Marriage & Divorce - 3 December 2006

Put in order..Most important to least important......Big heart, Big sex organ, Big bank account or Big brain............

2006-12-03 02:50:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

men seem to complain about this, wanting perfection, like working having kids, tea on the table and look beautiful. Something has to give men. I always notice women look great after separation or divorce (totally transformed into beauties). I also notice men look better when in a relationship. Do men take our beauty away, by being so self centred and demanding?

2006-12-03 02:46:19 · 23 answers · asked by oceanwaves 2

I have been talking to this girl online secretly for about a month and half now and she wants to come visit me. My wife does not know anything about this. What should I do. Should I tell her to come or tell her to stay away.

2006-12-03 02:42:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 02:31:53 · 2 answers · asked by budi 2

Have you ever found yourself in a conversation with your spouse and he/she says..."I didn't know that about you."

2006-12-03 02:29:17 · 17 answers · asked by tikizgirl 4

can someone tell me what is ang pow rate to give on actual wedding day for sisters, brothers, opening of car door etc? It will be good if someone can provide a guide list on this. Thanks!

2006-12-03 02:26:12 · 6 answers · asked by lee j 1

My ex-husband and I have been trying to get back together for a long time. We divorced about 3 years ago but have been in constant contact since then. He was abusive, controlling and money-minded. He has custody of my 14 year old daughter and lives in another state.

Now, he has a job offer in another state and wants me to move there with him. I have to let him know by tomorrow what I want to do.

My suggestion to him was to send my daughter to me and he move to the other state and start the job there since they will relocate him. He wants to start life in the new state with me and my child.

I am confused because he said a few weeks ago that I am not marriageable material and messed up. Yet, now he says that we should be together and start life again.

I don't know if he has changed. His e-mails and phone conversations tell me that he has not. Yet, to be with a family again is tempting to me.

2006-12-03 02:24:49 · 17 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

I told my wife several times to stop talking to man online after I found out they were showing themselves on webcam to each other and she didn't. I resorted to another way to convince her to say good-bye. I could never abuse the woman I love, but I feel I kicked around when all I did was make her say bye to someone disrupting our marriage. The way she is acting though,you'd think I smacked her but I didn't. What do I do now ?

2006-12-03 02:23:49 · 5 answers · asked by bopper 2

To pay off a bet or a debt? What were the circumstances?

2006-12-03 02:13:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 25/f/India.

I am a total romantic. I've had some crushes & I have fallen in love once. It didn't work out between us...that's history now.

Anyway...I'm not the kind of person who would sleep with a man just out of lust/ to experiment/ animal sex. I have always felt emotionally attached towards the person i've been with. (I've only been with one major crush and the man I fell in love with).

Now my parents have fixed me up with a man to whom I feel no emotional connection. We've met a couple of times. The wedding is in 10 days. However, there is nothing I can do to delay the wedding / stop it. Telling my fiance how i feel may ruin the marriage. At the same time I need to move on in life.

I don't know how to consummate the wedding night because it goes against all my beliefs and principles and emotional make-up to sleep with someone i dont feel connected with.

PLease advice me on how to go about it...I need to make my marriage work.

2006-12-03 02:06:19 · 26 answers · asked by s mehta 1

he wants to file for divorce but i dont want to. i will contest for the custody of my child but since he has a flawed character, i intend to contest his visitation rights too. can i do that?

2006-12-03 01:58:48 · 29 answers · asked by Lisa A 1

I want to make my sexlife interesting by buying diffrent condoms for my husband. What are the varients available. How can I buy them as I want to surprise my husband

2006-12-03 01:51:30 · 10 answers · asked by Queen 1

hello friends
i am guy and i have seen many case abt indian girls marrying against their wishes to someone whom they don't love ... only because their parents ask them to .. and they don't want to break the tradition and culture .. all done they get married to someone else

now the crucial question is wat happens to them after marriage .. wat goes into their minds for rest of life .. say she was really believed her lover was good but .. does she still remembers him .. i had similar experience but i can't go and ask her .. i am just curious .. yeah do still remember her .. i am not married yet ..lost interest in that thing too

so guys be sincere and say through experience

2006-12-03 01:47:34 · 14 answers · asked by Atulya 2

My husband and I have owned "our" bar for month now. He manages, I do the accounting. Everything is going well, with one exception. He does not want me at the bar. He says he doesn't want a bar wife. Which I don't want to be in the least bit, Just be able to go to "our" bar if the baby goes to his grandma's every once in a while, and enjoy seeing our accomplishment. His case is that he is the boss and it is unprofessional that his wife is there. I have been very excited in our new endeavor and just because I want to go every once in while "i'm a bad mother", or "the house isn't clean enough". Before anyone tells me he is cheating. STOP. I just want to know if how he feels is a legitmate way for men to feel "and let him be a man for once" or is some double standard Bu)) Shi#. I would like somes ideas to end this never ending dispute with him.

2006-12-03 01:38:52 · 27 answers · asked by BB 2

My father said that it is written in the bible that a man/woman should leave the house of their parents when they get married. He said that it is written that when a man/woman gets married, their family should always come first before their parents. Can someone tell me where it is written in the bible? You see, I'm in a long distance relationship and after my studies I'll be going to my boyfriends place which is really far away from my parents place. I really feel bad thinking that I would be leaving them and wouldn't be able to see them for a very long time. I've been with them since I was a child and have never left them for so long. The longest I think that I left without seeing them was 2 months and when I get married I will move to another country where I won't be able to visit them if I want to. That's why I'm trying to find the scripture. I think it will help me. thanks

2006-12-03 01:37:44 · 5 answers · asked by dauntlessblythe 1

we have extremely stressful lives, a sick child and a struggling business,but it`s still not fair that i blame her

2006-12-03 01:35:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 01:32:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I finally get to go out for the night and take a break from all the hard work i do every day and night. Its been a while and all the friends i have are in other states. I live pretty far out, and usually dont have a car so i dont get into town much so i dont know anyone really in town. I just want to do something fun from 6pm and after. Anyone have any suggestions?

2006-12-03 01:30:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He will buy me something and be really nice, then turn around and do something like deliberately blowing bad breath on me (I hate that) and when I confront his rudeness he denies it or does more of it until it's obvious he wants a fight.
I will ask him if he is upset about the gift or doing something for me and he will tell me profusely that he wanted to do the something or for me to have the gift and he isn't mad or wanting to fight.
He will blow bad breath on me or 'accidently' break something or if he has the opportuinity...call me from his cell while we are talking on land lines and when I answer call waiting he hangs up, or he will have someone else call and hang up. He goes out of his way to be a pain and then deny it and try and cover it up only to do it again!
I thought it was immaturity but after all these years I'm thinking something else.
I need imput on my thoughts as he has really stepped up his behaviour and is being more abusive and intollerable. How to deal with it?

2006-12-03 01:25:11 · 10 answers · asked by Knuckledragger 4

I'm going through a divorce and I have had my new boyfriend for about 6 months now. He is awesome in bed, but I am having a horrible time climaxing. He's doing everything that would have made me go in the past, but I am not going. i started taking Wellbutrine to help me relax since i am going through a divorce, but am worried about it now. My boyfriend is GREAT, but I feel so NOT great since I can't go for myself and for him. Even when I try to do myself, it is taking a VERY long time....I might have awesome stamina, but this is getting ridiculious. Please help?

2006-12-03 01:22:54 · 10 answers · asked by ANGELA 3

I am married and not getting divorced, however I am currently using my married name which I plan to drop and only use my maiden name.
Will I have a hard time with the SS office? I know my maiden name is legally still my name but since im dropping my husband's name, will it be difficult to do so?

2006-12-03 01:10:28 · 10 answers · asked by Melissa M 1

2006-12-03 01:08:02 · 13 answers · asked by adz 1

i'm inlove with raul. i'll do evrything for him. i was hurt, becuase i'm afraid he will leave me. he always asked for a break up once problem arises. i just do not know if he loves me. sometimes he does ,sometimes not. we are living in the same roof for a year now. i was mentally and phusically battered. i gave up everything for him ,even my self respect. before he was hot...now... he was cold.... very complicated situation/relationship we had right now.
i wanted to leave him . things changed alot. i know, it is hard for me to cope up everything. i just wanted you guys to help me how .

i'm so shattered. tired. dismayed.

please help.

2006-12-03 01:03:26 · 6 answers · asked by alone927 2

My boyfriend and I broke up yesterday after 3 years together. It was a clean break, we talked and both agreed it was time to move on for various reasons. Is it normal to feel a huge void in my life this morning? I feel a part of me is missing. He was my first love.

2006-12-03 00:54:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

After 18 years of marriage, my ex left me to marry his secretary, who was also married and left her ex after 25 years of marriage. These two people destroyed two families and caused a lot of pain not only to me and her ex but also to four children from both sides. When I tell my story in details to some people, they tell me there is something called 'equilibrium in the universe' meaning, when someone does you harm, the universe gets unbalanced and tries to find its own balance. So as that can happen, the person who did you wrong will get back with the same intensity.

I have hoped my ex to divorce his current wife as both tried to build up their happiness on at least 6 people's misery. It is very difficult to forget, specially when my children have been living with them and they do not have a good relationship with his new wife.

2006-12-03 00:43:08 · 7 answers · asked by ladysorrow 7

My brother in law who is a white skinned moroccan, calls my sisters (who is African American and Caucasian) side of the family ni**ers. I know that sounds strong but thats what he been saying. They have been married for two years now. How can I get her to realize that this is completly unnaceptable?

2006-12-03 00:40:58 · 17 answers · asked by MIKE s 1

My wife doesnt approve my intention to still give financial support to my mother. I have spoken to her about this matter many times but it only leads us to heated arguments or she's giving me cold treatment. Shall I explain the matter to my widow mother that I cant do it or help her still and just keep it secret from my wife?

2006-12-03 00:33:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 00:27:33 · 18 answers · asked by voice1743 1

2006-12-03 00:25:15 · 17 answers · asked by DANIEL 1

2006-12-03 00:17:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous