my partner has just left me and took the kids with her, what can i do or what should i do?

Answer 1

Time is a chance for reflection, what do you won't ?
what does she won't and can you both achive theses things.

Sadly some relationships do come to an end but some need too.
If its legal advice you need contact the citizens advice.
careline for counselling or families need fathers
but do talk to someone.
i hope this helps and good luck

Answer 2

You need to contact the Family Hotline and ask for a mediation service like Centacare or Lifeline. 1300 352 000. Schedule a mediation with her as soon as possible. If the mediation fails you may need to begin Court proceedings. Family Court has documents on your website to assist you www.familycourt.gov.au (Form 1, 2 and Affidavit (interim) kit for applicants - you will also need a copy of your marriage certificate and a Form 13 if financial issues are also needed - or, if you both decide to separate amicably a Form 11 consent application with supplement). Legal aid can help you with legal advice 1300 65 11 88, website www.legalaid.qld.gov.au . Hopefully the mediation can resolve your issues, a family break up is a major life change for everyone. Let her know that you want mediation so you can resolve the problems. I wish you all the best and hope you can resolve your issues! Blessings.

Answer 3

If you want her back do the following :
1- don't freek out and take any reaction
2- ask you self why
3- put your self in the shoes of your partner
4- try to find her good reasons for doing so
5- call her
6- speak with her
7- remind her that you love her and you want her back
8-tell her that the biggest trouble you both face can be so small if you are together
if you don't want her
call your lawyers

Answer 4

first is there a reason for her leaving? but in any case you need to be able to see your children as it is a parents right and good for your children to still have the stability of a father
my advise is if possible try and come to a amicable decision regarding you seeing the kids if she wont let you then get on to a laywer asap but try at all times to keep thing civil for the sake of your kids because although your partner may have left you and it may be really hard you have to remember that unlike your partner your children are yours for a life time and they shouldnt in any way suffer

Answer 5

Why did she leave? Do something wrong? If you love her go after her. most women leave just to see the reaction they get from their man. They actually want you to chase after them. If you love her, go get her and tell her that. Most likely she will come back....If you don't want her back, fine, just let her be. But always remember those are your kids, you should be there for them and their mother whenever they need it. BEST OF LUCK> mail me if you want more detail.....

Answer 6

this happened to my dad when i was eleven and he did not know where we were for nearly a year because of my mum. firstly dont panic..the kids are safe with their mum, find out where they are but do not go aggrevating the situation by getting angry with her on the doorstep..seek advice from a good solicitor and then get in touch with your partner and see if you can sort this out amiccably, with the least stress for your children. ask her why she left, and if she is coming back, if not im afraid she may fight for custody for your children, and by law the mother has more rights over the children than the dad (I know its unfair!) but you may have to fight for this if u want the kids. if it comes to this get yourself a good welfare officer too to look out for the children & then if you can work out a custody routine between you and your partner, thats great, if not you need to think about who the children are best off living with and weigh up the pros and cons of both & be realistic. if you think they are better off with your partner then thats right, if you feel they are best with you & you can provide for them then fight your cause, but whatever you do dont curse your partner in front of the children & if they are old enough to understand the situation keep them updated on little things so they dont worry about it all. they may even choose themselves who they want to live with. but so it doesnt get out of hand you need to stay in control & be there for your children, they need you. my dad got custody of us and it was the best decision, but he had to fight for a year and it got very ugly at times but he kept us safe & was diplomatic even though his heart was breaking. Good luck and if you need any more advice let me know! XXX

Answer 7

find her and if you have done something wrong, apologize and said you want her and the kids back. if she don't receive your call, call her parents or sister or brother...ask them to arrange a meeting between you and your partner, so both of you can talk and sort things out.

Answer 8

File a case or try to persuade child towards u or settle disputes with yor partner or mail me i will tell u later.....BECAUSE i m getting late to pick my kids from my mother-in-laws house.My wife took my kids n keft house.So SORRY!! DUDE .....Mail me i will tell u once i settle my problem.TIll then that jelly idea is good.I hope u hav a refrigerator
BYE!!

Answer 9

calm down.... chill dont think about it too much not knowing the problem is hard but im sure things will fix.... give it a couple of days i no it'll be the longest hardest days of your life but you'll make you no you can!! give her a ring and ask to see the kids if she refuses you must take legal action ... good luck mate

Answer 10

Celebrate!