Marriage & Divorce - 3 December 2006

my husband is dissabled and sleeps all the time and when he is up eather yells at me or is on the computer and i dont know what to do.

2006-12-03 08:12:12 · 36 answers · asked by appleheavenjade 2

how does it go i forgot

2006-12-03 08:07:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and the father of the our 2 kids have been sprated for 15 months . He quit his job, leave the state, and hasn't pay one penny sense he left. He is also refussing to sign any of the court papers so we (me and the kids) can move on. His parents got him a lawyer and me and the kids are stuck living with people while I try my best to rest the kids and work to support all 3 of us. What I don't understand is how do they get away with this ? Why do they seam to have more rights then the victims they left behind?

2006-12-03 08:05:55 · 16 answers · asked by painter 1

Sometimes i feel like i hate the internet..my husband looks at porn every night, he waits for me to go to sleep and looks at porn every night, and i just don't understand..i haven't had sex with him for the past week because i get totally turned off that he does that and it hurts my feelings and makes me feel useless and unattractive. i have already had this converstation with him and have asked questions but i just don't seem to get the answer..i have talked to him about it and told him how it makes me feel, but i think that made it worse cuz now, more than ever he hides it from me and denies that he ever looks at porn and that makes me even more angry..i have proposed to him that we look at porn together, so i can understand him better. i was raised into a very catholic family were everything was bad, and well i just to understand, and he doesn't understand where i'm coming from, i don't understand where he's coming from either but I'm trying to understand..help please...

2006-12-03 07:58:45 · 12 answers · asked by Ana R 1

Okay I have lost 70 lbs on weight watchers. My hubby is getting really jealous over me. One time he went by the gym to see if I was there. He runs to the phone to pick it up so he can get to it before me. I have not given him any reason not to trust me. I feel like I am a bug underneath a microscope. I am so miserable. I tell him everyday I love him and he is the only one for me. I have even told him I would help him lose weight if he wanted too. He is really over weight. Please help me here I do not know what to do. Thanks!

2006-12-03 07:52:05 · 7 answers · asked by jessica h 2

personally, for me its kissing someone else and spending alone time with them, but my sister says its only an affair if you have physical contact.

2006-12-03 07:50:56 · 52 answers · asked by trouble 4

2006-12-03 07:38:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 40 and looking for a good man to spoil are there any good guys left ? My first marriage ended very badly but i am ready to meet a good guy now!

2006-12-03 07:36:33 · 9 answers · asked by IT'S JUST ME ! 7

turn on:
turn off:
In a female or male. please let me know if you are a male or female answering the Question. I am a female and my biggest turn ON in a guy is his confidence and independence. My biggest turn OFF is BAD BREATH or a guy who can't take care of himself...(mommys boy)

2006-12-03 07:34:19 · 10 answers · asked by Butterfly 2

he is mad at me...really mad & he should be. What can i text him thatll make him smile? Something sweet & meaningful.♥

2006-12-03 07:33:39 · 23 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4

I have been married for 16 years. I have three children. The oldest is 14 and the youngest is 9. My wife and I just filed bankrupcy this last week. She then told me on the way back from the lawyer that she is unhappy and doesn't want to be married anymore. I have not seen her since Friday. I am going out of my mind..please help me. I cannot figure out what to do or say except to ask her to stay and work it out.I love my wife and do not want this to happen no matter what. I have told her this and she will hear none of it. Please advise me. Mabey If I get it soon enough, I can make it work. For my childrens sake and ours.

2006-12-03 07:31:29 · 15 answers · asked by mixedupmike 1

2006-12-03 07:31:29 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3

do u think it is possible to find love/partner/fun/laughter.....
everything u realised u didnt get wen u were married......

2006-12-03 07:24:18 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want to have crazy wild sex with my wife but by the time the kids(6) go to sleep she is to tired? even if she isn't to tired she doesn't feel comfortable doing what i want to do?

2006-12-03 07:20:34 · 16 answers · asked by KEVIN D 1

have you gone through bad times and are still together? how have you got through them?

2006-12-03 07:16:39 · 24 answers · asked by english_latina 1

2006-12-03 07:13:22 · 5 answers · asked by Ann R 1

2006-12-03 07:12:51 · 8 answers · asked by ANTHONY L 1

anything to anyone though..But later i will find out he is definately an abuser....tell me what is that???!!!

2006-12-03 07:12:41 · 9 answers · asked by sweet 4

Okay, im going to be honest with the world. Im not the best wife in the world (nor is my husband the best husband). i dont cook or clean or work full time. i go out with my friends a lot. I cant stop partying but i will start NOW. I seemed to have messed things up a little cause i cuss a lot and have a loud mouth. (no, i dont cuss at him.) He doesnt take me seriously. I messed up and i want to make things right. he told me he will never leave me cause hes in love with me but he is unhappy. Please help me make things right. please give me advice. (yes, i know im gonna get it from alot of you but in addition, please help?) I want to be a better wife. I dont know how. I need a handbook or something. (no kids yet)

2006-12-03 07:08:55 · 24 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4

Ok, my mom died when I was 8 and I am now 15, my dad has been going out with 3 women since then. I hate everyoneof them, not as a person, but I don't want anyone to replace my mom. Then recently I think he has started seeing this other lady, I met her a long time ago and once again I hate her. My dad asked me and my two brothers if it would be ok if he brought her up to go snowboarding with us. I shrugged my shoulders and said I didn't care. But I do care. Am I being to selfish? I just don't want anyone to replace my mom. What can I do? Please help me. I really don't want to talk to my dad about it so....
Oh and if it helps, I am a girl.
I will never willingly except another women into my life, I can talk to my friends, (even though it's uncomfortable talking to them) I would rather talk to them then some person that over took my life.
Oh and another thing, I HATE COUNSLERS

2006-12-03 07:02:37 · 15 answers · asked by answerme 1

my wife left me 6 months ago, and yes with my best mate too, i was best man at his wedding and he was mine,im totally depressed,ive often thought about ending it all, but i chicken out, is there any way you can think of that we can become mates again

2006-12-03 06:48:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have got to the point where my I don't trust her anymore. Almost every time time she uses the internet she clears the history files before she logs off, when she gets a call on her cellphone she will frequently go into another room and shut the door behind her, she never used to do either of those things. And in recent months she is spending more and more time out of the house. I know she does not love me, we no longer have sex, but she said she cares and will never leave me........but I don't believe her.

2006-12-03 06:47:39 · 22 answers · asked by Very happily married. 7

It's fine for me to be attached to your parents but not to the extreme when you feel whatever they do is right. Sometimes I find him to be heartless because his ex-girlfriend used to sacrifice so much for him but due to a minor mistake she did, his parents ask him to leave her and he did. I don't want to be the next victim.

2006-12-03 06:45:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 06:42:30 · 5 answers · asked by MMaaNN 1

I've been dating THE girl for about ten months now. Our relationship has moved somewhat sluggishly for the first three months and I was in no hurry but then it all escalated. We have this love for eachother that I never thought I'd feel in a lifetime. Well, come to find out she's cheated on me on two occasions. She's not the same girl I fell in love with in the least. Basically I'm not good enough for her....but when I found out all of a sudden I'm all she needs and she doesn't see why she never realized it in the first place. I never broke up with her. I loved her and I still love her more than anything in the world, but she's not giving me what I need even though in a way I know she'll die without me. There are a number of other girls (life-long friends) in my life now that have openly told me that they loved me. I love the girl that cheated on me. But now, I just don't know. Wat do I do? Email mathik11@yahoo.com for more info so I can get a better answer...it takes more to type.

2006-12-03 06:41:42 · 7 answers · asked by Derek S 1

my fiance left me and the 2 kids 4 weeks ago to move in with a 19 year old coworker. I am 22, he is 24. he says he made a big mistake and that he loves me, misses me so much, and he'll never leave again. He also said he cannot move on unless he tries one more time. Well he came home today, but he said he can't quit his job yet, which scares me but I won't push it, how should I proceed to make this relationship work? I believe he is very sincere, but I am still scared that he will leave and I don't want him to know that. What should I do to make this work

2006-12-03 06:41:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm writing a story and i need help.

2006-12-03 06:39:50 · 12 answers · asked by kelsey 3

i also wonder if that big handsome man that i dream about is a chance i should follow in my life or staying married. my husband is my best friend but the attraction is not that strong on my side.

2006-12-03 06:37:40 · 5 answers · asked by CAROL C 1

hours away from them. I have been here for three weeks. I have tried to offer them agency help, so they can get out when I go back home. They are refusing it. This morning my grandmother yelled at me, and told me she wants me to go home. My grandfather can't walk, and she can't drive, but they refuse help from anyone outside the family, and they won't call their kids. I can't do it all. No other family members will help -- I am alone. What do you think is the best way to handle this situation?

2006-12-03 06:34:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband won't lift a finger at home! I love him to bits, but he is a slob. We both work full time and he seems to think it is all my responsibility. We have a 5 year old as well, so you can imagine what mess the two of them can create! Does any one have suggestions on how to get it through to him I am not his maid? I've worked 6 days this week, and I am using my only day off to clean up the house. It is so frustrating. I'm thinking of going on strike with his laundry. See who is laughing when he runs out of clothes. haha Sorry for the rant...I know I am not alone on this one...any suggestions would be great! Thanks

2006-12-03 06:31:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous