We have been married for almost 13 years and she still acts like she did when they were first divorced. She is also remarried for 3 years.
2006-12-03 15:08:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Either she is just plain ol crazy or she's envious of what the two of you share. It could be the feeling that, he is capable of giving something to you that he could not or would not give to her. There obviously is something missing from her marriage that she is seeing in yours.
2006-12-03 15:14:59 · answer #1 · answered by mcbubbalicious 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe it is just her nature to be hostile. Maybe that's why he left her. Just a thought. Some people thrive on hostility and aren't happy if they don't have it somewhere in their life. If she is hostile to just you and nice to him, I might think she still loved him. But since she is hostile to both of you and it has been that long.........it's just her nature. Feel sorry for her husband and stay away as much as possible.
2006-12-03 23:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
She's petty and immature and selfish. She can't be a very happy person if she's behaving like that after almost 13 years. Sounds like she's jealous of what you and him have together. She envies you. Just ignore her and don't let her bring you down to her level. She's a PITA (pain in the a**)!
2006-12-03 23:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
13 years???? Girl has issues bigger than you or me can understand. Just take comfort in knowing she is whacked in the head and you're not. No, she doesn't still love him - maybe in some twisted way, but nothing you should worry about.
Also, like Dr. Phil says, we teach people how to treat us. If you let her, she'll treat you like dirt.
2006-12-03 23:18:18 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds to me that she just isn't a happy person and it's like they say "misery loves company". Just because she acts this way doesn't mean she still loves him, it could be that she can't stand the thought of him being so happy.
What ever her reason, I wouldn't waste my energy giving her another thought, she doesn't deserve it.
2006-12-03 23:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
she isn't happy with her life, and resents that u and your hubby are. she may be upset if she was cheated on and the divorce came about because of u, or maybe she has many regrets about things that happened in the past that she hasn't been able to work out.
2006-12-03 23:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Jealousy.
2006-12-03 23:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that she is jeaulous of you being in her first husband's life. She probably wishes things could have worked out for the two of them.
2006-12-03 23:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by Stareyes 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
some people just don't move on. maybe she feels there is no reason why she needs to be nice to you or your husband. it could also be that she still blames you for demise of their marriage.
2006-12-03 23:12:44 · answer #9 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well at least she doesnt act like she wants him back.
2006-12-03 23:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Tessa♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋