife don't get me wrong but some days she would actually pick a fight on the most stupidest thing. A simple conversation while she was cooking created a big fuss between us because she said that she doesn't want to be disturbed while doing that. I have to say she had a long day at work but all I did was I offered her a drink, asked her a simple question about the paperwork to be shredded and reminded her about the bills. So whats wrong with that?

2006-12-03 16:00:28 · 15 answers · asked by Macky 2

my friend just sent me 2 you tube videos. The first one was these girls trying on eachothers pants and laughing like idiots. The other one was of girls dancing on a bed to the backstreet boys and one of them falls off the bed like an idiot. Do girls really do this **** in their spare time. And you women rip on us for playing nintendo in our spare time.

2006-12-03 15:52:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 15:43:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

so here's my problem, i got married in aug to the man of my dreams,so i thought..i knew he was a recovering addict an had assumed he was clean, from what he told me and what i observed.45 minutes after our beautiful wedding,his mom goes nuts,he yells at me and her and leaves the wedding, so i leave.2 days later he get's arrested for testing dirty for illegal drugs. To make a long story short, he was in jail on our 1 month anniversary, sentenanced on our 2 month anniversary and left for treatment 2 days after our 3rd anniversary. My family, my friends have disliked him since day one, and i've stood by him. because I did see the good in him. He'll be gone until at least June, then he can come home. Does everyone deserve a 2nd chance? I mean we r married now ,this is my 2nd go around. I wanted this time to b forever. Should I give him the chance to prove to me he has changed when he get's back? Plus I have a 3yr old from a diff relationship,and he is always num 1,and will always come 1st

2006-12-03 15:42:07 · 32 answers · asked by justadream 2

Why do fathers tell their kids to call them if they need anything, and when the kid does, he tells them “all you do is cost me money”? WHY do fathers say nasty things to thier kids, and yet claim to 'be there' for them and love them?

2006-12-03 15:39:03 · 11 answers · asked by Yvette B yvetteb 6

I got married in June 02,2005 and being with my husband for all in all 3 halve years I love me and we had good times but his focus on life was a struggle for him and I felt like thur the relationship I carried a the load. He a good person to me but mind was not where I was trying to go. we both beleive in God but he didnt trust him like I did well he did some that put our marriage on the line when I really needed him to be the husband I could count on thur my illness well he made some bad decision and now I am here as a single parent trying to fix my life with help of God. Hes in jail and will soon be ship to prison for 2to 3 yrs what should I do I dont feel its right for me have to pay for something he did I deserve happiness to. I am still young and vibrant and I also know that God doesnt ordian divorce at all from a christant point of view what should I do I do know to pray first but sometimes god will send the answer from a bless person so I am all ears.

2006-12-03 15:37:26 · 11 answers · asked by talondawllms 1

Why are they so disobedient and do not want to do what they are told?

2006-12-03 15:36:23 · 20 answers · asked by Lucky L 1

My son works with his father (in construction) and my ex keeps telling my son that I spend the childsupport on crack and weed. I don’t even do drugs. My son told him he was full of sh*t and I told my son, after telling him a thousand times to just ignore him on the jobsite. I don’t know how to deal with this anymore. I work my **** off, and don’t need a front row seat to more of his abuse. My ex also calls me all sorts of vile names to all of our children (some are still young), and its making them angry thus depressing them. NO, they don’t see him often, and when he actually decides to show up for visitation, all he does is put them down (their mama’s a…..their hair, their clothes, their friends). WHY do men do this to their kids? NO, there is no “talking” to this abusive alcoholic (restraining order…besides, you cant reason with him anyway).

YES I have court orders stating he is not allowed to do that, but if I take him to court again, he’ll get my son fired. HELP!! IDEAS???

2006-12-03 15:32:02 · 11 answers · asked by Yvette B yvetteb 6

2006-12-03 15:29:39 · 8 answers · asked by Michelle 2

2006-12-03 15:24:09 · 16 answers · asked by Michelle 2

2006-12-03 15:24:08 · 7 answers · asked by deo 1

we split up over three yrs ago, he had a contract drawn up and signed by a judge to pay, he paid for a month then never again. I never pressured him because I used to work and make decent money, I recently had another baby with my new husband and I wanted to stay home, so I mentioned it to him about paying me something and he asked if my husband could get a second job! lol

2006-12-03 15:21:24 · 17 answers · asked by Roslyn L 2

2006-12-03 15:17:44 · 9 answers · asked by Starbud99 2

I checked all the phone bills even hers but I think there talking somehow. I texted my friend the other night and asked her if she wanted me to visit her at work which she always ask me to do. However she had no idea I was in the parking lot so I said Im on my way and when I got there she was like "their moving me to a different floor I will call you when I'm done" this is after I said come and get me, she works at a hospital. So I thought that was weird and left because I live literally around the corner from the hospital and when turning on my street she passed me, so I text her and said I just seen you pass me I guess she thought because it was dark I wouldn't have noticed but I looked at the license plate which is personalized. She swore it wasn't her but she knew before I went to see her I was at a co-workers house visitng. There keeping in contact somehow and it's not through phone, or email at least I don't think so. What should I do how can I find out for sure

2006-12-03 15:16:45 · 11 answers · asked by Michelle 2

2006-12-03 15:16:38 · 5 answers · asked by treejamin 2

We have been married for almost 13 years and she still acts like she did when they were first divorced. She is also remarried for 3 years.

2006-12-03 15:08:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am I in a troubel? People specially grls help me out......please ;(

2006-12-03 15:06:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had no idea he was married and unfortunately was foolish enough to fall in love with him. I will never again be so naive nor will I hurt another woman in such a way.

2006-12-03 15:03:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my girl had a big problem 4 yrs ago...all about misunderstanding..pls help me and need advise pls..thnx..

2006-12-03 14:46:06 · 5 answers · asked by RC 2

He won't listen. I've been having this problem in my relationship with my husband constantly wanting to have sex but I don't because of the issues in our relationship. So I explained to him how I felt that he was selfish and stubborn, never gives me credit for anything and that I do and that I am secure in the relationship. I mean I poured my heart out with tears and everything and he still had nothing to say but "i just want to have sex" . What more can I do I even told him I need to feel okay with the person I am sharing intimate moments with and I want to feel special sometimes. I have bought him flowers, cooked him dinners, acted like a straight ho for him meaning I go kinky and still nothing for me, just bend over so we I can do you. WHAT ELSE IS THERE WHAT ELSE CAN I DO This is all he focuses on and it makes me feel like **** when he allows me to lay there knowing I am hating every minute of it. Why would someone want to have sex with there wife if they feel disgusted

2006-12-03 14:45:49 · 29 answers · asked by Michelle 2

I've been with him for 4 yrs and we have a baby together, he is only 19 and he has been telling me that he is confused. One day he says that he wants to be with me and the next he says that he doesn't, what does it mean and what should I do?

2006-12-03 14:42:28 · 5 answers · asked by dessy 1