do u think it is possible to find love/partner/fun/laughter.....
everything u realised u didnt get wen u were married......
2006-12-03 07:24:18 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ABSOLUTELY
2006-12-03 07:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by missm43050 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes-and you'll probably find better than your ex because the marriage,the brek up,the divorce have all taught you major life lessons,and also taught you what you will and will not tolerate.
In my case,my ex husband was controlling,manipulative,and abusive. While I was with him I became so down on myself,and was constantly depressed. After I left him,it took awhile-but I finally saw that I was capable of doing things on my own-and was coping very well!! Then I met some guys-dated a bit-but quickly ended things as I saw them repeating the same patterns as my ex. Then I met my boyfriend-and he was everything I wanted-and then some! We've been together over 2 years now,and this is the best,happiest relationship I've ever known!
I know I had to go through everything before-the abuse,the failed marriage-to get where I am now. And you know what? It was worth it!
2006-12-03 07:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course you can.
I lived in a one sided marriage for years and years,because, when I look back, he had drained all my self esteem ,and confidence out of me, without me even realising it.
Learn to love yourself first,your really worth it,have the fun and laughter you've missed and then worry about another relationship.
Don't want to be jumping back into the frying pan now, do we.
Find yourself first darling, and perhaps you will have second thoughts about another relationship quite yet,anyway.
Good luck and god bless.Have a happy life.
2006-12-06 18:41:01 · answer #3 · answered by animalwatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES.Within the partnership and with the partner even outside,in a wider society,so that married life could be more happy.We can have fun,laughter and the like even in the wider society with due regard for the partner and our family and later,much more,for our kids too.We need to learn enjoying ourselves without disrupting our family and its joy as a whole.The limits are wider enough.
2006-12-03 07:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by KRMD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, look at me!! Seriously, I wish you well and remember you have a right to b e happy and not dependant on a man to make you happy. Don't rush into anything. I think almost everyone I know had an unhappy first marriage, even second or third, but you will find someone when you least expect it.!! Good luck and don't settle for a wee runt.
2006-12-03 07:36:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! One person that you have loved does not dictate the future. You can learn some valuable lessons from one marriage that you can take into a seond relationship/marriage. It's so much easier to go into another realtionship with your eyes wide open when you have the experience of a first behind you. But, be honest about your likes and dislikes from the beginning.
Good luck!
2006-12-03 07:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by crazeeladee no more 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I definitely think so! I had failed relatioships but I now realize I have to work on myself & change myself but if I meet someone now I'm not ready & am very likely to have the same problems.
I'm sorry if this sounds abit new age; but there are some really self-help books by Louise L. Hay & they'd be really helpful. I quite like her I Can Do It! (book & CD) & You Can Heal Your Life.
Also, there's a book by Don Miguel Ruiz called The Mastery of Love, which is also very good.
I hope this helps!
with luv
2006-12-03 07:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can because there is somebody out there for everyone. The guy you married wasn't your soulmate and he is still out there.
Everybody has that one guy out there that they have to met. He is like your practice guy until your soulmate comes along but when he does appear you will know.
It is a different feeling you had with the first guy.
What I am trying to say there is love after marriage.
2006-12-03 07:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can.
Be patient, give yourself time to get over your marriage, so that when you do find someone you like, you are not still carrying any emotional baggage.
Start out by having fun, & see where that leads you. Hopefully that will lead to new friendships, until you fall in love again.
Stay positive, it will happen.
2006-12-03 08:03:19 · answer #9 · answered by Kingbee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse you can? Love can be everywhere waiting for you. You just start a new begining and look at the world with different eyes! Enjoy it it gonna offer you opportunities everyday.
Wish you good luck! :)
2006-12-03 07:30:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did and he is fantastic, we have been together for almost 10 years and we know that this is for ever so don't give up! Good Luck.
2006-12-03 23:32:50 · answer #11 · answered by jacee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋