Marriage & Divorce - 3 December 2006

My husband i got married for the second time and the marriage is failing worse than it did the first time around.We met when i was 13 in middleschool then became friends when i was 16 and finally started dating when i was 18 i became pregnant at 19 and we got married it barley lasted two years it was awful.His parents paid child support for him so he could go to law school. I somehow managed to finish college with the help from my parents during this time ex. husband and i had no contact.We ran into each other when i was 24 yrs old and he wanted to see his daughter. We got back together on and off finally married again.Everything was fine we even took in his sisters son also my god son (both his parents died in car accident) because his grandparents could no longer care for him.But know everything has gone to hell we argue about everything and anything personality wise we have both changed dramatically. Is it worth it?

2006-12-03 04:40:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my dad and my stepmom are getting divorced here within the next few months, she cheated on him, with one of his friends and right now she is at a hotel with the guy she has two kids, son-20, and daughter-15, and her son is married living at hom with his wife and the thought his wife might be pregnant. my dad hasn't eatten much to nothing all weekend, i just came down friday from my moms house and all my dad has been doing is, clean, chat on the internet, watch tv, and try to keep the house warm. what is something i can do to make him happy, i have been working my butt off cleaning the house, keep wood in the house, pickin up and everything. what can i do to make him smile again? Oh, and he said that if his soon to be ex-wife doesn't stop f*****g with her daughter (not calling, she even told her not the call her unless it was an emergency) then he was going to press charges against her for adultery. but yeah please help FAST!

2006-12-03 04:35:59 · 23 answers · asked by ? 2

My husband has been writing back and forth to a woman another state away. he found her through myspace and is very flirty with her...such as calling her babe and complementing her legs and saying things like "if i weren't married you would be in big trouble" this has been going onf or a week. we havea very happy marriage and have only been married for 2 months!!! he says he contacted her cause we had a fight one day and he wanted to feel better. he has apologized and cried and cried and even went so far to say he would kill himself if i left. he is very sorry and i dont think he would do it again. but i dont know what to do. and is this cheating? any advice would be helpful!!!!

2006-12-03 04:35:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 49 good figure ect,and my husband really doesnt care about sex like he just is fine taking care of himself on the net porn! He can go over 2 weeks or more w/o intercourse ......I really feel he doesnt need me at all .That he could live alone and b fine.My friend is going thru the same thing except no net porn with him! Do we just adjust and live without and hope they want us on there own?sometime.? yes we can masterbate but theres no romance!

2006-12-03 04:35:52 · 4 answers · asked by jessy 3

He lives with them and they don't like him.Mom says he,s not going anywhere when they complain.

2006-12-03 04:34:58 · 5 answers · asked by whyknot 1

home another man. Well let me go back some. I am bisexual. we have had females over. We both play but he is not allowed to have sex with the other female. He says he is ok with this. But now he is coming up with me bring another guy home. I think its because he thinks if he can get me to have sex with another man I wil let him have sex with another female. What do you think? Help me please!!!!

2006-12-03 04:25:27 · 31 answers · asked by sweet_n_sassy_girl4 2

my husband tell me that he love me so dearly,,but he's so bossy!!.what love in action?.

2006-12-03 04:21:41 · 7 answers · asked by Lyn S 1

a couple around 40 with a 16yrs son.they had divorced 10 years ago.but they still love each other.the problem is about their son who's actin madly ,he needed his parents to be together.

2006-12-03 04:17:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel confused at times, My husband wronged me in the past and I don't trust him a whole lot, But for some reason, I feel like i can trust him in general . Am i in the process of healing?

2006-12-03 04:12:42 · 10 answers · asked by jayjay 2

my brother has a grudge against my mom for no reason. she has always been the best mother that i could say anyone could have. my dad and her have been trying to get everyone back together and soon to be united once again like we were years ago. so my question is.. WHY DOES HE BLAME EVERYTHING ON HER FOR EVERYTHING THAT GOES WRONG IN HIS LIFE?!??!?!
this has been going on for a few years now. please!! i need advice.. maybe you have answers bc we dont!

2006-12-03 04:11:01 · 9 answers · asked by Brittany 2

2006-12-03 04:10:51 · 15 answers · asked by Bradley 1

My husband has been wrking overtime then on weekends gets drunk and lets off steam .But we havent had sex in 2 weeks.I know he takes care of himself on net porn as an addicton.I just blew up and said he doesnt mind the store ect.and got kind a nasty about it! then he tried to have sex with me but I really wasnt interested at that moment as I just yelled to have sex it didnt seem right.We are almost 50.I figure a man on his own should want you and now that I made a fuss feel worse! I think now I will back off and never try to push a river again! Any advice ,Im hurt I had to yell about sex!

2006-12-03 04:09:22 · 9 answers · asked by jessy 3

my ex has been awful to me and our daughter, we own a house together but he's going to take us to court to get us out! i can't get rehoused and will have to move out of the area and in to a hostel its 25 min drive to my daughters school and my wrk we have to move away from family aswell do u think this is fair? i am the only one paying the mortage and keeping up to it but cos we are not married i have to get out! plus for past 18mths i have paid everything and he still gets half!!! has this happened to everyone and do you think its fair on my 3 yaer old daughter! it shows he doesnt care much doesnt it

2006-12-03 04:08:57 · 12 answers · asked by lillypops 4

Hey thank you all for you responses . its funny i told her the exact same things in your responses. but this 1 is for doing it for her children. you know i love them also and would do anything to see them happy, but its 1 thing to take the children to see grandparents and spend 4 days with them on thanksgiving, i think thats wonderful, but it still leaves the fact that she felt like she had to lie to me about it and her knowing this all along and us reuniting she didnt bring it all out . now what i said is , lydia you could have atleast involved me to show the children that i am still apart of your life, and we could have drove together and dropped them off for those days (being 1 is 16 and other is 13, and we could have got a motel together down there and atleast been together and showing me that you want this marriage, and giving me reassurance,that clearly showes here using the children to justify her missing that family, my opinion

2006-12-03 04:06:24 · 1 answers · asked by brian k 1

2006-12-03 04:01:36 · 17 answers · asked by Reo 5

My husband has made a new friend at work in the last couple months--Recently we went to a get-together (husband's work party) and this man and his wife were there, so I met them. They seemed nice at first just the guy is a little hyperactive. So we're all drinking and my husband has to go hang with everybody and I don't know anybody so I'm sitting at this table with these people and they talk and talk about all sorts of "teenager stuff" Then his wife brings up the time he "made out" with another guy to get in bed with another girl. I don't know what was going on or what they were thinking telling me this the 1st time they met me, but I just got up said "I'm out" and walked away. Then I was sitting at another table and they kept yelling across the room--come be sociable--I don't think they got it. I don't know if they are swingers or if he's bisexual or what but it made me very uncomfortable. And now they want us to come eat dinner with them and I don't want anythng to do with it

2006-12-03 03:57:51 · 20 answers · asked by nursgrad07 2

2006-12-03 03:56:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'd appreciate serious answers only. I feel so sad now because of some marital problems and giving insults won't help.

Thank you.

2006-12-03 03:55:26 · 6 answers · asked by Busy Diyosa 5

2006-12-03 03:53:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 03:48:24 · 23 answers · asked by tapansweetybeauty 1

Just curious to see if women prefer older or younger men when it comes to marriage. Did age play a factor in you getting married??

2006-12-03 03:45:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

please dont say leave him or kick him out as we have 2 kids and i love him but i need to know how to get over this and how long will it take. i feel numb and im sobing. i feel sick. he says hes sorry.

2006-12-03 03:40:54 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 03:38:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

To me i looked at this as betraying me her husband. 2 days before thanksgiving we reunite our love and stay together in our favoriate motel, and make love and talk about communication and being honest because because that was the only way it could work.
So i ask my wife what she was doing on thanksgiving, and she told me nothing, so i figured finaly after almost 3 years we could spend it together( we allways since our separation seen eachother and been intimate with eachother and atleast i know i have been totaly faithful to my wife, but i feel different about my spouse after signals i have been recieving. so we have a wonderful nite and i didnt hear from here the next morning even though we live only about 3 miles away from eachother. About 7 pm. i recieved (not in person or by phone conversation), a phone text message from my wife saying that she is taking her children to elcentro to go spend thanksgiving with her ex-spouses family. and stayed in their house for 4 days

2006-12-03 03:34:13 · 10 answers · asked by brian k 1

2006-12-03 03:14:11 · 10 answers · asked by budi 2

Why is it mother in laws never like son in laws and/or daughter in laws?

2006-12-03 03:12:56 · 7 answers · asked by mirmade13 3

My fiance left me and the kids 4 weeks ago to move in with a 19 year old coworker. I am 22 he is 24. He said he would never return and that he is happy, so instead of me crying I have been telling him I am happy and I am glad we are done. Well he called 2 days ago and told me that he feels he made a big mistake, he misses me, loves me, but also loves the new girl. he said if he comes home he will never leave again and he was crying. Everyone in his family who has met her says it will not last. Well then he called back and asked for 2 weeks to decide, I said I have been thru hell and I cannot wait that long, I told him 2 days and that is it. So he came over last night to decide. he said he came to tell me he was staying with her, but now that he sees me he wants to be here. he cried a lot. finally i said just tell me it is over so I can start to heal, I just need to hear it. He said I cannot say that because it is not true I want to try again when my heart is ready.

2006-12-03 03:11:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is a wonderful husband. Hard worker and very loving. We have 5 kids and he goes fishing/hunting every weekend. I work full time for the school board and he drives a truck. He gets home about an hour before me. I have the kids when he goes off. He doesnt go all weekend but part iof it. I know hw loves me and the kids but I dont get any free time for myvself. I deal with both of our ex spouses and all custody issues. (His kids live with us too) Are kids range from 3-9 years. We have 2 with severe ADHD, 1 with parasomnia (a severe sleeping disorder), and 1 with autisum...This is enough to make even the best of parents go nuts! I have mentioned before to maybe slack down on this but he doesnt see anything wrong with it. Like I said he is a great father and deserves some free time but I feel like I do to. When he does come home though I still ahve to grocery shop and run errands that is to hard for me to do with the kids...That is how I usually end up spending my free time. Why?

2006-12-03 02:58:25 · 17 answers · asked by nekiawhitaker 2

copy and paste the questions and answer them in order.
If you don't know how to copy and paste the questions, don't answer because I want people who can follow directions.

1) How long have you been married to your spouse?
2) How many kids do you have with this spouse?
3) How much did your wedding cost? If you don't remember, give an estimate/
4) What sort of things do you find about your spouse that's annoying?
5) What qualities do you like about your spouse?
6) How often do you argue?

2006-12-03 02:56:25 · 25 answers · asked by phrani c 3

She is 34 and we have a two year old son. I caught her having phone sex one night. Since then I have found out that she loves him. She is saying that for years I have ignored her and now that someone else cares I want to be caring and etc. I do love her but she won't stop talking to this guy. How am I supposed to feel . I get upset when he calls and etc. Am I wrong??

2006-12-03 02:51:20 · 13 answers · asked by mtjs06 1