I am 49 good figure ect,and my husband really doesnt care about sex like he just is fine taking care of himself on the net porn! He can go over 2 weeks or more w/o intercourse ......I really feel he doesnt need me at all .That he could live alone and b fine.My friend is going thru the same thing except no net porn with him! Do we just adjust and live without and hope they want us on there own?sometime.? yes we can masterbate but theres no romance!
2006-12-03 04:35:52 · 4 answers · asked by jessy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that's the problem, no romance. you two should still be dating, try to get out once or twice a month. get him the hell off the net. i know you really don't need an answer, you know what to do, is it worth doing?
2006-12-03 04:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking about SEX or romance? There is a huge difference...
If you want romance then YOU will have to step up and be creative.Take showers/baths together dont ask him before hand just jump in. Light candles before you go to bed and maybe he will get the hint and realize that you want a lil more from him. Since he enjoys internet porn, get some porn on DVD for both of you to watch together and act out the scenes... lol. Not very romantic but at least its a start of togetherness.
From your other question I thought you were more worried about sex. I still say get the toys out and handle your own business in that area... and do it in front of him. He will get the picture and it might even open up some doors in the romance area where he will take the lead. But for now its up to you.
2006-12-03 12:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by bobndew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who needs romance
2006-12-03 12:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by mustang_silverado 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have an affair with a man who will give you the attention you deserve.
2006-12-03 12:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋