Okay I have lost 70 lbs on weight watchers. My hubby is getting really jealous over me. One time he went by the gym to see if I was there. He runs to the phone to pick it up so he can get to it before me. I have not given him any reason not to trust me. I feel like I am a bug underneath a microscope. I am so miserable. I tell him everyday I love him and he is the only one for me. I have even told him I would help him lose weight if he wanted too. He is really over weight. Please help me here I do not know what to do. Thanks!
2006-12-03 07:52:05 · 7 answers · asked by jessica h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its time to stop whimpering and pleading. No more Mrs Nice Guy, tell him straight to his face to knock it off or you're gone. He will continue to act this way unless you set him stright. It doesn't make you mean to tell him to cool it already. If he doesn't cool it, you know what you have to do next.
2006-12-03 07:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same thing. Followed me to grocery store, gym, called boss at work to see if I was there, etc. Tell him either knock it off or you'll have to leave. It is no fun being spied on. By the way, I divorced my ex.
2006-12-03 16:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations on the weight loss...the problem ur husband is having is pure jealousy...he sees how good u look and wishes he would look that way too...if i were u, help him lose weight and help him feel better about himself...good luck to u
2006-12-03 15:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a break. try to understand that he is not secure with his looks. Try telling him you lost weight for your health and to be more attractive for him, not for other men. Then offer to help him lose weight. Also try giving him some extra sexual attention. Dress in sexy bedroom clothes for him.
2006-12-03 15:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by bamagrits84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Congrats on loosing the weight!! I know it's hard...I still need to do it...and hopefully it will just blow over...but in the mean time talk to him and let him know how you feel...
2006-12-03 16:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by atchisons2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probably insecure about himself and by you losing weight, he thinks that more people will be attracted to you. since hes still overweight he probably thinks you will leave him for someone more attractive
2006-12-03 15:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by missm43050 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite him to work out with u
clean out the freidge and put setain nutritiouse foods that he could eat
2006-12-03 16:00:34 · answer #7 · answered by ~LIL MZ.MENUZ~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋