I've been with him for 4 yrs and we have a baby together, he is only 19 and he has been telling me that he is confused. One day he says that he wants to be with me and the next he says that he doesn't, what does it mean and what should I do?
2006-12-03 14:42:28 · 5 answers · asked by dessy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change = yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
2006-12-03 14:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by kimmysue1983 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 15:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him. you can still find another man even though you have a baby. i was 19 when my first was born, his father was a POS, when i was 20 i met a man who excepted my son and is now his daddy and my husband. the other guy is wasting your time.
2006-12-03 15:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldnt be with a jerk like him you should be with somebody who
cares for you like me but i have a girl but holla at me later and you might can
get my digits you know
2006-12-03 14:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him....sounds like he is wasting your time_
2006-12-03 14:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋