I had no idea he was married and unfortunately was foolish enough to fall in love with him. I will never again be so naive nor will I hurt another woman in such a way.
2006-12-03 15:03:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I got married to a divorced man who somehow made ME the other woman. They divorced on paper only. It killed me when I found out.
2006-12-03 15:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by upside down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,that is unbknownst to me I found out after the rat secretly divorced his wife and he had full intentions of marrying me without ever mentioning he had a vindictive ex who would be calling my home harrassing the H ell out of me once she found out about me I had no idea this was all going on until this woman faxed me a copy of the divorce decree and she was angry with me calling me a home wrecker but not at all upset with him,so being that he was in the military and away alot he left his Power Of Attorney with me.
So his ex wife(was still legally his wife at the time) wanted me to go with her to his command and get him for adultery but I did something even better I had possession of his brand new SUV as well as acess to his bank account and I told him he was not to contact me in any way shape or form or there would be h ell to pay and I would return the SUV to him at my convenience which I did and even when I did return it which was almost 2 yrs later(Kept it 18+ Months) listening to him whine about living in such a big city and how public transportation was such a headache was music to my ears and although I did get to keep the platinum engagement ring(sold it for a good price) I never spoke to him again best choice I could have ever made because I don't have to be second best for no one.
2006-12-03 23:26:57 · answer #2 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have been. I will admit I would never do it again. I was very wrong but I have no idea what their relationship was base on. Sometime people get involved that are not suppose to be together!! but due to some unfortunate circumstance they are in an relationship they cant get out of. Don't get me wrong because either way two wrong do not make a right. But people need that feeling of belonging to someone or something. If you cant get that at home of course you will stray. I hope this help.Girl,I am still in your shoe, I know exactly how you feel. If you get my drift.
2006-12-03 23:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been the other woman before, and we even produced a child. Never say never. People lie all the time. And we sometimes get caught up. I don't ever want to be the other woman again, but I won't say never because, like I said, people do lie. Forgive, forget, and give him paper cuts on his balls (kidding).
2006-12-03 23:09:09 · answer #4 · answered by mcbubbalicious 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
I had an affair with a man I knew to be married. We both just wanted sex. There wasn't a problem until I fell for him...hard. It was just sex for him but my feelings for him changed. I will never knowingly have an affair with a married man again. My heart can't take it.
2006-12-04 02:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by buffybeast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I would never disrespect myself like that, I love me to much and I would never want to hurt another women like that. There is not a man in this world worth all of that. And fortunately, I have never been fooled. One would have to get up pretty early in the morning to get this one off on me. God bless****
2006-12-03 23:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont blame yourself.its his fault..hes nothing but a cheat..and a low down scumbag..just check out the background next time b4 you commit yourself to any relationship...if he cheats on his wife,,,you can be assured he will cheat on you too !!
2006-12-03 23:09:54 · answer #7 · answered by free-spirit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i have for almost 2 years. i was lied to the entire time, lesson learned.
2006-12-03 23:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Tessa♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I have never been the other woman but it is refreshing to here what you had to say.
2006-12-03 23:04:50 · answer #9 · answered by Val 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-12-03 23:47:43 · answer #10 · answered by morganslilone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋