My husband i got married for the second time and the marriage is failing worse than it did the first time around.We met when i was 13 in middleschool then became friends when i was 16 and finally started dating when i was 18 i became pregnant at 19 and we got married it barley lasted two years it was awful.His parents paid child support for him so he could go to law school. I somehow managed to finish college with the help from my parents during this time ex. husband and i had no contact.We ran into each other when i was 24 yrs old and he wanted to see his daughter. We got back together on and off finally married again.Everything was fine we even took in his sisters son also my god son (both his parents died in car accident) because his grandparents could no longer care for him.But know everything has gone to hell we argue about everything and anything personality wise we have both changed dramatically. Is it worth it?
2006-12-03 04:40:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He threatens to cheat when he want his way!The fight have gotten so bad we are getting physical and on more than one occasion fight the kids have gotten involved because he will ask them to take a side.
2006-12-03 04:42:13 · update #1
I was just about to write and tell you to try and work everything out. Get counseling, whatever.
Then I read the rest of the story. These kids are not referees, and you are not a punching bag. Get the hell out now. Get a lawyer that doesn't know this rat bastard. You have to move fast to protect these children, and yourself. Good luck.
2006-12-03 04:47:06 · answer #1 · answered by Firespider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can honestly say that you have tried with him..But your kids can not be brought up in that kind of enviroment, its not healthy.. Do you guys have custody of your god son?? Even if you don't, depending on how old old the kids are, you could more than likely get custody of both of them. Its not fair to any of you too stay in a relationship that results in fighting & especially physical fighting, Do something fast for the kids sakes if not for your own. take care
2006-12-03 12:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't sound mature. maybe it wasn't meant to be. there is a reason why you were divorced a first time, and whatever the problem, it obviously wasn't solved.
2006-12-03 13:03:28 · answer #3 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End the relationship now!
2006-12-03 12:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a womans' shelter and get help and counseling for you and your children...your husband needs professional help soon!
2006-12-03 13:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋