hello friends
i am guy and i have seen many case abt indian girls marrying against their wishes to someone whom they don't love ... only because their parents ask them to .. and they don't want to break the tradition and culture .. all done they get married to someone else
now the crucial question is wat happens to them after marriage .. wat goes into their minds for rest of life .. say she was really believed her lover was good but .. does she still remembers him .. i had similar experience but i can't go and ask her .. i am just curious .. yeah do still remember her .. i am not married yet ..lost interest in that thing too
so guys be sincere and say through experience
2006-12-03 01:47:34 · 14 answers · asked by Atulya 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you were a good lover, she'll remember you for the rest of her life. She will do her daily thing and she'll think of her past.
She will think what would and could have been, even if her marriage to the other man is a happy one, she'll always wonder in the back of her mind. Therfore, she'll never forget you.
2006-12-03 01:53:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you were her first love then definitely you will live in her memories for ever but that does not mean that she must be thinking about you 24*7. Indian girls are brought up with lots of emotions and adjustments so once married whether by the person of their choice or other way, they try to adjust to the new surroundings so as not to hurt anyone. And then the day's routine does not give them enough time and opportunity to think about past. Moreover, if the husband is caring, understanding and there is a positive communication with him , why on earth will the girl worry or cry for the guy who let her marry somebody else.
Watch hindi movie 'Raincoat' + 'Hum dil de chuke sanam'. Both are not just other Indian Masala movies, you will get an insight into what rules the mind & the heart of Indian girls.
P.s.# Pay extra attention to all the dialogues between Mouli Ganguly & Ajay Devgan in Raincoat. It will give you a clear picture of your ex's daily life.
2006-12-03 11:05:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If a girl loves a boy and marries another the reasons may be
- not bold enough to convince parents
- just a past time. The cinema is over
- the boy is afraid of his parents
In case it is tru love, whatever may be the circumstances, she will marry only the boy she loved.
Otherwise there is no respect for the word - LOVE
2006-12-03 09:56:22 · answer #3 · answered by gauri s 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know more than that there is one thing, FATE. We don't have any force on our heart. You know we meet many people incidentally, with some out of them we wish to have a life but fate has its own reasons and we live our life with other people.
So she is also stuck in this situation. They can't stand against their families. It doesn't mean that they live happily after that but they kill their own love with their own hands instead of being rejected by their family. Because in eastern culture it totally strange to have a love or even a boy friend for a girl.
So what they simply do is, they simply sacrifice their life for the happiness of other. Others who decide for their tomorrow that will be their past on day and they have to live with it.
2006-12-03 09:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by Abrar 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
may i think, and view ,this way ? a person always weighs a value of the opposite option available around before plunging in to a marriage. and in reality takes to loving the persn just married because love being love as before a replacement of the stake-holder is an outcome of changes in time and space . can love fall behind ? marriage and love are mutually excluve .one just meta morphes in to other
along the line.
2006-12-03 10:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by akshay s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Once they are married they try their best to forget their lover and be honest to their partners,but this can happen only if the gal is well cultured
2006-12-04 10:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by zakkas porgee! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a Indian and a Tamilian girl If i love somebody and even if my family oppose i'll get married to him only not to anybody else even richer or smarter or handsome or anything
I don't feel rite to miss a person who we really love
and
I don't know about other girls who do that but i think it's very sure that they feel guilty for ruining a guy's life in the name of love
2006-12-03 09:56:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Divorce rate in India is one of the lowest.Reason,arranged marriages.Love these days changes with change of every season.Majority of the people having love marriages fall in love with somebody else within few months of marriage.
2006-12-03 13:34:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if the husband is reasonable, usually girls move ahead with life and stop repenting about their lost lovers ...
with kids and home responsibilities (and professional careers if there are any), no one can afford to live in the past ...
2006-12-04 02:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ONE OF MY COUSINS WIFE CONFIDED IN ME...SHE WAS MADLY IN LOVE WITH A GUY BUT MARRIED MY COUSIN UNDER FAMILY PRESSURE...SHE STILL REMEMBERS HER EX THOUGH SHE LOVES HER HUSBAND AND CHILDREN VERY MUCH BUT STILL SHE ACCEPTS THAT SHE SOMEWHERE IN THE HEART OF HER HEART FEELS THAT SHE IS NOT COMPLETELY HAPPY....I GUESS I HVE ANSWERED YOU QUESTION THE BEST WAY YOU CAN UNDERSTAND...
2006-12-04 06:25:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋