I told my wife several times to stop talking to man online after I found out they were showing themselves on webcam to each other and she didn't. I resorted to another way to convince her to say good-bye. I could never abuse the woman I love, but I feel I kicked around when all I did was make her say bye to someone disrupting our marriage. The way she is acting though,you'd think I smacked her but I didn't. What do I do now ?
2006-12-03 02:23:49 · 5 answers · asked by bopper 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell her to pack her trash or you do it for her..change the locks. Nothing wrong with on line romance, sex, or what ever as long as it does not create problems at home. But she has a right to do as she wishes, if she wasn't willing to stop, your marriage has been over. So get it done, out she goes.
She is just playing head games..sorry but she is.
2006-12-03 02:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The two of you need to have a honest and open communication and you need to express to her how you honestly feel about her actions. Apologize for being so forceful. however, deserving. And listen to her explanation of these behaviors. And possibly get some marriage counseling. This is cheating even if it is on-line and no actual touching is going on. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-03 10:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right to feel this way. She is not supposed to be doing that, let her know.
She has to know her boundaries. Tell her you won't stand for it. Don't get physical at all, think out your words and what you will say,
most times, especially with women, words cut deeper than actions.
2006-12-03 10:29:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to her and try and work things out....if she thinks that her behavior is ok and that you are the one that is wrong then you have a bigger problem then her just pouting over your anger....take a hard look at your relationship and try to work it out...if you can't and she won't see the error of her ways then move on with your life...good luck
2006-12-03 10:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should calmly discuss the issue with her and apologize if you feel that you are wrong in your behavior. Remember attack the behavior and not the person.
2006-12-03 10:27:07 · answer #5 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋