i want to have crazy wild sex with my wife but by the time the kids(6) go to sleep she is to tired? even if she isn't to tired she doesn't feel comfortable doing what i want to do?
2006-12-03 07:20:34 · 16 answers · asked by KEVIN D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wife is visiting her parents for 5 days with just the baby, no help around, baby sitters can cost around $50.00 a night.
2006-12-03 10:45:49 · update #1
Well, spicing things up in the bedroom is a great idea. I don't think some people realize how big of a role sex is and should be in a marriage until somethings gone wrong as a result of lack of it! Talk with her about what it is you want to do, and find out what her limits are. You should be able to reach some middle grounds.
2006-12-03 07:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by ♥N,K,E&DJ'§ Mommy♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby and I go through this all the time. Right down to the 6 kids!! Take the kids out to eat or to a movie or something. Get your wife a bottle of champagne and some white grapes. Maybe some new bubble bath or bath oil. Tell her to relax for the evening and you handle the kids. By the time you get to her, she'll be nice and relaxed and so appreciative for her evening off she will be open to anything.
You will also have a better understanding as to what her job entails taking care of her house and children and will not demand these kinds of nights except on rare occasions.
2006-12-03 15:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by sixcannonballs 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Think about her first instead of yourself. And I think it would be a good idea if you both if possible had a night without the kids, at least once a week, and have a date night. She's so busy with the kids she needs a break. Also give her a break from the kids, and let her get some rest. And she might be more willing to have sex.
2006-12-03 15:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a vacation or drop them off at the in laws or your parents. Make a plan to spend some alone time together. Even a babysitter.
2006-12-03 15:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by vato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire a one day baby sitter and take your wife to a nice private place and do whatever you want and make the seventh kids.
2006-12-03 15:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by livinhapi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well we have two children and what we do is make them go outside or to their rooms which is on the other side of the house or you can wait until they go to school come home for a quickie you'll find some way to get that booty or better yet what is it you want to do?
2006-12-03 15:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by miamiborn&raised 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a babysitter, a little wine and soft music, move slowly, get her in the mood and everything else should fall in place.
2006-12-03 16:48:03 · answer #7 · answered by shyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you help out around the house?...or do you just hound her for sex when you get off of work? Just asking.
2006-12-03 15:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
give the poor girl a break...6 kids would wear anyone out...if she doesnt feel comfortable try something small at first then work ur way up to the real kinky stuff.
2006-12-03 15:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by Michele 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
sounds like you've already had crazy sex,,6 kids
2006-12-03 15:44:36 · answer #10 · answered by kkahn9dodge 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋