My hubby is coming home from Iraq and I would greatly appreciate getting some ideas on how to spice things up...don't get me wrong I love our sex but i want to make it better because he has to go back in a month...Men I want things you would like and woman things you have done. Thanks.
2006-12-03 14:23:29 · 18 answers · asked by speedy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Buy some lingerie and get some new perfume. Get your nails done and a little color maybe at the tanning salon. Then get somewhere without children and maybe a hot tub. I am not sure if I am going out on a limb here but maybe some oils and a sexy video you both could enjoy( just to run in the background muted) Over that play some nice music you like that makes you both feel good. Dim those lights but not alot you dont have to make it SO planned just ease into it all and you both will enjoy eachother! Afterwards (like a couple hours later) Do it again a little less formal in the hot tub or shower to clean up. I hope this wasnt offensive. I know me and my man have lots of fun lately spicing things up because we have been together for 7 years now and we live together too. I know whatever you do youll make it special.
2006-12-03 14:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by fancy 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It would be best if you just do what you and you hubby are both comfortable with. He's been away for awhile and if you throw too much at him too fast, he might wonder where you learned it!
You know what your husband likes better than anyone, so you really don't need any advice. Trying too hard can really ruin the mood for both of you. He will be glad to see you and appreciate good quality time with you. The best sex is not rehearsed, choreographed, or taught, but sex with a true love.
2006-12-03 22:33:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I am not a guy but i can tell you that maybe you need to pick up the latest issue of Cosmopolitan and see all the crazy sex things that can spice your love life! that is what i use when life between me and my bf gets boring or routine to keep him on the edge! also, visit their webste @: www. cosmopolitan.com- you will have things and positions from this issue as well as being able to access the past issues and their contents! also, try doing something like making a shower into a pleasure experience with making out and maybe giving him a bj in the shower! or try a cozy bath and cosmopolitan has these sex positions for while taking a bath that my bf and i are about to try! i hope i helped and good luck!
2006-12-03 22:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How can you be so clueless! He just wants to be with you as often as possible. He's not going to be looking for acrobatics. Stick to the basics. If you've got a healthy foreplay, oral, and intercourse menu goin on then he'll be in hog heaven.
As far as spicing things up, the trick isn't bedroom tricks; those are just superficial fluff. The trick is to spice up the relationship and how you feel about each other. The bedroom spice is always there when you're with someone you're excited about. Parlor tricks are just bandaids for a bland relationship.
2006-12-03 22:30:06 · answer #4 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is really a very individual thing. Not everyone likes or enjoys the same things. The person you need to be talking to is your husband. You are married to a man and you don't know what his desires are sexually. Well, honey it is definitely time to have the conversation. And a lady would never divulge her secrets. Have a stripper pole installed in your bedroom. God bless****
2006-12-03 22:26:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just be spontanious and make the first move when he least expects it. Like grabbing him and dragging him in to the laundry room for a quickie of something like that. Or you can get really freaky and do some role-playing.
2006-12-03 22:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by Scott C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever anyone says to you just be you self,don't do anything new,then almost anything he'll want to do,stop and tell him that you love him,then do it,You'll be fine ,let him know you love him an have a great time.
2006-12-03 22:34:19 · answer #7 · answered by whyknot 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got to wear something sexy? Have a theme? French maid etc Sex is more about the foreplay than the act.
2006-12-03 22:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by hook 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if your hubby has been away he is going to be glad to see you. as far as the sex thing goes be yourself that is what attracted him to you in the first place. when he goes back i'm sure it won't be just the sex he'll be missing it will be you
2006-12-03 22:27:58 · answer #9 · answered by sharon r 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would have a hotel room with hot tub for the first night back with some fun extras from www.pureromance.com!
They have tasty lubes, gels etc.. You could send him back with a toy to use also!!
Lot's of physical Touch..Massages ETC..
Do yourself up good ....New hair cut/ color, new outfit, manicure/pedicure.
Shock him when he first sees you!!!
2006-12-03 22:35:58 · answer #10 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋