2006-12-03 13:14:30 · 11 answers · asked by charles u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stay away from this person do not have any more contact with them unless there is children involved and they are hurt. Move on with your life. Try to better yourself and stay as busy as you can to keep your mind off of this person. Life is way to short to be loving someone that is not loving you the way you want to be loved. Good Luck
2006-12-03 15:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change = yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. They don't respect women or children. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
2006-12-03 14:59:03 · answer #2 · answered by kimmysue1983 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if someone has cheated on u, and is continues to hurt u, than they have no love for u, and it's best to distance yourself, and stop all conversation with them, because the hurt will keep on and on. at some point u have to decide what's more important, being hurt, or just getting away from them. the relationship will never be the same, we can never recreate what we had with that person, as we have more than one hurt to deal with, as if cheating were not enough to do to us, they must also assinate your character and do more bad to u, after they've already broken your heart. this person has no concience and u can never get back the love u had for them, not ever.best to move on and not chance taking them back, basically we just have to tell ourselves we have had enough of that.
2006-12-03 13:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run, don't walk. He doesn't care for you regardless what he says to you. Find someone who cares for you and treats you better than he treats himself or others. If someone truely loves you, they will put you first.
2006-12-03 13:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know im not old enough to know but if they are doing it on porpuse then its time to say good bye. The reson for that is if they are doing this they must not love u all that much.
2006-12-03 13:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by aligata12 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im going through it rite now, i just want to run back in his arms so badly and pretend its all ok i dont what my life is going to be with out him so if i want him in my life i have to forgive, but y wud i want someone who hurts me so much it comes down to how much you love yourself, i know its going to be really hard, especially with him calling me over and over leaving apologies and having his family call, but i love myself too much to let anyway devalue me like that i know what im worth and i deserve a man who couldn't even imagine doing something to cause me pain and u deserve better too get out of it now b4 its too late or he does some permenant damage to you
2006-12-03 13:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by likeANangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to live in that situation, you need to find peace, I have been there, what I did is I invited Jesus into my heart, and now I have peace, cuz He cares and is love, He counsoled me through it.....God bless ya
2006-12-03 13:56:22 · answer #7 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave, thats what I have done. It is hard, and still is, to think about all of the horrible things she has done. betrayal is hard to understand or get over.
2006-12-03 13:42:18 · answer #8 · answered by Johnboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont stay with them. They arent worth it, and you will be happier without them.
2006-12-03 13:16:12 · answer #9 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave them...why stay around when you know you are not wanted_
2006-12-03 13:15:58 · answer #10 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋